Just saying. How many yes's or maybe's can you click or hit on before you get some body that you start talking to .

Not being rude here or complainting here, I just think it's very funny how they have this so called match type thing and it doesn't work at all.

Crazy.

So how many clicks does it take to get a YES and or message from both party's. ??????????.

Just like how many people does it take to paint one side of a house.

i know! man it sucks

none of my mutual matches talk to me! how rudeee.

I would like to know why people on my Mutual Match do not contact me. Yet, out-of-town people do.

hellokerilynn.....you look kinda familiar

Totally agree....aren't they your mutual match for a reason? lol

Yeah that's what I was thinking too. VetGirl21.

i don't have ANY mutual matches and i never have had any before

It's just be somthin the old timrers round here don't pay much attention to anymore. Yeah I'll click on them but, more outta curiosity.

John

this is fkd, I thought that if they clicked yes and you clicked yes it would match up but how they get the message, i really don't know, is it at the same time you match up? Are they im'd, incoming message... someone matched you...And I was going through the guys and then clicked a lot of no's (some seemed like nice guys, but wouldn't click)and then once you say no, you can't change your mind, until when, further notice? thats screwed, how do you bring back the guys that you had second thoughts about? Is there a fee to pay for the upgrade or something?

dingo158 .. have you tired searching in the mutual matches your self to see if you have any matches or not ???.

2much4u I don't think you can bring back matches or so called matches that do not match up with you etc.

Your best bet on that one is to ask Mike on here.

I have had a couple, but only one talked to me. Maybe we should take the jump and connect with one another. Obviously, thats why we are all on here

roulette wheels...weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!

Maybe so Amy83.

But I've tired that, I email most people I think I might have something in comment with and get no respond at all.

Talk about being nice, kind etc etc. Zero respond's in weeks, day's etc.

A message is sent to their email address alerting them to the fact that they have someone who wants to meet them ....take the chance and email people on your match list, its the only way its going to work....

I don't get how the mutual match or viewed works but I am not a tecnical person and haven't paid attention that much. Can't you just email someone that interests you? And they email you back? If I have snubbed anyone it was on purpose.

Ok Mingles here it is at the top you will see 4 blue tabs the third one over says search. click on that you will have some options. the two I use the most are Basic search and advanced search the rest should be very similar to your old mingle site.

John

That's what I mostly due.. ChubbyCherubPoet.

hellokerilynn: well i'd talk to you, but then you're young and i'm old and then the police would knock on my door, asking my medical history, and it would jst be weirdo out, cuz well you're not old enough to drink and people would use that "does your daughter want a milkshake?" crap and it would just be embarrassing...

so yeah no :\

I meant do. but still no respond.