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Topic: switching teams..
no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:40 PM
. something I heard on the radio coming home just now...

... how would you react if your partner said.... they no longer wanted to play on your team.. so to speak..
... that he or she.... wants to pursue who they really are....

.... how would you react..
... would you feel the same way if they said... they have fallen in love with someone else.....

..... would you be sympathetic.
. or go ballistic...
. they reassure you it has nothing to do with you really... and they have been feeling this way for some time..
..


..... personally.. I don't know how I would feel about it....

.... I guess I would wish them all the best of luck.... I don't really see how I could be upset with them..

...

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soufiehere's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:46 PM
I am like the anti-stalker.
If someone does not want me, I am so gone.

I wish them the best, I would even help them
find what makes them happy.

It is all about the love.

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:48 PM
yes that seems to be the .. popular opinion on the radio show..


... although a few of the listeners went off the deep end..lol..

no photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:49 PM
This happened to a friend of mine in her early twenties. She was devastated. She said she could have handled it better if it was another woman.

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:49 PM
glad to see you are up and around again..flowerforyou

msharmony's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:49 PM
I concur with no1 and soufie

if they want someone else, they want someone else,, Im gone and best of luck,,, regardless of who the other is,,

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:50 PM
did she say why she was devastated..
.... can you elaborate for the viewers at home please..lol

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:51 PM
.. so you would not feel betrayed then.... the same way you would if they found another lover..?

no photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:52 PM
She took it personally that it was her fault in particular that he had switched teams.

msharmony's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:54 PM

.. so you would not feel betrayed then.... the same way you would if they found another lover..?


depends, if they had already been seeing someone , sure, but Im still gone

if they are just being honest about what they 'want', Id be grateful for their honesty and wish them the best,,,, and Im still gone,,,laugh

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:54 PM
Edited by no1phD on Sat 03/28/15 07:54 PM
Hmm.... but logically I don't think people switch.... because of the partner there with at that...time
.... at least I don't think you do..lol

no photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:55 PM
I'd be shocked if you switched teams on me and went with Pancho. tears

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:56 PM

I wonder how long it is before this turns into a gay bashing topic, makes me wonder if that was the OP's original intention.
.. hi Frankie..:thumbsup: ..
no I was hoping it would not go down that path actually..
.... you know I have nothing but love..

no photo
Sat 03/28/15 07:57 PM

I'd be shocked if you switched teams on me and went with Pancho. tears


Pancho is gorgeous - who wouldn't want him?

no photo
Sat 03/28/15 08:01 PM

hi Frankie..:thumbsup: ..
no I was hoping it would not go down that path actually..
.... you know I have nothing but love..

Hi No2, sorry No1, lol
OK, I believe you, but only because it's you.

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 08:03 PM
.. its not a topic on sexual preference..
.... it is one of..
..... how do you act in regards to your partner's lifestyle choice..
negatively or positively.

... it is a question of would you feel the same.. if your.. partner left you for..... opposite sex relationship.

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 08:04 PM
breathe Frankie..lol

no photo
Sat 03/28/15 08:05 PM
Is tetchy similar to touchy touchy? :angel:

no photo
Sat 03/28/15 08:06 PM

Is tetchy similar to touchy touchy? :angel:


laugh it could be...

no1phD's photo
Sat 03/28/15 08:09 PM
anywho... before this really goes off the rails....
..... it was just a interesting topic on the radio.. made me stop and think for a moment.... on how I would feel about it.... but whatever...

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