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Topic: Kinky Relationships
Santini559 Joined Fri 03/27/15 Posts: 2	Sat 03/28/15 01:10 PM
Can a relationship evolve if based on kink, BDSM, or fetishes?

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Sat 03/28/15 01:12 PM
Can a relationship evolve if based on kink, BDSM, or fetishes? Yes it can...been through all that s h i t & those relationships always turned out pretty **** up

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Sat 03/28/15 01:23 PM
Can a relationship evolve if based on kink, BDSM, or fetishes? Yes it can...been through all that s h i t & those relationships always turned out pretty **** up That's not necessarily true. Many people who are into BDSM, fetishes, etc have very healthy relationships. That said, if the kink is the only thing they have, the relationship won't work, just like any relationship built solely on sex.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sat 03/28/15 02:10 PM
sure as long as she stops when I use the safe word... ...... peanut butter fingers.. . but sometimes she forgets that's the safe word.. ... and thinks I'm making a request... ..... at that point things start to get a little awkward...

Argo Joined Mon 11/11/13 Posts: 12416	Sat 03/28/15 02:53 PM
Can a relationship evolve if based on kink, BDSM, or fetishes? only a fool would build his house on sandy ground...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Sat 03/28/15 04:37 PM
sure as long as she stops when I use the safe word... ...... peanut butter fingers.. . but sometimes she forgets that's the safe word.. ... and thinks I'm making a request... ..... at that point things start to get a little awkward... I doubt I will live to see the day you won't have me in stitches

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Sat 03/28/15 04:39 PM
Can a relationship evolve if based on kink, BDSM, or fetishes? Yes it can...been through all that s h i t & those relationships always turned out pretty **** up That's not necessarily true. Many people who are into BDSM, fetishes, etc have very healthy relationships. That said, if the kink is the only thing they have, the relationship won't work, just like any relationship built solely on sex. ^^^^^this

tta1128 Joined Sun 12/14/14 Posts: 514	Sat 03/28/15 04:53 PM
sure as long as she stops when I use the safe word... ...... peanut butter fingers.. . but sometimes she forgets that's the safe word.. ... and thinks I'm making a request... ..... at that point things start to get a little awkward... what? YOU need a safe word???

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Sat 03/28/15 04:53 PM
I have known a couple for twenty years who are into kink and they have a great relationship. All of us are different and one man's horror story is another man's party.

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Sat 03/28/15 04:59 PM
Oh yes it's possible

funkyfranky Joined Tue 05/01/12 Posts: 5966	Sat 03/28/15 06:28 PM
I don't think it can. Certainly not without love. If its just kinky sex then never, they would get bored with each other, but if two people are in love but enjoy the brighter side of life then yes I suppose they could. I don't think the brighter side of life was the correct expression to use but I can't be arsed starting again.

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Sat 03/28/15 06:36 PM
Can a relationship evolve if based on kink, BDSM, or fetishes? Just like the old saying, " I guess the honeymoon is over" When the out side world steps in.. Kids, money issues etc... Then what do you have? Unless there is compatibly.. Other than sex.. Like loyalty & commitment, I don't see it.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 03/28/15 11:15 PM
I agree with franky, love is the key. As long as both parties are on board with whatever kink works for them, then more power to them.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Sun 03/29/15 12:01 AM
Yes. It evolves into something extreme.

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Sun 03/29/15 12:06 AM
extremely kinky..

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sun 03/29/15 12:11 AM
If the basic relationship fundamentals are in place, of course...

funcple2 Joined Mon 04/06/15 Posts: 6	Mon 04/06/15 01:25 AM
Love kinky