Topic: Five Essential Character Qualities
DadCat's photo
Mon 03/23/15 11:14 AM

Pick five essential character qualities which discerns for you whether or not someone has the inner goods necessary to sustain a healthy relationship.

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Do you do this to promote your own private services or collect information to put on your group facebook page?

After the several posts by you in which you promote them, I am suspicious of your intentions or motivations.

I think in fairness to this community you should offer full disclosure.

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Mon 03/23/15 11:39 AM
You're so paranoid and suspicious. I find that sexy. smokin

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Mon 03/23/15 11:52 AM
Pick five essential character qualities which discerns for you whether or not someone has the inner goods necessary to sustain a healthy relationship.
(any relationship in general)


considerate/kind
ethical/moral
respectful/polite
dependable/reliable
pleasantly surprising bigsmile

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 03/23/15 12:25 PM

As long as you don't have man boobs...

Oh dear god, no man boobs!!! noway
Maybe we should make a list of 5 NO WAYS!
Guess we did those before, so much happens here, I keep losing track, lol. But NO friggin man boobs! Hair on back at least you can wax, but man boobs...
Silly thing is, if you are with a man and grow older, you will still love him even when he does get man boobs, hair on his back, hair growing out of his ears, on is his ears and eyebrow hairs about 3" long. But thinking about hooking up with someone who's got all that, freaks me out. ohwell Just a high 'eeeewww' level

I'm side tracking ... see what mayhem man-boobs can cause?!?!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 03/23/15 12:28 PM
Passionate (not just sex, but about life in general as well)
Intelligent
Good sense of humour
Strong
Loving & caring

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Mon 03/23/15 12:35 PM
Friendship
Respect
Love
Peace
Patient

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Mon 03/23/15 12:44 PM
Compassionate
Caring
Humility
Modesty
Respectful to others, regardless of their status

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 03/23/15 12:52 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Mon 03/23/15 12:52 PM

Compassionate
Caring
Humility
Modesty
Respectful to others, regardless of their status


Humility??? ohwell
Modesty I can understand but... Not judging, just interested in why? I don't consider humility a positive trait, I prefer ppl who know their worth without being arrogant about it. But maybe a difference between the Dutch and UK? I remember my British ex also mentioned humility a lot. Is it considered an asset in the UK?

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Mon 03/23/15 01:00 PM
Edited by joethebricky on Mon 03/23/15 01:01 PM


Compassionate
Caring
Humility
Modesty
Respectful to others, regardless of their status


Humility??? ohwell
Modesty I can understand but... Not judging, just interested in why? I don't consider humility a positive trait, I prefer ppl who know their worth without being arrogant about it. But maybe a difference between the Dutch and UK? I remember my British ex also mentioned humility a lot. Is it considered an asset in the UK?

Perhaps humble would have been a better word.
I find nothing more attractive than a pretty girl who just doesn't realize how nice she is. It makes her even nicer.
What I can't stand is a pretty girl who's stuck up her own backside.

Hope that sort of explains it.

You said it yourself, a person who knows their worth without being arrogant, humility.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 03/23/15 01:03 PM



Compassionate
Caring
Humility
Modesty
Respectful to others, regardless of their status


Humility??? ohwell
Modesty I can understand but... Not judging, just interested in why? I don't consider humility a positive trait, I prefer ppl who know their worth without being arrogant about it. But maybe a difference between the Dutch and UK? I remember my British ex also mentioned humility a lot. Is it considered an asset in the UK?

Perhaps humble would have been a better word.
I find nothing more attractive than a pretty girl who just doesn't realize how nice she is. It makes her even nicer.
What I can't stand is a pretty girl who's stuck up her own backside.

Hope that sort of explains it.

You said it yourself, a person who knows their worth without being arrogant, humility.


flowerforyou

Rock's photo
Mon 03/23/15 02:33 PM
Kind
Loving
Honest
Compassionate
Humble

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 03/23/15 02:55 PM

I sometimes think people (both genders) sort of stop putting effort into keeping their relationship alive after they've moved in and/or gotten married. First time's always brilliant, but sort of as if they've reached their goal: a relationship, then 'sag' on the settee and stop tucking their tummies in, burp during and after dinner etc. Figuratively of course. but that kind of feel. Almost taking each other for granted. And I think this sometimes happens real fast.
If ppl kept treating each other as if they were still dating, divorce rates might actually drop.

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Mon 03/23/15 02:58 PM
I think women generally try to 'Keep a Man' not just get him.

soufiehere's photo
Mon 03/23/15 04:03 PM
If you cannot have a discussion about the opposite sex,
without bashing them and targeting members, kindly
take it elsewhere.

Edited.

soufie
Site Moderator

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Mon 03/23/15 04:28 PM
i know i missed something really good. now what to do with all this popcorn

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Tue 03/24/15 06:03 PM

Calm
Open/fair minded.
Excellent sense of humor.
Likes shirtless profile pics.

I know that's only 4.
I'm not the demanding type.


like shirtless profiles? rofl rofl rofl

too cute

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Tue 03/24/15 06:03 PM
all of these are great ! :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile: :smile:

Godistheanswer's photo
Tue 03/24/15 06:07 PM
My five are:
KIND
CARING
AFFECTIONATE
TRUE
FUN

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Tue 03/24/15 06:15 PM
Edited by BeautyBrownEyes on Tue 03/24/15 06:27 PM


Pick five essential character qualities which discerns for you whether or not someone has the inner goods necessary to sustain a healthy relationship.

....



Do you do this to promote your own private services or collect information to put on your group facebook page?

After the several posts by you in which you promote them, I am suspicious of your intentions or motivations.

I think in fairness to this community you should offer full disclosure.


LOL ... just starting a topic for discussion here is all. It's a great topic. I don't have any private services to promote lol. I don't collect information for anything. Not promoting anything, or not trying to promote anything. Just trying to be social and share in mingling like everyone else is here on this site in the forums for. To discuss, to socialize, to laugh, to visit, and have fun, and make friends, and get to know eachother. Those are my only intentions. That's it! Nothing like you're "being suspicious" about. Don't worry about things like that. I am not that kind of person. I am a very honest, and fun-loving person as a matter of fact :smile:

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Tue 03/24/15 06:22 PM
Edited by BeautyBrownEyes on Tue 03/24/15 06:37 PM


As long as you don't have man boobs...

Oh dear god, no man boobs!!! noway
Maybe we should make a list of 5 NO WAYS!
Guess we did those before, so much happens here, I keep losing track, lol. But NO friggin man boobs! Hair on back at least you can wax, but man boobs...
Silly thing is, if you are with a man and grow older, you will still love him even when he does get man boobs, hair on his back, hair growing out of his ears, on is his ears and eyebrow hairs about 3" long. But thinking about hooking up with someone who's got all that, freaks me out. ohwell Just a high 'eeeewww' level

I'm side tracking ... see what mayhem man-boobs can cause?!?!



OOOHHH !!! 5 No Ways.. would be 5 Can't Stands! LOL TOO CUTE.

Actually can't stands may or can also be things you just can not tolerate, kind of thing. I thought of making that as another topic starting another thread, List 10 Can't Stands (which traits on which you'��d prefer not to compromise. Things you would not want to put up with in a relationship, like for me, I can't stand rudeness; I would not be with someone who was rude a lot of the time). Then another topic started with List your 10 Must Haves: preferences that indicate which important qualities in a partner that you must have. :smile: