In a long term relationship with man but not sure if that's what I want anymore we also have young kids together. I keep looking at women and curious what it will be like to go with one. Need help not sure what to do :/

Well.. Jumping into or looking for a relationship.. While you are in a committed relationship is NEVER a good idea.
Wait until you are free & then consider bi- sexuality/ homosexuality.. IMO.

Because right now.. You may just be looking to feel better or escape your present relationship.

Good luck.

Thanks for reply :) I wouldn't jump into or look for relationship while I'm with someone it's not fair on them and have to think of kids first. It's just confusing cause I'm not sure what I want.

There is a lot to read on bi- curious.
There is a distinct difference between bi-curious & bisexuality.
Bi-curious.. Has never & may never act on their curiosity.
You could Goggle it.

Sometimes relationships just run their course, or the sparkle just leaves it. Staying together for the sake of the kids though isn't a reason to stay with someone though, as you'll just resent the guy even more. If you have a chance to save the relationship, then try, but if it's a lost cause, then you deserve a life and just walk away. I wish you all the best, ok?

In my opinion you need to take a real deep look at what you really want in life and the effect it will have in your current family life.

You seem to be in a somewhat stabile relationship right now.. no mention of abuse or even lack of love. You have two young kids,that may or may not be at the age where they would understand what is happening.

Everyone has the right to be happy in life.. everyone.

I personally would wait until the kids were older.. old enough to handle the change in their life, then if that is what you really want in life.. then leave and seek what you really want...JMO

Can I watch

Haha there's nothing here for you to watch if there ever is ill give you a shout lol

Okay. now you are scaring me.
Are we going to need another thread for voyeurism & exhibitionism ?

Hmm... it's not often you hear a guy say.. I wonder what it'd be like to be with a dude...hmm.. but when you hear a woman say that about another woman....sooo..hot... perhaps it's just me..

Whatever takes your fancy, why don't you start one.

These are my opinions. Take them as you will.
Note the neon sign above my head. It reads: "Don't believe anything I say".

Whatever you choose to do, you need to be honest with your current partner. I suspect by the lack of a photo and profile details that you are already heading down a path of not being honest to this man.

How do you expect him to feel and react when he discovers your behavior? How do you expect another potential partner to feel when they discover what you are doing? Have you ever watched the TV show Cheaters? A lot of emotions get stirred up and it is a messy situation. Your children may get caught up when the warring parents lose focus on them.

It is also a red flag to anyone serious about conversing with you as your profile has the trademarks of a scammer. You are not being honest to potential people you want to meet here either.

Id say, it doesn't matter what else you are looking at, if you have made kids inside of a commitment, I would stay true to my commitment

thoughts and curiosity come and go,, family is permanent,,,

if you haven't the will, end one before you start another,,