Thanks, freeonthree.

I agree that it all comes down to communicating with each other, but what we are trying to figure out is why men & women pull this vanishing act in the first! Any ideas?

I think they find other people, and are too afraid to tell you because they aren't being men and be honest with themselves or you!!

Too many possible answers here hun. I've been rejected because of my artifical leg, so I disclose that in my profile now, same with my income. Hell, i've always known why I was rejected. Not cute enough, don't believe in god, I don't drink or dance, I ride a trike, and wont get dressed up for anything, I love pot, im opinionated, brutily honest, and generally socially unacceptable to some people.
I need to know more about thir relationship. When did they meet ?, have the actually been together in person ? Have they had sex or made love, and did they wait a respectable amount of time before doing so ? Hell, maybe he likes to smoke weed, and she told him she hate it, who know's. Maybe they went out for drinks, and she got just a little too drunk ? I need more information to even begin to try to figure this out. Maybe he just wanted a roll in the hay and didnt get it. Im sorry, but im in the dark here. Dennis

If I found someone else, I would call and tell her, but we can't rule that out.

They get scared or just dont want to be stalked or held to the fire. Sometimes being a free spirt involves saying HEY DON"T GET HUNG UP. I like being single, I dont have to punch a time clock for anyone and well yes it is lonely sometimes but I can always move on. I dont ever set out to intnetionally hurt anyone but, if you try to make me change forget it. Won't happen. And sometimes being silent is way easier then confronting the problem wich can turn into a bad situation. If the person says NO STRINGS take them at their word and stick to it. If they want a fling and that is in the stars well dont get emtionally involved cause your only setting yourself up. Been there done that. I don't get attached because of dissapoinment. I only get attached to my bikes cause they dont ***** when I dont come home on time. Oh yeah they can be alot more fun too sometimes.

VERY WELL SAID RAVENSLOVE

Great Advice..
Same thing happened to me.

things was going Great and all of a sudden out of nowhere.
No more calls, No more emails.

No reason Why.

Very wise words RavensLove. Wish more people would do that instead of the slidht hints. Tell me!!

For you!!!

Then again, are we talking internet relationship or in person?

Mine was in Person... Dated for a month and ahalf.

things was Awesome with us.. Or so I thought.

Went from calling me everyday and going out every weekend...
To absolutly, NO CONTACT AT ALL.

Never got a reason.

I Agree... Finish what you start....

When talking about an actual relationship between two people I think this applies to both situations, Nervesgone.

The feelings and emotions are the same.

agreed feelings and emotions are the same

So you understand perfectly what I'm saying, FloridaGal. I only wish you didn't have to experience it first hand!

Well you are among friends now...and we talk about EVERYTHING! Glad you are with us, girl!

Hey Kojak!

Are you trying to start something?

I agree, everyone deserves to be informed in the event of loss of interest.

Yes I understand far to well.
Thank You for the Kind Words.
I have not made to many friends on this site.

I decided to try posting to see If I could find people like myself.

I am a very Friendly person, I seldom meet peole in life that I dont become friends with.

Hoping to find some here soon.

I sure am, I think you would approve of her

I like to try to finish at the same time as my partner and am very often successful!! But then it all starts all over again!!

Well you deserve only the best, hun!

awe ty hun and she is the best no one will ever measure up to her in my mind.