To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for,
but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies.
To let go is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny,
but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.
To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.
To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future

Thank you so much for those words! The timing is perfect and expresses what I have been going through. They are, for me wise and right on the money.

true words
thanks for sharing

Very true words, and letting go can be one of the hardest things in life to do, but sometimes in order to be truly happy in the end, its what we must do...thanks for sharing

Thanks ladies


it takes a strong person to realize this is what u have to do sometimes when u love someone, and an even stronger person to actually do it!

very true Jamie
thanks again

said perfeclty jaime

SO TRUE....SO TRUE....

Great words Jamie

So true Jamie,thanks for sharing that with us

Very powerful insight, very nice, Thanks

to let go, was the worst thing i had to do....

jamie thank u, for expressing that for me

wow
nice Jamie

Yeah this is a good one by Thomas Allender, S.J.



But a good read thanks for sharing