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Topic: Men and Women's Needs/Wants
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Sun 03/01/15 11:14 AM
Men want pie. ... and a sammich.

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Sun 03/01/15 11:50 AM
Men want pie. ... and a sammich. and a picnic sounds nice too.

Unknow Joined Sat 02/01/14 Posts: 177	Sun 03/01/15 12:16 PM
from the comments one can tell that some of "us" are not ready for a serious relationship. "we" seem like "we're" cracking some hard things out there. Hahahaha! but thanks God (*sorry if you're an Atheists) we have people like #no1phD. From your reasoning Sir I have gotten something. I will be very proud o myself to learn from women what they really need/want in men than sound like they are a thorn in men's buttocks! :) "...woman that cares about my needs as much as I care for her needs..." these is so much meaning in this message Mr. ^5

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 03/02/15 06:42 AM
Men want pie. Yes yes,PIE ,meat pie!!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 03/02/15 06:47 AM
what do men really want in women? what do women really want in men? *from your own perspective Far as what men wants,can only speak for me,and that's LOVE and RESPECT,and for women,in my opinion,they want us to take charge while they be in charge the SAME DAMM TIME!!!

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 03/02/15 07:59 AM Edited by no1phD on Mon 03/02/15 08:04 AM
..hmm.. I have learnt this much.. .. in the beginning stages of relationship.... you work very hard at letting your partner know... that you want to meet their needs... that is you really want to give their needs your full attention..... you rise up in the morning thinking only of their needs..mmm... lunchtime.. you're alone in the stockroom thinking only about their needs..mmm... you arrived home from work after a very hard hard day.. then you slave over a hot hot.. hot stove.. hoping that they will devour your ... dinner ,you made lovingly for them.... then you fill the kitchen sink full of hot soapy sudsy water.... so you can wash the dishes the dirty dirty dishes for them..... as they stand behind you pouring.... a hot , hot mmmcoffee for themself... ... and then you think quietly to yourself...hmm.. I've been thinking about them.... trying very hard to satisfy their needs all day..... and now they have just poured themselves a hot cup of coffee...wtf.. how about my needs.... where's my coffee.... thus begins the end of meeting each others needs..lol . . . .

DavidCommaGeek Joined Thu 01/08/15 Posts: 537	Mon 03/02/15 09:35 AM
Here's one survey. Not sure how useful the replies are, but this is what I have observed: http://mingle2.com/topic/424548

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 03/02/15 10:39 AM
The ideal woman have a baby in the morning, and be out weeding the garden that same afternoon. I hear that's how it used to be, in the good old days. Until men folk realized we had the power all along. More intelligent, lives longer, accountable, nurturing. Women +1

sahotarajnish Joined Mon 04/28/14 Posts: 4	Mon 03/02/15 10:40 AM
Hi

usman7861 Joined Mon 11/03/14 Posts: 1	Mon 03/02/15 11:55 AM
Only sex

whitesnoop88 Joined Sat 03/29/14 Posts: 2	Mon 03/02/15 10:21 PM
True

Amerijin Joined Mon 03/02/15 Posts: 1	Mon 03/02/15 10:49 PM
Yes! And to be loved for who you are.

Foursure Joined Fri 01/09/15 Posts: 3231	Mon 03/02/15 10:55 PM
what do men really want in women? what do women really want in men? from your own perspective Women value - strength of character - to say what you mean and to stand by what you say. They want someone they can rely on. Women see things more in black and white - right or wrong. Men want a good time without any hassles. They want to do their own thing and still have the love and attention of the woman in their life. He usually has a lot of 'grey' areas. Will plead ignorance a lot - they didn't know this or that was what you wanted. Women want validation that their time and energy is being spent on a person worthy of such efforts. This is why men say that women nag them. Men see these expectations as a stranglehold on their masculinity - they just don't remember anything of any conversation ever. So when challenged about what they said they would do and didn't, they want the woman to just shup! My answers are from my own (long term) experiences as the OP asked from your own perspective. Stay friendly folks

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Mon 03/02/15 10:56 PM
Women want to be controlled. It's that simple. But they've shot themselves in the foot with this woman question nonsense. Because men aren't allowed to beat them up anymore. So when they get sassy or whatever it goes unpunished. And that's when their primordial instincts resurface and they start longing for a "real man" again. No. Women are to be treated with respect. It's that simple. Men are not allowed to beat women up because everyone knows men are designed to protect women. Men who beat up women are just cowards not real men.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Mon 03/02/15 11:13 PM
Women want to be controlled. It's that simple. But they've shot themselves in the foot with this woman question nonsense. Because men aren't allowed to beat them up anymore. So when they get sassy or whatever it goes unpunished. And that's when their primordial instincts resurface and they start longing for a "real man" again. No. Women are to be treated with respect. It's that simple. Men are not allowed to beat women up because everyone knows men are designed to protect women. Men who beat up women are just cowards not real men. That's the first thing you've said about guys that I agree with! Personally, put those cowards in a Boxing ring with me and see how they like it when they come up against someone who DOES hit back? No time for women beaters! Absolute scum!!!

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 03/02/15 11:19 PM
Men want pie. yes . for midnight snack

Happiness2U Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 2504	Mon 03/02/15 11:29 PM
Girls just wanna have fun... Men want tacos...

Happiness2U Joined Thu 06/19/14 Posts: 2504	Mon 03/02/15 11:30 PM
Women want to be controlled. It's that simple. But they've shot themselves in the foot with this woman question nonsense. Because men aren't allowed to beat them up anymore. So when they get sassy or whatever it goes unpunished. And that's when their primordial instincts resurface and they start longing for a "real man" again. No. Women are to be treated with respect. It's that simple. Men are not allowed to beat women up because everyone knows men are designed to protect women. Men who beat up women are just cowards not real men. Yay Estelle!!!

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Mon 03/02/15 11:34 PM
Girls just wanna have fun... Men want tacos... Maybe American men do? I'd rather have a full Scottish breakfast? 3 slices of bacon, 3 square sliced sausage, 2 fried eggs, black pudding, fried bread, beans, mushrooms, hash browns and a fried potato scone! Sets you up for a hard days work!

krishnashri Joined Mon 03/02/15 Posts: 36	Tue 03/03/15 12:40 AM
Just both need some happiness and some feelings from other people