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| Topic: Why Would You Want to Date Me? | |
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Perfection, just like the "nice guy", never win. It is all the flaws that build the character, which creates the potential for drama that women are so attracted too. Right? Women are attracted to drama? Maybe in a movie. What's with all these blanket statements? Flaws are horrible. That is why we try all our lives polishing our faults to become a better person. Flaws build nothing, certainly not character. We work on our flaws. There is nothing admirable or character building about them. |
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I can open a pasta sauce jar, I suppose that would attract a few
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I bought a special tool for popping cans open. Works like a charm. Those suckers were hard to open up.
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My intellect. Everyone likes me for the wide range of useful information I have. I don't think this trait is easy for people to see at first, well; until they have a problem and I have a useful idea for them... Are you sure that everyone likes you? |
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I bought a special tool for popping cans open. Works like a charm. You women and your mechanical replacements! No wonder we males can't get dates! Anyway, for me... The words that keep popping up in my relationships are "talkative", "cute", and "just the right amount of crazy". I may have gotten the words "witty" and "smart" a couple times, and I remember one female complimenting me on my creativity once. |
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I realized when I wrote that but there is no mechanical replacement for a sweet, kind, beautiful flesh and blood man. God help me, how I love them.
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My intellect. Everyone likes me for the wide range of useful information I have. I don't think this trait is easy for people to see at first, well; until they have a problem and I have a useful idea for them... Are you sure that everyone likes you? Bahahahaha |
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Having a good sense of humour, easy going, generous , kind and being attentive and loving. These reason I am going to keep out of the equation because most men have all these attribute or at least they can pretend they have them (this is for the men who see dating woman as just a game).
The single most important factor which has attracted the women that I have dated in the past five years has been my financial security i.e. MONEY! I know money cannot buy love or happiness. But I tell you in today's day and age with out money you cannot be happy and if you aren't happy it's difficult to bring out your best attributes and be at your most attractive. Also woman decide who they might want to date and who they don't want to date. According to this they look out for our positive qualities or they are looking out for the negative ones. I think it's fair to say one sees what they usually want to see. I believe we all have what it takes to come of as interesting to the opposite sex. I also believe we also posses character traits which the opposite sex don't find attractive . Hence it boils down to what they want to see in us. That depends very much on the first impression that we make on them. Which naturally brings us back to try to be at our best, humorous self, protesting positive energy etc. This will allow the ladies to see the good in you rather then the bad and without money it's just not possible to be at our best nowadays. |
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I am not perfect! I am me and there is no other like me! I am faithful and honest. I love and forgive. I listen and communicate fairly well. I have a witty personality. Ok now just read my profile. Haha! I am a box of chocolates.
  
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Having a good sense of humour, easy going, generous , kind and being attentive and loving. These reason I am going to keep out of the equation because most men have all these attribute or at least they can pretend they have them (this is for the men who see dating woman as just a game). The single most important factor which has attracted the women that I have dated in the past five years has been my financial security i.e. MONEY! I know money cannot buy love or happiness. But I tell you in today's day and age with out money you cannot be happy and if you aren't happy it's difficult to bring out your best attributes and be at your most attractive. Also woman decide who they might want to date and who they don't want to date. According to this they look out for our positive qualities or they are looking out for the negative ones. I think it's fair to say one sees what they usually want to see. I believe we all have what it takes to come of as interesting to the opposite sex. I also believe we also posses character traits which the opposite sex don't find attractive . Hence it boils down to what they want to see in us. That depends very much on the first impression that we make on them. Which naturally brings us back to try to be at our best, humorous self, protesting positive energy etc. This will allow the ladies to see the good in you rather then the bad and without money it's just not possible to be at our best nowadays. Did you mean "projecting" positive energy rather than "protesting"? I do agree with you about seeing what we want to see. We can be in love with the idea of being in love - love is blind. |
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I honestly don't know, but if I had to guess I'd say because I was brought up right, taught to care for and have a genuine respect for people, hardwork, and life in general.
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Flaws are horrible. That is why we try all our lives polishing our faults to become a better person. Flaws build nothing, certainly not character. We work on our flaws. There is nothing admirable or character building about them. If someone had no flaws that would make them perfect by default. Now if someone is perfect that would mean that every action and opinion they did/had would always be right therefore any opinion you had that was in disagreement with theirs would by default be imperfect and incorrect. ... Moral, Careful what you wish for  |
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I respect women,honest, hard working, I am over the crazy party years phase in my life,good cook,and I am able to deal with real life problems with maturity and not anger.
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What makes me attractive?....Guess that depends on who is looking at me, everybody looks for something different. I would hope that besides outward appearance that they would see my heart, enjoy my sense of humour and respect my intelligence
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Well, I would say that I am honest, compassionate, have understanding for others, loyal, very caring, and with my partner I am also fire
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I bought a special tool for popping cans open. Works like a charm. Those suckers were hard to open up. I like listening to you talk. 
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I think my communication skills are a plus, but I'm not overly compassionate on minor (petty) affairs.
This can be a big negative for most women. On a larger scale I do charity and I help many people recover from physical pain; it's just the minor emotional disturbances, those that will soon pass on their own, that I have difficulty lingering on. |
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I honestly don't know, but if I had to guess I'd say because I was brought up right, taught to care for and have a genuine respect for people, hardwork, and life in general. I could kinda see this in your posts.
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Loyalty to others? The older I get the more respect I have for people who've been through a lot of hardships. Maybe a good listener also. Sometimes I find it amusing when others ask my advice. Not always received well but it's nice to know they care about what I think. I think they don't want the sugar coated answer. Never forgetting a good deed? I like to see that in other people so I treat them the same way they treat me.
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