I'm 34, single,never been married, no children, but I'm still NOT perfect.

I agree Soufie, if you didn't have a partner you'd be right in my line of fire lmao because you are

I never got married until last July Debbie, in Mauritius and i'm in my early 40's. So don't lose hope, ok?

I havnt lost hope

I'm just saying to the op, I'm not perfect because I'm young, single and have no kids

Just saying though, as my missus is the same age as you!

I know, thanks Jon

..striving for excellence not perfection. .I'm perfectly, imperfect. .

I don't regret that I had a baby without being married, I was 34. I may get married if he and I get it together. But, the baby is healthy, if I had waited too long then we could have a retarded baby or something else could go wrong. They say after 35 the risk of complications goes up, and I had a natural birth without drugs. The op doesn't know what perfect is.

All types of people use dating sites. Unfortunately, as we age there are different adjustments in our lifestyle that effect us (separation, divorce, death, moving, etc). With me, I am older (65), but I am still very active and in great shape. I'm here because I've lost 2 lovely wives (1999 & 2013) and I am a non-drinker. I don't patronage lounges or bars, so I find it some what difficult to meet females. Prior to loosing my second love, in my late 50's and early 60's. I climbed the Himalayan Mtns, walked the Great Wall of China and walked 7 miles in one day while on another vacation. In my middle 50's I stayed with a Native Tribe in the Amazon Jungle for a few days and did many other strenuous activities thereafter. In my 60's I am still active. As long as I have hope and a determination to meet someone, I do not consider myself as non-perfect, but just getting ripe and more energy at my age. A looser gives up, I will not even if it means I'm on a dating site.

I for one find single mothers to be sexy. It's a symbol of strength in my mind.

Awww aren't you sweet.
If I were single I would let you lay my bricks.

how to win friends and influence people... you might want to think about things before you type them a bit more...

thnaks for understanding and being that simple

lol, everyone saying how not perfect they are in here, maybe he's right?


no one is perfect, maybe, but i'm still pretty damn close...

people are diverse, they are defined by their imperfections. everyone is imperfect and therefor its perfect to be imperfect. soo... everyone is perfect.

thanks alot for your opinion..

thanks alot...will do that nxt time. Just joined the site newly

lol, people aren't very easy on newbies sometimes in here...

Hope if hv not pissed you guyz off?..
Im really sorry for the post...
I actually wrote based on where i came from and the kind of family i grew up.
Im 23 and my Dad is a pastor..here in Nigeria "especially frm the east" our young girlz hadly get pregnant out of wedluck...those who get pregnant out of wedluck hadly get married. So all do try their best not. Some of them will end up marrying any kind of man..they dnt have the choice.
Here, since i was born have not seen a single 50+ man or woman who still wnt to marry. Its either they wna remian single for life or something.
And pple dnt divorce easily..though they still divorce cos of one problem or the other but it do affect women more...cos the men can still marry but women dnt easily get married after divorce..except if the bride price paid on her head is returned.
But im not in anybody's shoe...most things that happnes isnt anybody's fualt. I did not write to get certain pple upset plz..im not perfect either.

Of course they aren't nice to newbies, who wants to be on a singles website too long? Everyone here is hating on me (mostly) and I've pretty much figured out why.