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Edited by
debbie1980
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Lol... it gets worse though... As soon as I don't see anything there, I lose interest. Primal instinct thing I guess.. I know some men hate it when their lunchbox shows, but if I can't see any .. Sometimes I double check, or triple check, just cause there's got to be something there, right?  I need to see some erm... proof of his masculinity there to get an interest. Not a conscious decision, just how it works for me. This reminds me of a guy I went on a date with, there was no visible package at all and I mean none at all, I didn't see him again lol, well he looked like a he, but was he??  I remember seeing him again a short while after in a night club, and he told me not to come here because it pissed him off when other men talked to me, and we got into into a row, he was nasty to me so I told him to go and find his weena with some tweezers |
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Why is it when i fantasise about being intimate with a man, everything is crystal clear, But why is it I can never see his face?? This is also the same when I dream Anyone know why? It seems you already have a sense, that at some level, you've created a protective disconnect between emotional and sexual intimacy. I suspect, when you are able to allow yourself to trust your intuition about a good mans character, his face will become as clear in your minds eye as his body already is. I rarely remember dreaming about sex. I've often wondered why. Even when I was younger. Although back then I often woke wearing physical evidence that something sexually stimulating had happened. 
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Why is it when i fantasise about being intimate with a man, everything is crystal clear, But why is it I can never see his face?? This is also the same when I dream Anyone know why? It seems you already have a sense, that at some level, you've created a protective disconnect between emotional and sexual intimacy. I suspect, when you are able to allow yourself to trust your intuition about a good mans character, his face will become as clear in your minds eye as his body already is. I rarely remember dreaming about sex. I've often wondered why. Even when I was younger. Although back then I often woke wearing physical evidence that something sexually stimulating had happened. Hiya  I do think for me it's a form of protection, because of my past, and what I fear the most is his face and his evil eyes And for me to when I was lot younger, I would have orgasms in my sleep, and I know I wasn't touching myself at all, due to women's problems , I would know lol
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... As soon as I don't see anything there, I lose interest. Primal instinct thing I guess.. I know some men hate it when their lunchbox shows, but if I can't see any .. Sometimes I double check, or triple check, just cause there's got to be something there, right? ... This reminds me of a guy I went on a date with, there was no visible package at all and I mean none at all, I didn't see him again lol, well he looked like a he, but was he?? And now I understand how the scenario in "The Crying Game" was possible...lol |
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heck sometimes I close my eyes while I'm having actual sex.. and envision someone else's face..lol....
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heck sometimes I close my eyes while I'm having actual sex.. and envision someone else's face..lol.... That is sad... for that woman that is. Then you're basically just using a woman. Maybe better get in line with Mist to buy a few inflatable women? Then it don't matter if you think about the other inflatable, when your doing the one. |
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Lol... it gets worse though... As soon as I don't see anything there, I lose interest. Primal instinct thing I guess.. I know some men hate it when their lunchbox shows, but if I can't see any .. Sometimes I double check, or triple check, just cause there's got to be something there, right? I need to see some erm... proof of his masculinity there to get an interest. Not a conscious decision, just how it works for me. This reminds me of a guy I went on a date with, there was no visible package at all and I mean none at all, I didn't see him again lol, well he looked like a he, but was he?? ...... Exactly what I mean! I dated a guy like that once myself. It just doesn't feel right. No pun intended, haha |
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Lol... it gets worse though... As soon as I don't see anything there, I lose interest. Primal instinct thing I guess.. I know some men hate it when their lunchbox shows, but if I can't see any .. Sometimes I double check, or triple check, just cause there's got to be something there, right? I need to see some erm... proof of his masculinity there to get an interest. Not a conscious decision, just how it works for me. This reminds me of a guy I went on a date with, there was no visible package at all and I mean none at all, I didn't see him again lol, well he looked like a he, but was he?? ...... Exactly what I mean! I dated a guy like that once myself. It just doesn't feel right. No pun intended, haha I felt like I was with man who had no male parts, weird. , i thought once did he chop it off or just loose it ha ha 
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heck sometimes I close my eyes while I'm having actual sex.. and envision someone else's face..lol.... That is sad... for that woman that is. Then you're basically just using a woman. Maybe better get in line with Mist to buy a few inflatable women? Then it don't matter if you think about the other inflatable, when your doing the one. .... or sometimes when Iam in really really deep... and I'm clenching my little butt... forcing myself to reach out and up.. just that little extra more..mmmmm.... I might think of so and so.... that special long distance friend... that can't be there at that moment.... just for a split second mind you.... and believe me the woman I'm with at that moment.... .. is not going to notice a split second distraction of my attention.... you can count on that..mmmm . . . |
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oh and you are the ones talking about disappointing packages right..lol... you have never wanted a full mouth full ..when all you were offered was a half a mouthful.. so to speak...hmmm
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heck sometimes I close my eyes while I'm having actual sex.. and envision someone else's face..lol.... That is sad... for that woman that is. Then you're basically just using a woman. Maybe better get in line with Mist to buy a few inflatable women? Then it don't matter if you think about the other inflatable, when your doing the one. .... or sometimes when Iam in really really deep... and I'm clenching my little butt... forcing myself to reach out and up.. just that little extra more..mmmmm.... I might think of so and so.... that special long distance friend... that can't be there at that moment.... just for a split second mind you.... and believe me the woman I'm with at that moment.... .. is not going to notice a split second distraction of my attention.... you can count on that..mmmm . . . Ever so quick to explain... you could be a sweet li'l subbie  Still... if you're mind drifts even for a split second, esp when you enjoying her passion flower, to me it means you're not bedding the right person. |
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it's kind of like going to a restaurant.
. you waited all month... you have fantasized.. about ordering this. 16 ounce t-bone steak..mmm.. this large thick hot medium rare piece of meat.. .... your mouth just watered thinking about it...... cutting a piece off and wrapping your lips around the fork..mmm.... your tongue tingles the roof of your mouth even gets excited... ..... you gorge yourself on this... well hung well aged piece of prime A.... .... you dreamt about sucking every juicy delicious piece off the bone itself........ and then the waiter comes to you and says... sorry we're all out of T bone steak..... all we can offer you is a 3 ounce fast fry pork chop... bone out...... now you might make do with that pork chop.... but you are definitely going to be thinking about that T bone steak...yes . |
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oh and you are the ones talking about disappointing packages right..lol... you have never wanted a full mouth full ..when all you were offered was a half a mouthful.. so to speak...hmmm If that happens, I send him home ... What I meant with not seeing the lunch package and losing interest, is more of a primal instinct thing. Like men checking breasts. A good rack is a sign of fertility or something like that. Not my personal opinion, research I once read about. I guess deep-down not seeing a man's erm ... tools, equals not masculine, hence no strong off-spring? There's a reason why men in erotic novels get described with a large knob AND big baws  It makes us girls drool, primal instinct kicks in and we want it. |
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it's kind of like going to a restaurant. . you waited all month... you have fantasized.. about ordering this. 16 ounce t-bone steak..mmm.. this large thick hot medium rare piece of meat.. .... your mouth just watered thinking about it...... cutting a piece off and wrapping your lips around the fork..mmm.... your tongue tingles the roof of your mouth even gets excited... ..... you gorge yourself on this... well hung well aged piece of prime A.... .... you dreamt about sucking every juicy delicious piece off the bone itself........ and then the waiter comes to you and says... sorry we're all out of T bone steak..... all we can offer you is a 3 ounce fast fry pork chop... bone out...... now you might make do with that pork chop.... but you are definitely going to be thinking about that T bone steak...yes . Which still means you're bedding the WRONG person, ... yes? LOL Dang, I'm getting all hot now, arguing with you! |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Thu 03/12/15 09:47 AM
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Hmm.. how can I reiterate this so you may see it from my point of view..
Hmm..... my highschool sweetheart used to make the best apple pie..lol.. Mmhmmm.. I mean she picked the sweetest rapist juiciest apples.... she would add sugar cinnamon and other spices..mmm.... the sticky sweetness of her apple pie.... you could just not get enough of this pie....mmmm..... the taste.. as that first delicious little drop ,would fall upon your tongue.... .... the sweetness of it, that caramel.. Dickie sweetness..... it would almost evaporate on your tongue... and the warmth and depth and richness of that pie... the way the top crust was so tightly interlaced... so flaky.. so moist.. . so tender.. it would just crumble to the slightest touch...mmm.... .... now I have tried many different versions of pie..... but somehow every time I take a sliver of pie into my mouth... I can't help but compare it to the original..... the first piece of pie..mmmm . . . . |
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Hmm.. how can I reiterate this so you may see it from my point of view.. Hmm..... my highschool sweetheart used to make the best apple pie..lol.. Mmhmmm.. I mean she picked the sweetest rapist juiciest apples.... she would add sugar cinnamon and other spices..mmm.... the sticky sweetness of her apple pie.... you could just not get enough of this pie....mmmm..... the taste.. as that first delicious little drop ,would fall upon your tongue.... .... the sweetness of it, that caramel.. Dickie sweetness..... it would almost evaporate on your tongue... and the warmth and depth and richness of that pie... the way the top crust was so tightly interlaced... so flaky.. so moist.. . so tender.. it would just crumble to the slightest touch...mmm.... .... now I have tried many different versions of pie..... but somehow every time I take a sliver of pie into my mouth... I can't help but compare it to the original..... the first piece of pie..mmmm . . . . Lol ... I do see your point of view... And I got similar experiences in life... Experiences I wish to have again. But again... as long as I don't get that it still means I'm bedding the wrong partner ... That first time that felt so good only tells you what it is you really need and crave in order to feel fulfilled.. * in my case, pun intended  * And sure I can dream and fantasize about that first experience, have some hot dreams.. but I somehow gotta find me a man who can give me that. Dang... now you made me think of what I crave and how long it's been ... hormones and juices starting to flow... Best focus on diner. No pun intended |
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my my dear.. why have dinner ,when I have just plainly .. skipped to dessert..lol
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my my dear.. why have dinner ,when I have just plainly .. skipped to dessert..lol No dessert available 
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sorry to hear...
you might want to try to self serve dessert bar..
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sorry to hear... you might want to try to self serve dessert bar.. 
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