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Topic: Fantasising
Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 03/11/15 02:51 AM
Why is it when i fantasise about being intimate with a man, everything is crystal clear, But why is it I can never see his face?? This is also the same when I dream Anyone know why? I had that problem too when I fantasized about the Stay Pufft Marshmellow Man.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 03/11/15 02:52 AM
Why is it when i fantasise about being intimate with a man, everything is crystal clear, But why is it I can never see his face?? This is also the same when I dream Anyone know why? I had that problem too when I fantasized about the Stay Pufft Marshmellow Man.

IamwhoIam1 Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 6400	Wed 03/11/15 02:58 AM
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DadCat Joined Thu 02/12/15 Posts: 501	Wed 03/11/15 10:21 AM Edited by DadCat on Wed 03/11/15 10:22 AM
Why is it when i fantasise about being intimate with a man, everything is crystal clear, But why is it I can never see his face?? This is also the same when I dream Anyone know why? Maybe you have not found the partner to fulfill your fantasy so there is no visualization of the person? I find for myself it is difficult to fantasize about someone I have really met and consider having a dating/partner/marriage relationship with them. This is different for someone I may have met but may not feel the same desire to have a relationship with them. I do find myself sexually aroused by their presence though and have had fantasies of intimacy.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 03/11/15 10:56 AM
Why is it when i fantasise about being intimate with a man, everything is crystal clear, But why is it I can never see his face?? This is also the same when I dream Anyone know why? .. are you sure you're looking at my profile....?.

Justfun_1 Joined Tue 07/23/13 Posts: 698	Wed 03/11/15 01:11 PM
The same reason men look at boobs not faces .. Your mind is looking at what is really important .... his man junk .. Blame your pleasure centre :-) Are you saying that Debbie is seeing a face but it only has one eye ?

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 03/11/15 01:36 PM
Why is it when i fantasise about being intimate with a man, everything is crystal clear, But why is it I can never see his face?? This is also the same when I dream Anyone know why? Maybe you have not found the partner to fulfill your fantasy so there is no visualization of the person? I find for myself it is difficult to fantasize about someone I have really met and consider having a dating/partner/marriage relationship with them. This is different for someone I may have met but may not feel the same desire to have a relationship with them. I do find myself sexually aroused by their presence though and have had fantasies of intimacy. It could be, I have another theory but that would be to deep to go into here. Thanks

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 03/11/15 01:42 PM
The same reason men look at boobs not faces .. Your mind is looking at what is really important .... his man junk .. Blame your pleasure centre :-) Ha ha lol And phd, lmao

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Wed 03/11/15 02:40 PM
The same reason men look at boobs not faces .. Your mind is looking at what is really important .... his man junk .. Blame your pleasure centre :-) well, i still have never heard a guy say "wow, look at the brain on that woman"...

DadCat Joined Thu 02/12/15 Posts: 501	Wed 03/11/15 07:16 PM
The same reason men look at boobs not faces .. Your mind is looking at what is really important .... his man junk .. Blame your pleasure centre :-) There is something to this. The focus of your dream is more towards the pleasure derived from the encounter. It could be, I have another theory but that would be to deep to go into here. Thanks Hmmmm. An intriguing posit you make. Is it possible to elaborate?

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Thu 03/12/15 01:04 AM
Because Debbie, you don't look at the mantle when your poking the fireplace.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 03/12/15 02:04 AM Edited by debbie1980 on Thu 03/12/15 02:06 AM
The same reason men look at boobs not faces .. Your mind is looking at what is really important .... his man junk .. Blame your pleasure centre :-) There is something to this. The focus of your dream is more towards the pleasure derived from the encounter. It could be, I have another theory but that would be to deep to go into here. Thanks Hmmmm. An intriguing posit you make. Is it possible to elaborate? [/quote I will say that maybe I don't see his face, because my brain is protecting me, eyes are the worst thing to remember. I can't say anymore on here.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 03/12/15 02:07 AM
Because Debbie, you don't look at the mantle when your poking the fireplace. Lol

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33266	Thu 03/12/15 04:50 AM
Some things make more of an impression . Clearly it's not his face .. Lmao But, up to a point, that is a good thing, isn't it?

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 03/12/15 04:53 AM
Some things make more of an impression . Clearly it's not his face .. Lmao But, up to a point, that is a good thing, isn't it?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33266	Thu 03/12/15 04:55 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Thu 03/12/15 05:01 AM
Why is it when i fantasise about being intimate with a man, everything is crystal clear, But why is it I can never see his face?? This is also the same when I dream Anyone know why? I think it's because your body knows what it wants to feel in an intimate situation, exactly how it wants to be touched, how it will respond (vis-a-vis how the other party will react). So your mind can visualize the fantasy crystal clear based on how you want the entire thing to go. But if you haven't known the true "face" of the person to fit the fantasy you have, you won't project just any face to go with an ideal situation your emotions, mind and body want to achieve in your conscious fantasies. More so in dreams since that's your inner subconscious speaking. Of course, it's not the same for everyone. There is that matter of what one considers as an ideal fantasy... I think you're on to something here!! I know how I want and need to feel with a man, I know how I want to feel in an intimate situation as well... And indeed when you haven't met him yet, there won't be a face. Tommy Flanagan can haunt me in my dreams any night though!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33266	Thu 03/12/15 05:00 AM
The same reason men look at boobs not faces .. Your mind is looking at what is really important .... his man junk .. Blame your pleasure centre :-) Man junk? LMAO Not just the mind though... my eyes almost always stray to a man's lower regions, so bluddy embarrassing yet it just happens Struggling to keep my eyes on his face, don't look down, Crystal, do NOT look down!! and there we go, checking out his package

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 03/12/15 05:09 AM
Why is it when i fantasise about being intimate with a man, everything is crystal clear, But why is it I can never see his face?? This is also the same when I dream Anyone know why? I think it's because your body knows what it wants to feel in an intimate situation, exactly how it wants to be touched, how it will respond (vis-a-vis how the other party will react). So your mind can visualize the fantasy crystal clear based on how you want the entire thing to go. But if you haven't known the true "face" of the person to fit the fantasy you have, you won't project just any face to go with an ideal situation your emotions, mind and body want to achieve in your conscious fantasies. More so in dreams since that's your inner subconscious speaking. Of course, it's not the same for everyone. There is that matter of what one considers as an ideal fantasy... I didn't see this post, until crystal just quoted it. I totally see your point and that is a interesting philosophy. But for me personally, I think it is due to my past. I was hoping it wasn't. There is a man I really like on this site, and I can't see his face either.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 03/12/15 05:11 AM
The same reason men look at boobs not faces .. Your mind is looking at what is really important .... his man junk .. Blame your pleasure centre :-) Man junk? LMAO Not just the mind though... my eyes almost always stray to a man's lower regions, so bluddy embarrassing yet it just happens Struggling to keep my eyes on his face, don't look down, Crystal, do NOT look down!! and there we go, checking out his package Nothing wrong with looking at his junk in his trunk lol

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33266	Thu 03/12/15 05:48 AM
Lol... it gets worse though... As soon as I don't see anything there, I lose interest. Primal instinct thing I guess.. I know some men hate it when their lunchbox shows, but if I can't see any .. Sometimes I double check, or triple check, just cause there's got to be something there, right? I need to see some erm... proof of his masculinity there to get an interest. Not a conscious decision, just how it works for me.