Wait a minute.. I didn't mean get married and then date or don't date at all. I mean there should be an option to talk about marriage and not dating on here. Those who wish to date should be separated from those who wish to marry.

Wait a minute.. I didn't mean get married and then date or don't date at all. I mean there should be an option to talk about marriage and not dating on here. Those who wish to date should be separated from those who wish to marry.

i agree with debbie1980
i am here to date and with luck get married and be with her till i kick this ball of earth and move on to what ever next happens

i am not just here to date

That is one of questions you could ask during the date "are you looking to ever get married?" If they say no, then you aren't a good match

Guess that puts me in the never be a good match line........65 and still single

"When you buy an outfit do you try it on? To check the fit? OR do you trust the tag and buy it?,"

What a funny way to talk about human beings.

No matter how much you date you will never know the other person, this is true even you are married to that person for the rest of your life.

Anyway, love is more about accepting someone for who they are, not sending them back to the factory and treating them as a defective.

And why so much focus on the dating part of the marriage process, this is a clue that marriage is not what it's all about on here. Even the name of the place says mingle...does that mean make groups instead of pairing off?

There is not even a place to talk about marriage, we can only talk about dating/relationships. That's why I wondered if it's intended for cheaters or wannabe cheaters.

I have a question, why do some men try so hard to marry the girl and then moan about the other half or cheat. women cheat too but im just asking the male point of view.

I have a question, why do some men try so hard to marry the girl and then moan about the other half or cheat. women cheat too but im just asking the male point of view.

I know a 3 year old boy who will cry until you give him a certain toy, but then when he get's it and plays with it for a minute he forgets about it and wants to play with a new toy.

Marilyn Monroe sang, "After you get what you want you don't want it.."

The best thing we can do is tease them until marriage (not give them fully everything, like almost but not enough to satisfy them, this is very tricky to master), then we can stop trying because nothing we do will ever make them happy again.

Dating is so disrespectful, it's like using someone for some temporary pleasure with no commitment. I can't see the purpose of grown ups dating on a forum, unless they're just bored with their husband/wife. I can see why people would want to be lovers in real life, but not to date, that's childish or else innocent internet fun. Is there something I'm not getting?

I know a 3 year old boy who will cry until you give him a certain toy, but then when he get's it and plays with it for a minute he forgets about it and wants to play with a new toy.

Marilyn Monroe sang, "After you get what you want you don't want it.."

The best thing we can do is tease them until marriage (not give them fully everything, like almost but not enough to satisfy them, this is very tricky to master), then we can stop trying because nothing we do will ever make them happy again.

what's wrong with you and all these "marriage" threads ? is it that critical ? come on ... it's not the end of the world if you didn't marry !

what if she didn't want to satisfy you until you married her ?
I wouldn't marry a woman who couldn't satisfy me during the dating phase.

Wait a minute.. I didn't mean get married and then date or don't date at all. I mean there should be an option to talk about marriage and not dating on here. Those who wish to date should be separated from those who wish to marry.