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Topic: When its a Good Time To ASk ?
metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Sat 01/31/15 11:20 AM
The best plan is to treat them well and, sooner or later, they will jump your bones!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/31/15 11:34 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 01/31/15 11:36 AM
I always wondered why women shout WTF when a simple yes or no would do lmao as for sex. I usually let the man initiate... we have ways of letting him know that it's OK to ask..lol

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sat 01/31/15 12:05 PM
simple... before deciding which restaurant to take her to.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/31/15 12:17 PM
simple... before deciding which restaurant to take her to. takin' your chances there cowboy

Maxisu Joined Wed 07/16/14 Posts: 1212	Sat 01/31/15 12:23 PM
simple... before deciding which restaurant to take her to.

Maxisu Joined Wed 07/16/14 Posts: 1212	Sat 01/31/15 12:24 PM
The best plan is to treat them well and, sooner or later, they will jump your bones! Yep...just pretend you want to take it slow...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/31/15 12:38 PM
The best plan is to treat them well and, sooner or later, they will jump your bones! Yep...just pretend you want to take it slow... y'all know we can see through that right?

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sat 01/31/15 12:47 PM
simple... before deciding which restaurant to take her to. takin' your chances there cowboy actually just the opposite...

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/31/15 12:50 PM
simple... before deciding which restaurant to take her to. takin' your chances there cowboy actually just the opposite... OK...I guess I don't understand the male thought process here. I am not sure I will benefit by an explanation, I'll leave that up to you

pizdec198508 Joined Fri 01/30/15 Posts: 5	Sat 01/31/15 02:33 PM
I am with Texas .. Wtf .. Laughing webcam?

fleta_n_mach Joined Tue 06/24/14 Posts: 3509	Sat 01/31/15 02:38 PM
I am with Texas .. Wtf .. Laughing webcam? Good idea, maybe she will accept your friend request instead of me.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 02/01/15 03:05 AM
i always just ask on the first date "yo,we gonna take that drive to pound town or what?" cause that's just how i roll

Jesusprincessmt Joined Fri 06/21/13 Posts: 11882	Sun 02/01/15 03:14 AM
If you have to ask, then it is not time

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Sun 02/01/15 03:53 AM
I just dropped my pants and said "I'm ready!" I'm romantical like that. I get the feeling the OP is similarly romantic..

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33340	Sun 02/01/15 04:03 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sun 02/01/15 04:06 AM
I think you CAN ask, but not like you suggest "I need sex, when can I get some?" If that's what you're after, go get paid for sex or something. Like Gemma said in SoA: Men need to be loved, women need to feel wanted! Make her feel wanted, and not just sexually (if you don't feel that way, you don't really love her). Romance her, flirt with her, seduce her and if you do that right, you can ask if she's ready, just phrase it right. Make it sweet and loving and sexy. When you done the above, worked on the setting and vibe, hold her in your arms and whisper in her ear that you love her and feel you want to make love to her, is she ready for that? Don't pressure her and don't get angry if she says she's not ready. Cause that shows you do not care for her, but that it's just about you getting off ==> the right way to NOT make her feel wanted. Oh, and just making her feel wanted when you want sex, isn't gonna work. If you want a loving and willing woman in your arms, you always got to make her feel wanted. THat's what love and a relationship is about ... should be anyways . .

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Sun 02/01/15 07:54 AM Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 02/01/15 07:59 AM
I would say Door #3, it just seems to work itself out. Women assume men always want sex. When it feels right, we go for it. WOMEN ARE CORRECT....IF ALL A male wanted was a friend and companion he would get a golden retrever..when it comes to couples sex, it is a big deal...the problem is when she thinks its a emotional problem with him its realy a HEAD PROBLEM (THE WAY MEN PROCESS INFO) and when he thinks its a head problem with her its realy a emotional problem (the way women process info) WE ARE NOT right or wrong we are just different... NEVER ASK !!! GO FOR IT!!! if there is any doubt as or not to ask then your still comunicating with her persona and not the little girl inside....