Topic: To boldly go...
mikey5360's photo
Thu 01/22/15 11:52 PM



you only show up on the male profiles when you go, not female... not a big loss...

Huh...I am sure I have had guys check my profile and I get friend request quite regular from guys...or am I missing something?
...I did a visit on your beautiful other half and didn't show as a viewer ...I have had some ladies show up on mine in the past...hmmm...oh well..no biggie I guess but I don't get it..ohwell ...happy thoughts..and hope the rain doesn't wash you away..flowerforyou
Hmmmm, worth finding out...hehe...is ok Ive got my anchor firmly in place...laugh laugh laugh

Kindlightheart's photo
Fri 01/23/15 12:05 AM




you only show up on the male profiles when you go, not female... not a big loss...

Huh...I am sure I have had guys check my profile and I get friend request quite regular from guys...or am I missing something?
...I did a visit on your beautiful other half and didn't show as a viewer ...I have had some ladies show up on mine in the past...hmmm...oh well..no biggie I guess but I don't get it..ohwell ...happy thoughts..and hope the rain doesn't wash you away..flowerforyou
Hmmmm, worth finding out...hehe...is ok Ive got my anchor firmly in place...laugh laugh laugh
...lollaugh ..you most definitly do..my favorite love story for sure..:heart: biggrin

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Fri 01/23/15 12:20 AM


smells like roses in here...smile2
...that's cause you just entered....even with a name like pansy..your a beautiful rose in my book..flowerforyou


Aww.. You're too kind :) flowers
I looked in your profile, did I turn up on your list?

Kindlightheart's photo
Fri 01/23/15 12:27 AM



smells like roses in here...smile2
...that's cause you just entered....even with a name like pansy..your a beautiful rose in my book..flowerforyou


Aww.. You're too kind :) flowers
I looked in your profile, did I turn up on your list?
...not too kind just honest...:wink: ...and nope..you were a no-show...I just viewed you...hmmm...next time I will say hi..cause I know I will pop in...nice quotes..drinker

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Fri 01/23/15 12:29 AM




smells like roses in here...smile2
...that's cause you just entered....even with a name like pansy..your a beautiful rose in my book..flowerforyou


Aww.. You're too kind :) flowers
I looked in your profile, did I turn up on your list?
...not too kind just honest...:wink: ...and nope..you were a no-show...I just viewed you...hmmm...next time I will say hi..cause I know I will pop in...nice quotes..drinker


blushing waving flowers

Duttoneer's photo
Fri 01/23/15 01:41 AM

Sooo...I'm pretty sure I am not alone when it came to viewing profiles in " stealth mode "...kinda curious how people...male and female will feel if I pop in and peek at their profiles..after I read a post of interest or see a new face I usually check out the profile..and sometimes check them out again..I like to see if pics change or if anything changed in general with the profile...going to miss that feature for sure...:wink: flowerforyou waving


I have never used 'Stealth' mode, always thought it a bit creepy, surely there is nothing wrong with viewing a profile even when it's just curiosity. Look on the bright side, at least now we can see more of those that do view our profiles and regarding possible unwanted comeback when we view, you can always restrict those that can contact you in your profile. Just my opinion. flowerforyou

Jtevans's photo
Fri 01/23/15 06:03 AM

Sooo...I'm pretty sure I am not alone when it came to viewing profiles in " stealth mode "...kinda curious how people...male and female will feel if I pop in and peek at their profiles..after I read a post of interest or see a new face I usually check out the profile..and sometimes check them out again..I like to see if pics change or if anything changed in general with the profile...going to miss that feature for sure...:wink: flowerforyou waving



i like to view profiles and then send them a message like "your bedroom looks great from where i'm standing" smokin

Jtevans's photo
Fri 01/23/15 06:03 AM
Edited by Jtevans on Fri 01/23/15 06:04 AM
stupid double post

panchovanilla's photo
Fri 01/23/15 06:09 AM
Edited by panchovanilla on Fri 01/23/15 06:09 AM
I always considered stealth mode to be the gateway of lurkism.
Never used it.

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Fri 01/23/15 06:16 AM
I like both, in and out (of stealth)...Not going to change my lurking pattern just because the free choice is gone, so no need to buy it back....smokin

tanyaann's photo
Fri 01/23/15 06:21 AM


never used it. what's the point?

looking is not a crime...is it?
i started using it when I found it cause sometimes after I popped in I would get mail from some,and some men can be rude when I expressed my lack of interest..and I've seen other posts where people have expressed the question as to why people look but don't send mail..I just have a curious mind...


I just got an email with a winking smiley from someone that I viewed. I am not interested. I just looked because he posted something rude. indifferent

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Fri 01/23/15 06:36 AM
If I'm not mistaken Stealth did more than just allow you to look at others profiles unnoticed. Since I switched on Stealth I received zero scam messages. I'm sure that will change now.

tanyaann's photo
Fri 01/23/15 06:41 AM

If I'm not mistaken Stealth did more than just allow you to look at others profiles unnoticed. Since I switched on Stealth I received zero scam messages. I'm sure that will change now.


I have gotten one scammer email already this morning. ohwell

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Fri 01/23/15 07:09 AM
And I just got added as a favorite by a shady profile.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 01/23/15 08:23 AM



you only show up on the male profiles when you go, not female... not a big loss...

Huh...I am sure I have had guys check my profile and I get friend request quite regular from guys...or am I missing something?
...I did a visit on your beautiful other half and didn't show as a viewer ...I have had some ladies show up on mine in the past...hmmm...oh well..no biggie I guess but I don't get it..ohwell ...happy thoughts..and hope the rain doesn't wash you away..flowerforyou


The reason at times the same sex profile will show up on your view list is because they are looking for the same sex. If they are a woman looking for a woman it will show you they viewed your profile if you are a woman same with the men...

Does not mean you are on their matches just mean they viewed you.


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kc0003's photo
Fri 01/23/15 08:23 AM

And I just got added as a favorite by a shady profile.

it's that wonderfully welcoming avatar...who could resist?

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Fri 01/23/15 08:33 AM

If I'm not mistaken Stealth did more than just allow you to look at others profiles unnoticed. Since I switched on Stealth I received zero scam messages. I'm sure that will change now.


:thumbsup: Same here,,,not zero, but way less...I had to change my mail settings to only receiving mail from females and turn off my IM to take care of the "influx" of scammers who can now see I am on line....I'm sure I will get used to the new deal, but for now, it sucks...Scammers are such a pain!grumble

ridewytepony's photo
Fri 01/23/15 08:40 AM


you only show up on the male profiles when you go, not female... not a big loss...

Huh...I am sure I have had guys check my profile and I get friend request quite regular from guys...or am I missing something?


Your missing something :laughing:

mikey5360's photo
Fri 01/23/15 03:54 PM



you only show up on the male profiles when you go, not female... not a big loss...

Huh...I am sure I have had guys check my profile and I get friend request quite regular from guys...or am I missing something?


Your missing something :laughing:
Yeah...my gaydar is switched off....slaphead

mikey5360's photo
Fri 01/23/15 03:56 PM

If I'm not mistaken Stealth did more than just allow you to look at others profiles unnoticed. Since I switched on Stealth I received zero scam messages. I'm sure that will change now.
of course...I have suddenly started receiving 2 or 3 scam mails on both days since the change....damn...frustrated frustrated frustrated