Topic: Ooooooooooo jealousy...
messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sun 01/18/15 02:33 AM


you're welcome!


But I wanted it to be a smiley in a thong! sad
What like in the LMFAO video I'm Sexy And I Know IT? laugh laugh

tanyaann's photo
Sun 01/18/15 03:51 AM



you're welcome!


But I wanted it to be a smiley in a thong! sad
What like in the LMFAO video I'm Sexy And I Know IT? laugh laugh


whoa No.

But what a way to start the morning watching that!shocked

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Sun 01/18/15 06:01 AM

Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship?
noway
What does it look like?:angry:


What makes your question so tricky is the word "normal"...I like Moe's response and wish I could agree 100%, but I can't, I just can't Moe Moe!laugh ...Too many variables because life happens...So many things can happen to cause jealousy to raise its ugly head...I think it is normal from time to time in even the healthiest relationships...I also think what really plays a part in determining just how healthy a relationship is centers around how well the couple deals with problems (like jealousy) when they do happen....


messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sun 01/18/15 06:15 AM


Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship?
noway
What does it look like?:angry:


What makes your question so tricky is the word "normal"...I like Moe's response and wish I could agree 100%, but I can't, I just can't Moe Moe!laugh ...Too many variables because life happens...So many things can happen to cause jealousy to raise its ugly head...I think it is normal from time to time in even the healthiest relationships...I also think what really plays a part in determining just how healthy a relationship is centers around how well the couple deals with problems (like jealousy) when they do happen....


Me and my missus just get a laugh and work for each other, not against. Works for us! :smile: flowerforyou

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Sun 01/18/15 06:28 AM



Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship?
noway
What does it look like?:angry:


What makes your question so tricky is the word "normal"...I like Moe's response and wish I could agree 100%, but I can't, I just can't Moe Moe!laugh ...Too many variables because life happens...So many things can happen to cause jealousy to raise its ugly head...I think it is normal from time to time in even the healthiest relationships...I also think what really plays a part in determining just how healthy a relationship is centers around how well the couple deals with problems (like jealousy) when they do happen....


Me and my missus just get a laugh and work for each other, not against. Works for us! :smile: flowerforyou


waving Mornin luv!happy ...Morning wee man!smitten

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sun 01/18/15 06:36 AM




Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship?
noway
What does it look like?:angry:


What makes your question so tricky is the word "normal"...I like Moe's response and wish I could agree 100%, but I can't, I just can't Moe Moe!laugh ...Too many variables because life happens...So many things can happen to cause jealousy to raise its ugly head...I think it is normal from time to time in even the healthiest relationships...I also think what really plays a part in determining just how healthy a relationship is centers around how well the couple deals with problems (like jealousy) when they do happen....


Me and my missus just get a laugh and work for each other, not against. Works for us! :smile: flowerforyou


waving Mornin luv!happy ...Morning wee man!smitten
What wee man might that be? Got 2 here today, my son and grandson, born 5 weeks apart. Trying to talk my older boy into inviting us round for dinner once in a while, but he always comes here on a sunday. Can't cook, that's what it is? bigsmile flowerforyou

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Sun 01/18/15 06:45 AM





Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship?
noway
What does it look like?:angry:


What makes your question so tricky is the word "normal"...I like Moe's response and wish I could agree 100%, but I can't, I just can't Moe Moe!laugh ...Too many variables because life happens...So many things can happen to cause jealousy to raise its ugly head...I think it is normal from time to time in even the healthiest relationships...I also think what really plays a part in determining just how healthy a relationship is centers around how well the couple deals with problems (like jealousy) when they do happen....


Me and my missus just get a laugh and work for each other, not against. Works for us! :smile: flowerforyou


waving Mornin luv!happy ...Morning wee man!smitten
What wee man might that be? Got 2 here today, my son and grandson, born 5 weeks apart. Trying to talk my older boy into inviting us round for dinner once in a while, but he always comes here on a sunday. Can't cook, that's what it is? bigsmile flowerforyou


You are blessed!...Just be happy they come and feed them well:wink: ...Sunday dinners with family!! :heart: smitten love

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sun 01/18/15 06:50 AM






Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship?
noway
What does it look like?:angry:


What makes your question so tricky is the word "normal"...I like Moe's response and wish I could agree 100%, but I can't, I just can't Moe Moe!laugh ...Too many variables because life happens...So many things can happen to cause jealousy to raise its ugly head...I think it is normal from time to time in even the healthiest relationships...I also think what really plays a part in determining just how healthy a relationship is centers around how well the couple deals with problems (like jealousy) when they do happen....


Me and my missus just get a laugh and work for each other, not against. Works for us! :smile: flowerforyou


waving Mornin luv!happy ...Morning wee man!smitten
What wee man might that be? Got 2 here today, my son and grandson, born 5 weeks apart. Trying to talk my older boy into inviting us round for dinner once in a while, but he always comes here on a sunday. Can't cook, that's what it is? bigsmile flowerforyou


You are blessed!...Just be happy they come and feed them well:wink: ...Sunday dinners with family!! :heart: smitten love
I feed him too good, cos he won't go away!laugh laugh Honestly, he'd burn a peanut butter sandwich, Leigh. Going round to his would be good, once in a while though? :smile: flowerforyou

tanyaann's photo
Sun 01/18/15 10:11 AM


Is jealousy a normal part of a relationship?
noway
What does it look like?:angry:


What makes your question so tricky is the word "normal"...I like Moe's response and wish I could agree 100%, but I can't, I just can't Moe Moe!laugh ...Too many variables because life happens...So many things can happen to cause jealousy to raise its ugly head...I think it is normal from time to time in even the healthiest relationships...I also think what really plays a part in determining just how healthy a relationship is centers around how well the couple deals with problems (like jealousy) when they do happen....




Sound response! flowerforyou

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Sun 01/18/15 10:13 AM

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Sun 01/18/15 10:19 AM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Sun 01/18/15 10:22 AM
op wow... I have seen some pretty jealous people and you could say on the breaking line of psycho ... I would have to say for myself if I am in love with someone ... I start out with trust ... now they break that trust ... an feel I have had my feeling crush and don't believe them anymore about anything ... and really might as well have been over right then ... becouse I have the attitude ...you didn't care so why should I ... and then you could say ...I gave them a taste of their own medicine...

tanyaann's photo
Sun 01/18/15 10:56 AM

op wow... I have seen some pretty jealous people and you could say on the breaking line of psycho ... I would have to say for myself if I am in love with someone ... I start out with trust ... now they break that trust ... an feel I have had my feeling crush and don't believe them anymore about anything ... and really might as well have been over right then ... becouse I have the attitude ...you didn't care so why should I ... and then you could say ...I gave them a taste of their own medicine...


What would be a break in trust for you?

kc0003's photo
Sun 01/18/15 11:10 AM


you're welcome!


But I wanted it to be a smiley in a thong! sad


hey, i tried.

tanyaann's photo
Sun 01/18/15 01:40 PM



you're welcome!


But I wanted it to be a smiley in a thong! sad


hey, i tried.


flowerforyou thanks.

Maxisu's photo
Sun 01/18/15 02:39 PM



you're welcome!


But I wanted it to be a smiley in a thong! sad


hey, i tried.


And I wanted a male pole dancer....tears

kc0003's photo
Sun 01/18/15 02:43 PM
man, you people are hard to please! :tongue:

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Sun 01/18/15 02:45 PM

I don't think it does much good to villainize (sp?) a trait that is largely instinctual. We are, as humans, animals. In our history, women tended the children, men hunted. Without men, we sacrificed shelter/protection, food, etc. Without women, men couldn't procreate. So a twinge of 'possessiveness,' while not likely to conjure up pleasant perspectives in current times, is understandable.

Thankfully, we've evolved intellectually enough to be able to recognize it as irrational and not *act* on those feelings.


exactly. jealousy is a normal emotion like anger happiness or grouchiness

it is better to acknowledge and deal with it rather than live in denial

because if it gets out of hand it can be a problem- that much I agree with

we cannot control the emotions we sense inside us but we can choose how to act and deal with those emotions

Maxisu's photo
Sun 01/18/15 02:52 PM

man, you people are hard to please! :tongue:


nah...the thong is optional...:wink:

kc0003's photo
Sun 01/18/15 02:57 PM


man, you people are hard to please! :tongue:


nah...the thong is optional...:wink:

well that changes everything...ha!

lionsbrew's photo
Mon 01/19/15 11:23 AM
Jealousy/Envy spawn from selfishness/greed. Its okay to be selfish and want what we think is best for ourselves. I'll be the first to admit I can be a little possessive when it comes to the one I choose to have as a lover. But again that is character trait of mine I'm not exactly happy about and I work on being more selfless in my day to day life. I also won't keep that from my S.O she would know from the very beginning. I'm an open book for people and I own my good and bad. So for me yes jealousy would probably be a normal part of a relationship.