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Topic: he cant fight for me........
eremie's photo
Thu 01/15/15 02:41 AM
it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life..



but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else....


what should i do?

no photo
Thu 01/15/15 02:55 AM
you want this guy back?

Baldhead1VA's photo
Thu 01/15/15 03:10 AM
I can see that you have a REAL heart for this guy. Love is NOT suppose to hurt this bad; love comes in to:

Restore
Heal
Lift up
Mend
Make whole

It's:

Patient
Kind
Tender
The giver of life
Never ending

If he's not fullfling all of these things for you, plus more, then he's not worth waisting another tear on.

Time will heal your broken heart; but you have to be strong and move on sweetie.

Be blessed

vanaheim's photo
Thu 01/15/15 03:18 AM
Well, if you don't start choosing who you give your heart to wisely, life is going to teach you the hard way to do so.

So you can just sit back and enjoy the painful ride, or start choosing more wisely before life shows you why you need to. Some people never get a clue and just wind up permanent train wrecks. Maybe that's you.

There are lots of things about life you can't really choose, who you have a relationship with is not among them.

If you feel crap about a personal relationship, everything about that is your choice and always was and always will be.

Maxisu's photo
Thu 01/15/15 03:23 AM

I can see that you have a REAL heart for this guy. Love is NOT suppose to hurt this bad; love comes in to:

Restore
Heal
Lift up
Mend
Make whole

It's:

Patient
Kind
Tender
The giver of life
Never ending

If he's not fullfling all of these things for you, plus more, then he's not worth waisting another tear on.

Time will heal your broken heart; but you have to be strong and move on sweetie.

Be blessed


Well said ! flowerforyou


theseacoast's photo
Thu 01/15/15 04:27 AM

it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life..



but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else....


what should i do?


Live! Give yourself a little time for mourning but not long. And don�t wait for him to come back, it would just prolong your pain. Now you should dedicate to yourself in order to heal. Look at your relationship with him - if you were honest - you can always look at his eyes with pride. And be proud of it. Don�t ever punish yourself for something somebody else did. Give yourself such treatment as you would give somebody else in pain. One friend told me: write on paper what you would say to someone else in that situation with all your tenderness and kindness and then read it to yourself. It was a very good advise. Be kind and tender to yourself now. Cherish yourself with love. Live! flowerforyou

Awatersign's photo
Thu 01/15/15 08:34 AM
The sad thing is,when it comes to "love",for some reason,logic often goes out the window,how long can one love someone so much while not receiving it in return,pretty one sided,wouldn't ya say?think :wink:

bashajones's photo
Thu 01/15/15 08:51 AM

it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life..



but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else....


what should i do?


You want someone to "fix" the damage in your life?...lol...Only you can do that, hon. You are all you have.

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Thu 01/15/15 09:00 AM

it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life..



but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else....


what should i do?
Only one side here though, yours? Could be that the guy might paint a different side to you, that we don't know? Maybe he did love you, but you drove him away, for a number of reasons? Who knows? He left you anyway and sad to say life goes on, we've all been there before. Pick yourself up and dust yourself down and all the best ok? :smile: flowerforyou

Goofball73's photo
Thu 01/15/15 10:49 AM
What should you do? How about slap yourself across the face while you stand in front of a mirror. Then look at yourself and scream "WAKE UP"! Your life is not defined by another. Whatever he did is done. It's finished! Even as he is gone you are allowing him to have power over you and your life. Stop it. Pick yourself up and move along.

no photo
Thu 01/15/15 11:07 AM

What should you do? How about slap yourself across the face while you stand in front of a mirror. Then look at yourself and scream "WAKE UP"! Your life is not defined by another. Whatever he did is done. It's finished! Even as he is gone you are allowing him to have power over you and your life. Stop it. Pick yourself up and move along.

:thumbsup:

mysticalview21's photo
Sun 01/18/15 01:28 PM
op do only what you feel is the happiest for you ... but sometimes relationships can not be fixed... sad but true ... meet others have fun ...don't dwell on what you can not get back ... that is gone and will never feel the same ... do some things you would like to do ... hobbies things like that ... to take your mind off the pain ... and soon the pain will lesson ... talk to friends get it out of your system ... sometimes that is best... good luck flowerforyou

m3k4y's photo
Sun 01/18/15 01:45 PM
A happy ending doesn't always include a guy..maybe it's you, on your own. .picking up the pieces and starting over..freeing yourself up for something better in the future. .maybe a happy ending is just moving on..flowerforyou

theseacoast's photo
Sun 01/18/15 02:32 PM
Edited by theseacoast on Sun 01/18/15 02:33 PM

The sad thing is,when it comes to "love",for some reason,logic often goes out the window,how long can one love someone so much while not receiving it in return,pretty one sided,wouldn't ya say?think :wink:



But so usual, isn�t it Awatersign? Sad but usual. It�s mostly that one side just loves more - or is alone in that love.

kingjeff15's photo
Sun 01/18/15 04:27 PM
i think bashajones is right she has said it all

no photo
Sun 01/18/15 04:33 PM

it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life..



but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else....


what should i do?

Why waste your time to someone who never care?

no photo
Sun 01/18/15 04:40 PM
There's no opie replying back. Lost cause.

messi_is_a_tim_1888's photo
Sun 01/18/15 04:44 PM

There's no opie replying back. Lost cause.
Probably got the jail for doing the poor guy in? You never know? laugh laugh

no photo
Sun 01/18/15 04:47 PM

it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life..



but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else....


what should i do?


put the memories in a box in your mind. you can get them out and think about them now and then in moments of stillness.

then do things you enjoy, move on with life. some things are meant to be. those are the things to live for. good luckflowerforyou

no photo
Sun 01/18/15 04:49 PM
It's allready 8:48am here she might be on work.

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