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it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life..
but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else.... what should i do? |
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you want this guy back?
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I can see that you have a REAL heart for this guy. Love is NOT suppose to hurt this bad; love comes in to:
Restore Heal Lift up Mend Make whole It's: Patient Kind Tender The giver of life Never ending If he's not fullfling all of these things for you, plus more, then he's not worth waisting another tear on. Time will heal your broken heart; but you have to be strong and move on sweetie. Be blessed |
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Well, if you don't start choosing who you give your heart to wisely, life is going to teach you the hard way to do so.
So you can just sit back and enjoy the painful ride, or start choosing more wisely before life shows you why you need to. Some people never get a clue and just wind up permanent train wrecks. Maybe that's you. There are lots of things about life you can't really choose, who you have a relationship with is not among them. If you feel crap about a personal relationship, everything about that is your choice and always was and always will be. |
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I can see that you have a REAL heart for this guy. Love is NOT suppose to hurt this bad; love comes in to: Restore Heal Lift up Mend Make whole It's: Patient Kind Tender The giver of life Never ending If he's not fullfling all of these things for you, plus more, then he's not worth waisting another tear on. Time will heal your broken heart; but you have to be strong and move on sweetie. Be blessed Well said ! |
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it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life.. but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else.... what should i do? Live! Give yourself a little time for mourning but not long. And don�t wait for him to come back, it would just prolong your pain. Now you should dedicate to yourself in order to heal. Look at your relationship with him - if you were honest - you can always look at his eyes with pride. And be proud of it. Don�t ever punish yourself for something somebody else did. Give yourself such treatment as you would give somebody else in pain. One friend told me: write on paper what you would say to someone else in that situation with all your tenderness and kindness and then read it to yourself. It was a very good advise. Be kind and tender to yourself now. Cherish yourself with love. Live! |
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The sad thing is,when it comes to "love",for some reason,logic often goes out the window,how long can one love someone so much while not receiving it in return,pretty one sided,wouldn't ya say?
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it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life.. but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else.... what should i do? You want someone to "fix" the damage in your life?...lol...Only you can do that, hon. You are all you have. |
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it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life.. but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else.... what should i do? |
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What should you do? How about slap yourself across the face while you stand in front of a mirror. Then look at yourself and scream "WAKE UP"! Your life is not defined by another. Whatever he did is done. It's finished! Even as he is gone you are allowing him to have power over you and your life. Stop it. Pick yourself up and move along.
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What should you do? How about slap yourself across the face while you stand in front of a mirror. Then look at yourself and scream "WAKE UP"! Your life is not defined by another. Whatever he did is done. It's finished! Even as he is gone you are allowing him to have power over you and your life. Stop it. Pick yourself up and move along. |
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op do only what you feel is the happiest for you ... but sometimes relationships can not be fixed... sad but true ... meet others have fun ...don't dwell on what you can not get back ... that is gone and will never feel the same ... do some things you would like to do ... hobbies things like that ... to take your mind off the pain ... and soon the pain will lesson ... talk to friends get it out of your system ... sometimes that is best... good luck
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A happy ending doesn't always include a guy..maybe it's you, on your own. .picking up the pieces and starting over..freeing yourself up for something better in the future. .maybe a happy ending is just moving on..
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Edited by
theseacoast
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Sun 01/18/15 02:33 PM
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The sad thing is,when it comes to "love",for some reason,logic often goes out the window,how long can one love someone so much while not receiving it in return,pretty one sided,wouldn't ya say? But so usual, isn�t it Awatersign? Sad but usual. It�s mostly that one side just loves more - or is alone in that love. |
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i think bashajones is right she has said it all
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it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life.. but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else.... what should i do? Why waste your time to someone who never care? |
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There's no opie replying back. Lost cause.
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There's no opie replying back. Lost cause. |
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it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life.. but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else.... what should i do? put the memories in a box in your mind. you can get them out and think about them now and then in moments of stillness. then do things you enjoy, move on with life. some things are meant to be. those are the things to live for. good luck |
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It's allready 8:48am here she might be on work.
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