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Topic: he cant fight for me........
m3k4y's photo
Sun 01/18/15 05:09 PM
Edited by m3k4y on Sun 01/18/15 05:09 PM
oops doubledgrumble

m3k4y's photo
Sun 01/18/15 05:09 PM

There's no opie replying back. Lost cause.
she went to chase her guy and didn't bother to read our advices. .lol

kc0003's photo
Sun 01/18/15 05:12 PM


There's no opie replying back. Lost cause.
she went to chase her guy and didn't bother to read our advices. .lol


waving hey you...that picture is sooo adorable!

m3k4y's photo
Sun 01/18/15 05:59 PM



There's no opie replying back. Lost cause.
she went to chase her guy and didn't bother to read our advices. .lol


waving hey you...that picture is sooo adorable!
hi thank you sir..waving blushing

Awatersign's photo
Sun 01/18/15 11:13 PM


The sad thing is,when it comes to "love",for some reason,logic often goes out the window,how long can one love someone so much while not receiving it in return,pretty one sided,wouldn't ya say?think :wink:



But so usual, isn�t it Awatersign? Sad but usual. It�s mostly that one side just loves more - or is alone in that love.
Yep,true!I know exactly what that's like,being the one loving the most ,ain't really a bad thing,but totally one sided is what really sucks,the other person don't care about you at all,while you loving them to death!noway

Totage's photo
Mon 01/19/15 12:33 AM

it paints a thousand heartaches in my heart whenever i think of him and what he has done in our relationship in the past... ive been crying since the day he left me and untill now im still hoping that someday he would come back and fix the damage he had made in my life..



but i dont know if he will still come back for me or he has found someone else....


what should i do?


My last realtionship was something similar. I did have hope that she would come back at first, but then I started thinking more about it and tried setting my self pity aside (which still creeps up from time to time). I realized she left me when I needed her most, so why would I want her back when she proved she will not be there when I need her. Its difficult, I still think about her from time to time and want to call her just to hear her voice, but that would only make things worse. Sometimes you just have to accept the loss and move forward.

no photo
Mon 01/19/15 01:42 AM


Well said Totage

I am suffering the same thing - I cannot understand why we think we need them to come back - they were not happy and they did not make us happy so why bother....... I think we fall in love and then we want the dream so bad we keep hoping things will change - But a RAT is a RAT is a RAT forever and ever so let it go...

Totage's photo
Mon 01/19/15 09:07 PM



Well said Totage

I am suffering the same thing - I cannot understand why we think we need them to come back - they were not happy and they did not make us happy so why bother....... I think we fall in love and then we want the dream so bad we keep hoping things will change - But a RAT is a RAT is a RAT forever and ever so let it go...


I think its that and our pride and ego. Once I took a look at the facts and set aside emotions and feelings, it was obvious and I saw all the signs I chose to ignore and the risks I took foolishly.

no photo
Mon 01/19/15 09:51 PM




Well said Totage

I am suffering the same thing - I cannot understand why we think we need them to come back - they were not happy and they did not make us happy so why bother....... I think we fall in love and then we want the dream so bad we keep hoping things will change - But a RAT is a RAT is a RAT forever and ever so let it go...


I think its that and our pride and ego. Once I took a look at the facts and set aside emotions and feelings, it was obvious and I saw all the signs I chose to ignore and the risks I took foolishly.



Oh YEAH agree all that - gotta have some distance to see clearly

Totage's photo
Tue 01/20/15 01:13 AM





Well said Totage

I am suffering the same thing - I cannot understand why we think we need them to come back - they were not happy and they did not make us happy so why bother....... I think we fall in love and then we want the dream so bad we keep hoping things will change - But a RAT is a RAT is a RAT forever and ever so let it go...


I think its that and our pride and ego. Once I took a look at the facts and set aside emotions and feelings, it was obvious and I saw all the signs I chose to ignore and the risks I took foolishly.


Yup, the flower may smell sweet, but taste bitter.


Oh YEAH agree all that - gotta have some distance to see clearly

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