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Topic: Is it ok to have female FRIENDS while working out of town
Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 01/12/15 11:14 PM
wife says as long as I don't bring anything home she is ok I don't mean to sound harsh,but,if that was me and my wife said that,I wouldn't trust her to much,maybe the cable guy,umm,the mail man?Umm,maybe a neighbor who had eyes on her for a while?Wellll,you get the picture,not sayin that's the case but,that would be food for thought!And back to the main question,there's nothing wrong with having a female friend /s,I know we're not perfect,but if you know you have a wife ECT at home,then don't put yourself in a position that you would cheat on her,especially if you wouldn't want her doing it to you,if you feel you're having feelings for her,then do the right thing and back off!! "a wife Electro Convulsive Therapy at home" Cooommee oonnn, You folks are crazy lol!

Amelinng Joined Tue 08/12/14 Posts: 1547	Tue 01/13/15 06:01 AM
wife says as long as I don't bring anything home she is ok Sooooo let me get this right you need our approval ? Well minglers do we give our approval? We are gonna talk this over I'll get back to you on this.... So you wait... OK....my say: NO!

Amelinng Joined Tue 08/12/14 Posts: 1547	Tue 01/13/15 06:02 AM Edited by Amelinng on Tue 01/13/15 06:05 AM
wife says as long as I don't bring anything home she is ok Sooooo let me get this right you need our approval ? Well minglers do we give our approval? We are gonna talk this over I'll get back to you on this.... So you wait... OK....my say: NO! Double post!! Anyway: Still NO NO NO!!!

tamitateo Joined Sun 12/21/14 Posts: 822	Tue 01/13/15 07:15 PM Edited by tamitateo on Tue 01/13/15 07:17 PM
sure!!!.. I'm sure your wife! is having male companionship .. while you are out of town... so why shouldn't you.. have female companionship.. if we were girlfriends we would be bad news, high five .. if we were girlfriend's.. it would be bad news.. for me..lol .. ok.. it would be bad news for my parents...... Martha !!!..yes George.. I thought we had a son..lmao. . you're a boy?

devildog123 Joined Mon 09/08/14 Posts: 3902	Tue 01/13/15 07:53 PM
Is it ok for a married man to have female companionship while he isa working out of town????? you already know the answer to this. Do you think it makes it o.k. because you crossed state lines. If that was the case the state boarders would be the most heavily populated areas in America

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 01/13/15 10:43 PM
Is it ok for a married man to have female companionship while he isa working out of town????? im sure its been said,,,that depends upon the husband and wife if its ok between them,, its ok its NOT ok to sneak,,,,

zzzippy56 Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 7307	Tue 01/13/15 10:57 PM
Is it ok for a married man to have female companionship while he isa working out of town????? im sure its been said,,,that depends upon the husband and wife if its ok between them,, its ok its NOT ok to sneak,,,, Right 100%.....

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Tue 01/13/15 11:07 PM
Is it ok for a married man to have female companionship while he isa working out of town????? Nope.....sounds sneaky and just introduces an element of temptation that you don't need in a committed relationship....

Angeltripping17 Joined Fri 05/09/14 Posts: 267	Wed 01/14/15 01:32 AM
if one ask such things it is not "in love". what he said

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33432	Wed 01/14/15 02:27 AM
wife says as long as I don't bring anything home she is ok I don't mean to sound harsh,but,if that was me and my wife said that,I wouldn't trust her to much,maybe the cable guy,umm,the mail man?Umm,maybe a neighbor who had eyes on her for a while?Wellll,you get the picture,not sayin that's the case but,that would be food for thought!And back to the main question,there's nothing wrong with having a female friend /s,I know we're not perfect,but if you know you have a wife ECT at home,then don't put yourself in a position that you would cheat on her,especially if you wouldn't want her doing it to you,if you feel you're having feelings for her,then do the right thing and back off!! "a wife Electro Convulsive Therapy at home" Thank you, Fleta! As for the answer, NO. Show some respect. Might help your marriage if your wife would know you wouldn't cheat on her. How can you trust a man and keep your love for him alive if you can't trust him? So she 'okayed' it. Did she have a choice? If you want to do it, there's nothing she can do about it other than stick her head in the sand by saying: I don't want to know about it. Doesn't make it right, nor will it make her feel better. You'll come home and she'll be wondering where your lips and bits were the night before. Great way to kill any romantic / love vibe there might be left between the two of you.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 01/14/15 03:00 AM
wife says as long as I don't bring anything home she is ok I don't mean to sound harsh,but,if that was me and my wife said that,I wouldn't trust her to much,maybe the cable guy,umm,the mail man?Umm,maybe a neighbor who had eyes on her for a while?Wellll,you get the picture,not sayin that's the case but,that would be food for thought!And back to the main question,there's nothing wrong with having a female friend /s,I know we're not perfect,but if you know you have a wife ECT at home,then don't put yourself in a position that you would cheat on her,especially if you wouldn't want her doing it to you,if you feel you're having feelings for her,then do the right thing and back off!! "a wife Electro Convulsive Therapy at home" Thank you, Fleta! As for the answer, NO. Show some respect. Might help your marriage if your wife would know you wouldn't cheat on her. How can you trust a man and keep your love for him alive if you can't trust him? So she 'okayed' it. Did she have a choice? If you want to do it, there's nothing she can do about it other than stick her head in the sand by saying: I don't want to know about it. Doesn't make it right, nor will it make her feel better. You'll come home and she'll be wondering where your lips and bits were the night before. Great way to kill any romantic / love vibe there might be left between the two of you. Lol I don't know if anyone noticed,but the topic says"female friends",crossing THAT line is what's wrong,right?