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Topic: not so sure theres 1 person for everyone
Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 01/12/15 11:07 PM
totage the loss of your child is easily the greatest loss of all the fact you get up everyday makes you a remarkable man. many many women would be knowingly lucky to be with you. don't give up on yourself. just keep going and be open to good things happening. I haven't given up on myself. I've just reached a point in my life where I've realized and accept that I have missed the window to reach some of my hopes and dreams for my life, but I'm not down or depressed or feeling sorry for myself for missing those chances. It is what it is. Life isn't always sunshine and rainbows, but the storms in life are not necessarily bad either. Of course some are bad, but just because something may look bad such as my position on me finding a soulmate, doesn't necessarily mean it is a bad thing.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 01/12/15 11:14 PM
What do I do if my soulmate lives in a mushroom and eats paper?...

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 01/12/15 11:19 PM
What do I do if my soulmate lives in a mushroom and eats paper?... Eat the mushroom,end of story!

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Mon 01/12/15 11:20 PM
What do I do if my soulmate lives in a mushroom and eats paper?... Eat the mushroom,end of story!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 01/13/15 11:59 AM
of course there is someone for everyone. you just need to look at everyone on offer. I disagree. If you look at it in a scientific way; by the time you remove the broken people as you put it, the ones that you may want in a certain age group, remove the criminals, the population of men to women world wide, the ones who don't want people in their life as they would rather be with their pets, the abusers, and remove the ones who have addictions, then odds dramatically decrease. Fate also has a big play in whether you are indeed meant to be with someone. So, no there certainly isn't someone for everyone.

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Tue 01/13/15 12:17 PM
What do I do if my soulmate lives in a mushroom and eats paper?... Eat the mushroom,end of story! Or if it's a magic one, go on a trip?

realcarebear Joined Sat 12/07/13 Posts: 6876	Tue 01/13/15 05:14 PM
of course there is someone for everyone. you just need to look at everyone on offer. I disagree. If you look at it in a scientific way; by the time you remove the broken people as you put it, the ones that you may want in a certain age group, remove the criminals, the population of men to women world wide, the ones who don't want people in their life as they would rather be with their pets, the abusers, and remove the ones who have addictions, then odds dramatically decrease. Fate also has a big play in whether you are indeed meant to be with someone. So, no there certainly isn't someone for everyone. I don't believe this. I respect it but I believe there is most definitely more than one person who can be right for you. If your heart is open to it.

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 01/13/15 05:25 PM
of course there is someone for everyone. you just need to look at everyone on offer. I disagree. If you look at it in a scientific way; by the time you remove the broken people as you put it, the ones that you may want in a certain age group, remove the criminals, the population of men to women world wide, the ones who don't want people in their life as they would rather be with their pets, the abusers, and remove the ones who have addictions, then odds dramatically decrease. Fate also has a big play in whether you are indeed meant to be with someone. So, no there certainly isn't someone for everyone. I don't believe this. I respect it but I believe there is most definitely more than one person who can be right for you. If your heart is open to it. agreed, people tend to want what they want, so that eliminates a bunch of prospects... by saying to tall, or not blonde, or anything that is just physical diminishes their chances of finding love...

elle_rose Joined Sat 07/26/14 Posts: 828	Tue 01/13/15 05:32 PM
just be optimistic, it is not just you.....

preppygurl Joined Mon 05/23/11 Posts: 2	Tue 01/13/15 06:45 PM
love comes when u less expect it.

chrissyjewell Joined Sat 07/26/08 Posts: 25	Tue 01/13/15 08:46 PM
Just 1 seems impossible! ! Ha

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Tue 01/13/15 08:50 PM
of course there is someone for everyone. you just need to look at everyone on offer. I disagree. If you look at it in a scientific way; by the time you remove the broken people as you put it, the ones that you may want in a certain age group, remove the criminals, the population of men to women world wide, the ones who don't want people in their life as they would rather be with their pets, the abusers, and remove the ones who have addictions, then odds dramatically decrease. Fate also has a big play in whether you are indeed meant to be with someone. So, no there certainly isn't someone for everyone. Not only that some people simply do not need someone else to complete them. Some are incapable of having long lasting relationships. There's other factors too, but simply not everyone is meant to be with someone, so there is not someone for everyone. It truly is unrealistic to believe that there is someone for everyone and/or everyone is capable of having such relationships.Its not a negative thing either, its just a simple fact. If you're holding onto hope that you will some day find the one for you, analyze the situation and figure out how you can make that happen. Its OK if you come to the conclusion that you don't need anyone. If you conclude otherwise, go get 'em, but don't be afraid to walk alone, if that's what is meant to be.

chrissyjewell Joined Sat 07/26/08 Posts: 25	Tue 01/13/15 08:58 PM
Everyone's responses have been so helpful!! Some, more than others.....but I will say, I almost like this part of the website better than the dating for "girl talk"....ha awesome

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Tue 01/13/15 09:00 PM
Everyone's responses have been so helpful!! Some, more than others.....but I will say, I almost like this part of the website better than the dating for "girl talk"....ha awesome If it wasn't for the forums, I wouldn't spend 2 minutes on this site...

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 01/13/15 09:04 PM
Just 1 seems impossible! ! Ha 7 billion people in the world, the odds are in your favor...plus, being pretty never hurts

chrissyjewell Joined Sat 07/26/08 Posts: 25	Tue 01/13/15 09:07 PM


kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Tue 01/13/15 09:41 PM
all you need to know on the subject... http://youtu.be/Gaid72fqzNE

Calista75 Joined Tue 01/13/15 Posts: 3	Wed 01/14/15 09:56 AM
Totage, it's just a phase. It will all go away, and you will be ready for meeting someone.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Wed 01/14/15 11:01 AM
of course there is someone for everyone. you just need to look at everyone on offer. I disagree. If you look at it in a scientific way; by the time you remove the broken people as you put it, the ones that you may want in a certain age group, remove the criminals, the population of men to women world wide, the ones who don't want people in their life as they would rather be with their pets, the abusers, and remove the ones who have addictions, then odds dramatically decrease. Fate also has a big play in whether you are indeed meant to be with someone. So, no there certainly isn't someone for everyone. Not only that some people simply do not need someone else to complete them. Some are incapable of having long lasting relationships. There's other factors too, but simply not everyone is meant to be with someone, so there is not someone for everyone. It truly is unrealistic to believe that there is someone for everyone and/or everyone is capable of having such relationships.Its not a negative thing either, its just a simple fact. If you're holding onto hope that you will some day find the one for you, analyze the situation and figure out how you can make that happen. Its OK if you come to the conclusion that you don't need anyone. If you conclude otherwise, go get 'em, but don't be afraid to walk alone, if that's what is meant to be. I agree with you 100% and I do believe I too was meant to walk alone.