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Topic: What makes a good Relationship
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Wed 12/31/14 03:36 AM
Where does it start and where it ends......

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Thu 01/01/15 12:56 AM
Edited by kc0003 on Thu 01/01/15 01:12 AM

Where does it start and where it ends......


it starts with chemistry and ends with chemical dependency...

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Thu 01/01/15 01:00 AM


Where does it start and where it ends......


it starts with chemistry and with chemical dependency...

This.

It's like the fire triangle, take away one of the three elements and the fire goes out.

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Thu 01/01/15 06:15 AM
:thumbsup: It is a triangle!....Communication, trust, desire (chemistry)...Franky is right, when one of these is missing, the fire goes out....:cry:

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Thu 01/01/15 06:31 AM
So you recommend a love triangle? :angel:

I do agree. I think it starts with attraction, there should be trust, and real good communication.

I do think communication is the main thing though: it can create attraction, and it helps build trust. Many ppl have poor communication skills and don't even know about it. Poor communication can kill attraction, trust and love.
So if a relationship ends, I think it ends there.

Such an important thing, and none of us get training in this, so most communicate from the head, ego, fear, insecurities instead of from the heart, care and compassion.

Sometimes our society really sux. We get brainwashed to 'lie' and pretend so often.. Think about a job interview: "Oh yes, I've always dreamt of doing this work blablablar"
While in actual fact you're thinking and feeling: "Gimme the effing job, please!! I need the money and I really don't give a chit what I do, as long as I got a job!!"

Or being forced by parents to apologizes while you don't feel sorry at all for bashing that a-hole kid on the head, lol.

We get trained from early childhood to pretend as opposed to speaking our truth.

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Thu 01/01/15 05:53 PM

Where does it start and where it ends......


Usually the hi part works. Then if you like their face and body must know how to construct words together that form sentences and awesome questions. Something like: "Is it just me or are all these recent movie reboots bordering on unoriginality?"

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Thu 01/01/15 06:50 PM
starts with gaining trust and ends with loosing trust

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Thu 01/01/15 07:02 PM
it starts with "can i get your number?" and ends in divorce court....

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Thu 01/01/15 07:48 PM
Edited by 467noreaga on Thu 01/01/15 07:48 PM

it starts with "can i get your number?" and ends in divorce court....



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Thu 01/01/15 07:50 PM
usually it starts with a 1 800 number..
.. and then ends when I max out my credit card....:banana:

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Thu 01/01/15 07:57 PM
compatibility

starts with knowing who you are and what you want,, and finding another who has done the same

ends with you both being the 'what' for the other,,,

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Fri 01/02/15 01:04 AM


Where does it start and where it ends......


it starts with chemistry and ends with chemical dependency...



rofl rofl rofl rofl

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Fri 01/02/15 01:10 AM

compatibility

starts with knowing who you are and what you want,, and finding another who has done the same

ends with you both being the 'what' for the other,,,


I like this.... I fully agree....waving

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Fri 01/02/15 04:19 AM
It starts with 'I love you'love :heart: and ends brokenheart when it becomes 'I loathe you'!rant frustrated

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Fri 01/02/15 08:42 AM
Let's be honest here. It starts when you like someone. Then you go through that whole lust phase (face it people....we all wanna knock boots and get freaky. Stop with the whole I can go ten years without sex cause while you can it isn't healthy). Anyways, you then feel that lust turn into companionship mode (communication, developing love, all the good and bad stuff goes here). And then you lose it when you either lose that feeling of companionship or you simply just become a whore and bang someone who isn't your special someone. Wanna know why most either never get to that companionship stage or leave it? They hate they work that is involved. And that is when it all ends. I'm out!

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Sat 01/03/15 06:19 AM
It starts with chemistry, then good communication between both parties, along with honesty and sincerity and then a solid trust.

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Sat 01/03/15 07:41 AM

Let's be honest here. It starts when you like someone. Then you go through that whole lust phase (face it people....we all wanna knock boots and get freaky. Stop with the whole I can go ten years without sex cause while you can it isn't healthy). Anyways, you then feel that lust turn into companionship mode (communication, developing love, all the good and bad stuff goes here). And then you lose it when you either lose that feeling of companionship or you simply just become a whore and bang someone who isn't your special someone. Wanna know why most either never get to that companionship stage or leave it? They hate they work that is involved. And that is when it all ends. I'm out!


:thumbsup:

Print and frame this because it is brutally honest and 99% true....Banging someone who isn't your special someone is the exception... That empty feeling that follows after having sex with someone I don't love is a biotch...Relationships with staying power require a ton of hard work, the kind of work that many people aren't willing to invest in...ohwell


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Sat 01/03/15 07:54 AM
The bad ones start with hot sauce and end with the chits! :cry:

The good ones start with hot sauce and end with sizzling Fajitas!!!drool

The mediocre ones start like slow cooked BBQ but end up like beef jerky,... dried up, tasty, and edible, but not really satisfying. sad2

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Sat 01/03/15 08:32 AM
I wouldn't know.

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Sat 01/03/15 09:58 AM
... I forget... Pls refresh my memory...indifferent

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