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Topic: Marriage first?
messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Tue 12/30/14 08:32 AM
What advice can i give except, don't settle for 2nd best and bide your time, as the right person for you is out there, but compromise also? Got to be give and take from both sides, not just one!

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Tue 12/30/14 08:37 AM
Would you seriously date someone who wants to have intercourse only after marriage? Why or why not? That is what I did when I dated my late wife. She and I waited until after we were married before we had sexual intercourse. The waiting didn't hurt our courtship.

fakefeelings Joined Tue 12/30/14 Posts: 1	Tue 12/30/14 08:40 AM
hahahhaha alot of fun here m impressed :)

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Tue 12/30/14 09:06 AM
Dodo David- I agree, sometimes sex tends to complicate the road to love

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 12/30/14 09:21 AM
If it meant that much to the other person, yes I would wait for marriage before I had sex. I would respect that person's wish.

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Tue 12/30/14 09:27 AM Edited by Pansytilly on Tue 12/30/14 09:31 AM
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Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Tue 12/30/14 09:31 AM
Would you seriously date someone who wants to have intercourse only after marriage? Why or why not? That is what I did when I dated my late wife. She and I waited until after we were married before we had sexual intercourse. The waiting didn't hurt our courtship. Bet it gave you time to get to know the other more deeply, rather than become too preoccupied with the physical aspect... ?

clairery86 Joined Fri 10/31/14 Posts: 16	Tue 12/30/14 09:55 AM
Would you seriously date someone who wants to have intercourse only after marriage? Why or why not? That is what I did when I dated my late wife. She and I waited until after we were married before we had sexual intercourse. The waiting didn't hurt our courtship. Bet it gave you time to get to know the other more deeply, rather than become too preoccupied with the physical aspect... ? I think sex is so much better if your in love as it means so much more. Though I don't think I could wait that long for it, but it's nice that some people do :)

girlie_tazmania Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 258	Tue 12/30/14 10:20 AM
Would you seriously date someone who wants to have intercourse only after marriage? Why or why not? wow..very interesting topic for me. :p I'm sure, maybe most people here will not agree with me, but that's ok, because I understand that everyone has a different point of view about it, also you all have rights to do whatever you want as long as you enjoy it. But for me, I'd prefer doing sex after marriage. Maybe that's also meaning I will never dating someone who not serious with me ( especially someone who only wants to have intercourse before marriage).

girlie_tazmania Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 258	Tue 12/30/14 10:30 AM
Would you seriously date someone who wants to have intercourse only after marriage? Why or why not? That is what I did when I dated my late wife. She and I waited until after we were married before we had sexual intercourse. The waiting didn't hurt our courtship. I do agree with your opinion, Mr David.

larsonc Joined Fri 06/20/14 Posts: 2377	Tue 12/30/14 10:34 AM
I agree with girlie_tazmania and Dodo_David

girlie_tazmania Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 258	Tue 12/30/14 10:46 AM
I agree with girlie_tazmania and Dodo_David Yeah, maybe we all ( Mr David, you, and me ) have the same point of view about it..he,he,he

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Tue 12/30/14 11:03 PM
I agree with girlie_tazmania and Dodo_David Yeah, maybe we all ( Mr David, you, and me ) have the same point of view about it..he,he,he Cheers!

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Tue 12/30/14 11:06 PM
one will learn in life about questions asked, that the answerer will always lose. then the good life can begin.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Tue 12/30/14 11:29 PM
Speaking for myself I do not think I could wait. I would like to say I could wait for a long time but it would not be true.Being so attracted to a person that your in love with and not being able to touch them would over load my circuits.

davidben1 Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 6120	Tue 12/30/14 11:32 PM
if you can't wait long enough to make your that is not their most goal, than you deserve what those who such is their most goal, do to you.

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Wed 12/31/14 05:42 AM
Speaking for myself I do not think I could wait. I would like to say I could wait for a long time but it would not be true.Being so attracted to a person that your in love with and not being able to touch them would over load my circuits. It's that bad?

ManofGod71 Joined Sat 12/27/14 Posts: 120	Wed 12/31/14 05:50 AM
I would not sacrifice the possibility of true love for a roll in the hay. It seems like in my past that has been the cost.

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Wed 12/31/14 08:44 AM
some of y'all saying waiting for marriage shows true love.no,letting someone take you to pound town shows true love,waiting til marriage just shows you want to wait to show your love

stephaniemarie0712 Joined Mon 12/29/14 Posts: 10	Wed 12/31/14 11:28 AM
I could never live with out sex, so I couldn't. I guess I'm just a horny beast lol ladies,take notes! Smdh