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Write down a list of pros and cons about being with said person...then a list of pros and cons without said person...then really look them over...then write down what you really want out of a relationship...then after your hand cramps and none of it makes sense...wrap up in your favorite blanket, get cozy on your couch and watch a good comedy...and get some ice cream too...hmmmm and just remember you matter no matter what...
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A quick question for all: What's the easiest way to move on from being heartbroken? Your answers will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. :-) CHOCOLATE. |
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What if you're housemates?how do you move on?
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There is no easy way... you will just have to go through it all.. It takes time. Try to not communicate with him anymore .. if you still find that hard, then don't reply straight away, wait at least a few hours. That way you 'wean' yourself, sometimes that's what it takes, sometimes it's too much to sever all ties in one go. But keep working on being in touch less and less. What always worked for me, is promising myself I could get in touch with him after two weeks. That gave me something to hang on to, knowing that I would allow myself to get in touch. And the good thing is, by the time the two weeks had gone by, I didn't need to get in touch anymore! That made me feel soooo good! And helped me to get over it and move on with my life. Perfect way to handle it, Crystal. I find it as a very helpful advise for me too - when it comes. Thanks  
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What if you're housemates?how do you move on? in that case you both continue ****ing each others brains out until 1 of you leaves the house  
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I prefer not breaking up at all because each time I break up it's harder to get over and every relationship that follows get's more painful to end and difficult to maintain.
So, I believe that it's best to stay with your first love. I will just have to pass that advice on to my daughter so hopefully she doesn't waste years going through drama. |
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I prefer not breaking up at all because each time I break up it's harder to get over and every relationship that follows get's more painful to end and difficult to maintain. So, I believe that it's best to stay with your first love. I will just have to pass that advice on to my daughter so hopefully she doesn't waste years going through drama. So for example say if your daughter is miserable and getting treated like **** and always hurting when she could be happier and treated Better with someone that deserves her you would tell her '' dont worry honey dont end the relationship it will save you years of drama'' 
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I would actually advise finding someone new that's way more fun than the last person and doing drugs with them. But... that's just me.
ANOTHER suggestion, and probably healthier than my techniques, is to find a new hobby or something new that creatively challenges you. Henry Miller said something to the effect that 'the best way to get over a woman is to turn her into literature', which is groovy if you're a writer. Or become a writer. Basically just occupy your time with something creative and fun that has absolutely nothing to do with that person, and preferably something new to remind you of your individuality. |
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Edited by
Estelle79
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Fri 12/12/14 11:38 AM
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(In response to Unknown_Romeo)
Then it's best to leave. But I think the best relationships usually start with couples who met before they reached the age of maturity. I've heard lot's of good stories about couples who were high school sweethearts and about how they end up being happily married for life. For one thing they can share the same memories, shape each other's goals and lives to make better choices, and they no doubt protect each other from many things in life that happen to single people when they're young and throughout life. That's the point in having a partner in life, to share everything with and not do it all alone. What's the point when you've already done it all alone? |
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(In response to Unknown_Romeo) Then it's best to leave. But I think the best relationships usually start with couples who met before they reached the age of maturity. I've heard lot's of good stories about couples who were high school sweethearts and about how they end up being happily married for life. For one thing they can share the same memories, shape each other's goals and lives to make better choices, and they no doubt protect each other from many things in life that happen to single people when they're young and throughout life. That's the point in having a partner in life, to share everything with and not do it all alone. What's the point when you've already done it all alone? That's a good question. |
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Some times God takes people out of your life because he has a different plan for you and that person is keeping you from that path, so look for life to be better, and know everything happens for. Reason
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Some times God takes people out of your life because he has a different plan for you and that person is keeping you from that path, so look for life to be better, and know everything happens for. Reason True. However, God helps those who help themselves. God is not a lottery ticket. Even Gods love isn't unconditional. There is IF and THEN, even in that relationship, right? :-) The way I see it our Creator wants us to have expectations from ourselves and not to "rely on a of divine intervention". Help comes to those who help themselves, not to those who just pray or play lottery. |
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A quick question for all: What's the easiest way to move on from being heartbroken? Your answers will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. :-) The easiest? Well I hear having your memory wiped is pretty rad....and effective. |
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A quick question for all: What's the easiest way to move on from being heartbroken? Your answers will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. :-) The easiest? Well I hear having your memory wiped is pretty rad....and effective. Easy way is only a faster way and if you don't learn from an experience it's also a shortcut to repeating it till you eventually learn... so easy way is not always the most efficient way of solving anything in a long run. |
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(In response to Unknown_Romeo) Then it's best to leave. But I think the best relationships usually start with couples who met before they reached the age of maturity. I've heard lot's of good stories about couples who were high school sweethearts and about how they end up being happily married for life. For one thing they can share the same memories, shape each other's goals and lives to make better choices, and they no doubt protect each other from many things in life that happen to single people when they're young and throughout life. That's the point in having a partner in life, to share everything with and not do it all alone. What's the point when you've already done it all alone? It would be the ideal if it would work for everybody. I know such couples. Noone would feel misery of broken heart. But for most it unfortunately doesn�t work like that. Or not unfortunately - it�s always painful - but it depends what we choose to pick out of it. That pain can help us grow as persons. And also teach us to recognize good things, good people, when they happen to us. People who were most hurted can really feel love, joy and happiness, when they come, much deeper and stronger then the others. Those people can overcome the pain and hurt by giving the opposit to the world. Each wound teach us to be more compassionate, more understanding and afraid just of one thing: of hurting other people in a way we were hurted. And in that point wound starts to be a blessing. I wish to all of us to be able to transform every sorrowful moment of our lives into joy and love  And, if Davidben allow me, i�ll quote him: peace |
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(In response to Unknown_Romeo) Then it's best to leave. But I think the best relationships usually start with couples who met before they reached the age of maturity. I've heard lot's of good stories about couples who were high school sweethearts and about how they end up being happily married for life. For one thing they can share the same memories, shape each other's goals and lives to make better choices, and they no doubt protect each other from many things in life that happen to single people when they're young and throughout life. That's the point in having a partner in life, to share everything with and not do it all alone. What's the point when you've already done it all alone? It would be the ideal if it would work for everybody. I know such couples. Noone would feel misery of broken heart. But for most it unfortunately doesn�t work like that. Or not unfortunately - it�s always painful - but it depends what we choose to pick out of it. That pain can help us grow as persons. And also teach us to recognize good things, good people, when they happen to us. People who were most hurted can really feel love, joy and happiness, when they come, much deeper and stronger then the others. Those people can overcome the pain and hurt by giving the opposit to the world. Each wound teach us to be more compassionate, more understanding and afraid just of one thing: of hurting other people in a way we were hurted. And in that point wound starts to be a blessing. I wish to all of us to be able to transform every sorrowful moment of our lives into joy and love And, if Davidben allow me, i�ll quote him: peace hell no! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! hehehehe... |
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(In response to Unknown_Romeo) Then it's best to leave. But I think the best relationships usually start with couples who met before they reached the age of maturity. I've heard lot's of good stories about couples who were high school sweethearts and about how they end up being happily married for life. For one thing they can share the same memories, shape each other's goals and lives to make better choices, and they no doubt protect each other from many things in life that happen to single people when they're young and throughout life. That's the point in having a partner in life, to share everything with and not do it all alone. What's the point when you've already done it all alone? It would be the ideal if it would work for everybody. I know such couples. Noone would feel misery of broken heart. But for most it unfortunately doesn�t work like that. Or not unfortunately - it�s always painful - but it depends what we choose to pick out of it. That pain can help us grow as persons. And also teach us to recognize good things, good people, when they happen to us. People who were most hurted can really feel love, joy and happiness, when they come, much deeper and stronger then the others. Those people can overcome the pain and hurt by giving the opposit to the world. Each wound teach us to be more compassionate, more understanding and afraid just of one thing: of hurting other people in a way we were hurted. And in that point wound starts to be a blessing. I wish to all of us to be able to transform every sorrowful moment of our lives into joy and love And, if Davidben allow me, i�ll quote him: peace hell no! NO! NO! NO! NO! NO! hehehehe... too late 
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