I never had trouble til the last year I've always been self conscious but its been hard to meet and as usual I assume it's because of my woerd face lol.any help appreciated

From looking at your profile it looks nice but I would say add a face shot and tell a little more about yourself.

Good luck!

Saw you profile and I must say, you're good-looking. There are just different preferences. You haven't met the one who'd look beyond the looks. Your description says you're intelligent. SOme women may be intimated, some may not find that cool. I don't understand why, coz being smart is the sexiest thing ever. Anyway, don't give up. Good luck on the search. :)

Your profile is alright. Add pics of you showing your face much clearer. You dont look weird at all

Welcome and goodluck on your search!

Honest???

The bit about you being back in town (if you mean that literally) is totally irrelevant on a dating-site ..

The rest doesn't feel appealing nor open "I can't stand most girls" is the first negative message, that's not gonna entice anyone to reply. Why take the risk of being told you can't stand them either?

Saying you're genius level feels rather arrogant. Might also scare off ppl who don't have a high degree of something. Who can live up to your expectations? If you're point is that this is why you can be awkward, I'd rephrase, make it sound funny, take the mickey out of yourself concerning this. That is appealing. This isn't ..

The last line could be okay if the rest was lighthearted and with a pinch of humour and self-mockery. The way it is now, it adds to the arrogant vibe.
Same for saying you can make someone laugh without even trying. Now it comes across as self-boasting. With some slight changes it could be funny and appealing...
In short: there's nothing wrong with being confident, can be very attractive (if you truly are confident that is) but if you convey it the 'wrong' way, it's not sexy ..

As for the picture, you look okay, but this picture is not clear. I couldn't tell for sure whether you were male or female, the phone is blocking your body/face. Stick another one in that shows your face a bit better, cos yes, you look alright.

Good luck here!

You have a nice face!...It's probably been hard because peeps pick up on self consciousness and sometimes it makes them uncomfortable :-)...Your second pic is a lot clearer, try taking one with the ceiling light off...

Welcome to Mingle, we love brainiacs! ....Luck, love and happiness!

PS, don't listen to frito!

so tell me what about doesn't get ananswer I must know????

To be honest I have zero confidence but I'm told that's unnatractive too so I kind of try and find a way of putting across the facts as they are in a different tone than I usually would.but thank you for the criticisms

Well I made the profile in a hurry but thank you much you are quite sweet.
I changed a bunch and tried to take a better pic I'm not very photogenic though I must say

u look cute lol

you look good. nerd people are ....... i dunno i cant say cause im a nerd too.youre attractive in a different way. not physically tho but personality maybe as ive read whats on ur profile

Im gonna have to agree. But with that being said, I think youre a very handsome young man. Not weird at all. Good luck to you :)quote]
Honest???

The bit about you being back in town (if you mean that literally) is totally irrelevant on a dating-site ..

The rest doesn't feel appealing nor open "I can't stand most girls" is the first negative message, that's not gonna entice anyone to reply. Why take the risk of being told you can't stand them either?

Saying you're genius level feels rather arrogant. Might also scare off ppl who don't have a high degree of something. Who can live up to your expectations? If you're point is that this is why you can be awkward, I'd rephrase, make it sound funny, take the mickey out of yourself concerning this. That is appealing. This isn't ..

The last line could be okay if the rest was lighthearted and with a pinch of humour and self-mockery. The way it is now, it adds to the arrogant vibe.
Same for saying you can make someone laugh without even trying. Now it comes across as self-boasting. With some slight changes it could be funny and appealing...
In short: there's nothing wrong with being confident, can be very attractive (if you truly are confident that is) but if you convey it the 'wrong' way, it's not sexy ..

As for the picture, you look okay, but this picture is not clear. I couldn't tell for sure whether you were male or female, the phone is blocking your body/face. Stick another one in that shows your face a bit better, cos yes, you look alright.

Good luck here!

Sorry. Meant to click on the quote *button* :/