Who is a single mom here and how do you find time to be alone and go on a date? Also, what kind of relationship does a single mom have? Do you talk about your ex/kids/shopping on your dates?

How about you guys who date single mom/moms? Why would you/wouldn't you date a single mom?

I have never considered dating/not dating a single mom.

I'd rather date someone without kids and then have kids with them. Dated single mums before and would have to think long and hard before making that move again!

i dated a divorced lady who had 4 kids ( she was 32 ) , she used to mention her kids , and her ex husband sometimes , i didn't mind she mentioning her kids , they were smart and cute , i met her little daughter once , she was a real angel .
i understood mentioning her husband every now and then , as he used to visit his kids , and she used to tell me about that , it wasn't a big deal .
why would i date a single mum ? well , single moms are ladies who have hearts like other ladies , so why wouldn't I ?

Single Mom's are hawt! And they give great head....ache.

i would like to ask you all those questions....how do you manage to do all those m'amm?

Ive done it before its not that bad really.i had fun.maakeing them laugh and seeing them happy.its sad there are so maney single moms,and dads outthere to.id do it again if i found someone i liked.

I am agreeing with you Whitey. Just make them happy all. Give a casual chat.

Hiii

I think yes some guys are afraid of dating single moms but the conversation should not be what you think about, when you on the date and two people click the conversation will run its course,i do not think that the kids should be exposed to every guy a single mom dates as it can be confusing to the child.

Hi

I would why not

No issue...

I married two divorced moms.. It didn't work out, but the last one gave me my blood son..

All da single ladies ,all da single ladies Way they at- way they at

How you find time is up to you. If you got no one to look after your kids for an afternoon, and maybe 2nd+ dates in the evenings), it depends on the money you got to spend on a baby-sitter.
A first date doesn't have to be more than an hour, but bearing in mind if you like each other, you may want to see each other more often. So you first got to work out the bit "Who's gonna look after my kids" and how much money you got to spend on that.
If you can only have a sitter once a month, your dating life will be just that and a man may want to start seeing you more often at some point..
If you can only date 1 man a month, it may also take a long time to find someone you really like.

Then you gotta work out what you want from a date. Do you want a 'daddy for kiddies' or do you want to feel like a woman, meet great men and have fun in life and at some point meet that one great man? So in other words: Is Mommy dating or is Woman dating?
If the latter, then you don't talk about your kids, ex etc. unless it happens to come up. But then don't linger on the subject. You gotta get to know each other first, see if there's something there.

If you're dating a 'daddy looking for mommy for kids' kinda guy, you probably talk about kids a lot, but still steer clear from exes. And never ever biotch about an ex! So not sexy and gives off the vibe you're not over him yet OR that you are a mega biotch.

So after the 'babysit' issue you gotta decide what YOU expect from dating.
If you're confident about what you want from it, express that in the outside world, online or in real life, and you will get your dates, kids or not...

dating a single mom is much preferred to dating a married mom, no?

Exaaaaccttlyy!