I have never had a boyfriend before and struggle to even get asked out. I guess I am kind of shy but I just don't get it! Any suggestions on how to ask a guy out? And by looking at my pictures and profile would any of you date me?

Yeah, seriously? You must be joking, or are all the people around you blind?! lol Just be yourself, you'll attract who and what you're meant to. With a gorgeous smile and dazzling eyes like yours I'm sure you'll have no problem finding people to date! ;)

Even if the guy is a Melmacian in Human guise, how could he refuse?

hi and welcome.
you're young. take the time to enjoy life. study. build your future. don't be in a rush to find love. when it's your time that special person will come into your life.
wish you all the best

Your In Boston And Cant Get Or Find A Date???
I Swear Ive Seen Your Pics Before....
hmmmmm

Welcome to the club.
I can't get a date even though how much I emphasize that I am a nice guy.

Maybe, its chance or luck.

Stop saying you can't,you're not a loser right?! So don't think like one!

Some people will tell you ,"don't change who you are,be yourself",maybe they're right,but you may want to check that "nice guy"thing again!!

Hi water sign

I am earth.

Would like you to elaborate on your comment. Maybe, it could help me...

maybe some flowers will help!

Typical everyone starts talking about looks .. being attractive is not to do with looks, it's about your vibe, the way you carry yourself. You can be incredibly pretty, if the vibe you exude and your bodylanguage isn't right, you can still be 'off-putting'.

Now your pictures look okay, by which I mean that you look cheerful and happy, so it must be something else. You study psychology .. analyze yourself.. how do you behave when there's men around. Do you shut down, withdraw, or maybe display over the top behaviour etc etc. There must be something that gives of a signal of 'no go'.
Sometimes ppl appear happy and strong, but they appear so strong, that they're unapproachable. So maybe you're in 'shields-up' mode a lot, others will feel that ..

Indeed the way to go is to simply smile at a guy you like, look him in the eye, for longer than just 1 or 2 seconds. Try 5 seconds. And repeat this, most men don't get you are interested in them until you let them know at least some 3 times... --> Most think you're looking / smiling at the guy behind them or something, anyone but them, so you need to signal them some 3 times till they get it. Some thickos may need even more, lol.

Anyway, analyze how things go and learn, adapt here and there, small things..

I don't know about that, but you do look like the sister of a friend of mine from Clinton.



because I can't word it any better.

good luck and have fun.

Thanks David for the flowers (if they were intended for me)

Hey, Crystal fairy.
I really liked your description about the moves.
Could you give me a suggestion how to look at a girl which would suggest my aporoach and bot creepiness.(if I need to tell a girl that I would like to ask her out.)

Here's what I want you to do,we're going let the audience explain it,that way you get everyone's opinion,simply post one of these topics ,,Do women really love nice guys? Or just,,,The "Nice guy",your thoughts...post it and veiw all the responses!!!

Ok.
Thanks.

Might do that.

Add a few pics of you in your bikini to your profile, guys like girls in a bikini, this should generate a few requests for a date.