The wait,hm,waiting on Mr /Miss right,how long is this waiting line? Well, from all the postings and topics we've read so far alone,I'd say it's extremely long,wouldn't you think? We're not going to settle for less than we deserve,so we've decided that we're going to "stick it out"until one day god happens to drop him/her in our laps so to speak! Everything takes time and patience is a virtue,I think we're all aware of this,but I've came to to the conclusion that,waiting is just half the process,and to add to that,while I've seen alot of people just sitting and waiting,I've seen people build up relationship to the point where they can say ,"hey, this person is my Mr /miss right",when in fact that person never came into their life as that Mr /miss right that they are today,all those Mr/miss right characteristics we're not identified at first,maybe just a little,one or two maybe,so, does or can one actually identify"Mr /miss right when he/she comes knocking?????

Seen a lot of wannabes...and a few ifonlys...probably missed my "Mr.Right"....trying to make believe Mr.Wrong was the one...but I will always hope one day I meet the man of my dreams..perhaps someday...hmmmm

Thrre is no such thing as you missed your Mr. Right/ Miss Right, coz the Day you are brought into this world your Life Partner is already pre-determined....however it is your actions and good deeds and faith and prayers that will lead you to him/her....

You can be madly in Love with someone and everything can seem perfect but that Person may Not Be meant for you which will eventually lead you to meet the One you meant for and even if you Do meet the One for you it does Not guarantee that everything will be perfect




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Mr./Ms. Right exist only in the mind, and chasing them is a shadow chasing game.

What Romeo says ...

As for the waiting line .. I think it has a lot to do with being ready yourself? If you still have a lot of issues and hangups or things to get sussed in life, it may simply not be the right time yet.. I think when you're ready you may simply jump queue or leave the waiting line altogether.

I've also found myself wondering if sometimes you are put on hold so to speak, because the right one for you isn't available or ready yet?

I mean, look at Mingle's latest love couple .. He'd been here for 6 years, she only became a member about 5 months ago. If she'd come on here 4, 5, 6, yrs ago, it might not have worked?
These things kind of make me think..

True enough. But sometimes one has to push destiny a little rather than just wait for Mr. Right/Miss Right.

I agree with all the response so far and even got to learn more ,but that's one the main point I was trying to make! {{{Iamma}}}}

I can explain that....sort of.

We knew each other on another "dating forum". Although that site was in reality geared to trolls, and cruelty, and in fact focused on negativity, exploiting bad behaviors of the opposite sexes. On that site, we did know each other's morals and integrity, and we were of like minds and philosophy, however that site and all it entails was not conducive for us to "get together", so to speak.

I quit the other site, and they deleted me (now they is subjective cuz there, other users can report/flag out other users into deletion). I actually have an email from merc, claiming responsibility for my deletion. He was deleted as well. He didn't recognize me here when I came under my little birdie profile picture. After we messaged for a week, he recognized me. I didn't know who he was due to his not being visible on the other site, and couldn't remember his photos from who they were attached at the other site.

This site made it possible to actually think in terms of positive and not negative.

It was just the place where we were in our lives at the time.

That whole thing sounds like destiny at it's greatest,just really cool stuff right there,it's also a great testimony for people who feel like giving up or has already,now you guys' have to share some your "naught moments"to now ,nooo I don't mean that lol,pg stuff haha,best wishes!

I'll be a stick in the mud and disagree. If anything is preordained then we have lost our free will.

Now, life is full of possibilities. You can find your perfect match and be happily together everafter, but you will have to search... and wait, sometimes for a long time.

Yes thats true but my point was things are not perfect all the time and its Free will that will make that happen.
Nobody Really knows who they will end up with even if they know exactly what they want but you will meet the one for you sooner or later

Figure I will bump into mine on a seniors singles cruise and fall overboard...bad habit of mine..always go overboard...lol..xo

Absolutely agree with that!


Lol not ignoring you knightheart, I was just agreeing with romeo.

Yeah, people who are passionate tend to do that. I am learning to take things slow though.

And I meant this one for you knightheart!

I would say both?

Is it really the right person or is it the right moment?

no worries..kinda like A to Z games on here...lol

People need to stop "waiting" and just do one thing.....live your freaking life. Love is not found.....when you set out to find it and this quest is your one and only mission. I met my ex-wife on a school bus one day and never thought she was gonna be the one for me (she was at that point in my life). I didn't set out daily searching or waiting for love. I have just lived my life and let whatever happens happen. I worked in the Philly area for a half year and dated a girl there that I thought had the potential to be someone special. Things didn't work out but at least she was in my life for that period of my life. I don't sweat things like this because I have learned that I have but one life here on this glorious planet and I am gonna make the most of it. If I never find another love but do have many then so be it. I am cool with whatever comes my way. Just live baby. This message provided to you by Goofball INC.....void where prohibited. Haha!

You don't have to wait just keep fooling around until right cums along

Hey goofball,can we toast to that?