I just got a simple question. Are people really as stuck up, conceited, and gold diggers as they seem to be on these sites. Here's what I've encountered. Everybody always talking about how important honesty is to them. However when you are honest and straightforward like I am and put a real picture. With real information. And create a real profile. Nobody will give you the time of day. But when you put up a fake picture of someone with supermodel looks and give the impression that you have a lot of money and are looking for someone to spend it on your email gets blown up non stop. Then when you reveal the truth these women on here get mad as hell and call you all kinds of names like liar, cheater,scammer, lowlife, scumbag and so on. I know this firsthand causeiI did it just to put it to the test. So why wouldn't they respond to the real profile? And what happened to the honesty that was so important to the women on this site? It went right out the window. Didn't it?

There are lots of real people on the forums. If you take a little time and effort you will get to know them. It is the way, IMHO, that this site works best!

Good luck.

There indeed are lots of gold diggers and very shallow people but not just here; they are out there in every day life. Fact is people don't really want honesty as relationships are built on lies. People try to justify them so they are only white lies so that they won't hurt the person but they are lies none the less. As metal wing says; try the forums and see what happens.

Sorry your fake profile didn't work out so well.

<~~~~my pic is really me.

Perhaps you might think about your posting history now with this thread and future prospects checking that. Brilliant!

I'm really hoping you don't think this about everyone.

Yes; I do but as I said its white lies. Like for example when a woman asks if she looks fat in an outfit; and the guy says no. He is lying. When a woman tells a guy he did a good job fixing something to stroke his ego but really he didn't do a great job. They are both lying but it seems to make the other person happy. Check out this link.
http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/lying-and-deception/what-lovers-lie-about.html

hummmmm, I don't lie. Go ahead and say I do, that would be wrong.

1st off, you don't ask open ended questions if you already know you look fat, do something about it. Don't look for a lie to stroke your ego into staying fat.

2nd, a man will want to please a woman by doing things for her. There are always ways to look for the silver lining without negativity. Some things men can do better than women, and vice verse. "Gee honey, thank you so much for helping me with that, I couldn't have done it without you."

Nope, I don't lie, white lies included.

Everyone either has lied,lies ay some point, and most likely will at some point,example;you ,your husband or bf whatever and your kid walking through a dark alley,two mask men jumps out the bushes,your kid run and hides,you know where your kid run,the men wants your kid and yells,"tell me where is the kid",lol what are you going to say???((fleta)

A bad attitude permeates everything a person touches,
even from a distance.
I'd work on that, myself.

In all honesty, OP, I'm really *sorry* if I'm not attracted to a man who gets paid to be a "big, fat, hairy, *****, redneck sum *****" <---YOUR words, NOT mine.


I'm A-OK with the *fact* that that makes me - in your eyes - one of those "self centered, conceited, stuck up *******" <---YOUR words, NOT mine.



Best of luck to you on ANother site, since - according to you - you're done with THIS one.

I would have to agree with most of what you're saying,but here's the deal,only a few folks make it quite clear what it is they're looking for,and the percentage of "real"genuine people is pretty small,not just on this site,alot of folks claim they're looking for "love"when in fact they're just looking to see what you can do for them and how they can use you,oh sure they're not going to SAY, they want someone rich or ECT,that's life dude,but just remember, while it's so much fake and messed up people in the world,there're some really, really wonderful ones!

Humm you admit you put up a fake picture with fake information. Then when someone is interested, you drop the bomb it was just to see who would bite.. But yet it is everyone else that is dishonest????

Yea even those that try to prove a point with innocent people don't rate too high on my list..

In reality if someone did me that way, I would have come back at them too...

As the old saying goes two wrongs does not make a right~~~~~~~

Myself I never respond back to those that are negative with what they post,on their profile or e-mails.. Well not what they want me to respond back with anyway....


People get what they give.....If one is not honest then they can not expect the same back.... Same goes for being negative....

seems that's a FAIL across the WWW!

Good point.

You evaded the second scenario. Yes he helped you but did the project wrong, say hung a shelf crooked; cut laminate flooring too short to reach the wall and you have a gaping gap. You would not tell him that? You can still thank him but tell him that there is something wrong. If you don't; then you are lying. I think you can be diplomatic when you are saying something negative. There is a difference if a guy says you need to lose weight or if he says wow; you are fat.

Some times...I just wanna smack you upside the head. Troof!

ps
That situation would never happen to me. I not stoopid enough to live and walk in a city alley after dark. derp.

This thread's OP can be summarized like this: The grapes are sour.

and I'm going to evade police tactics in questioning. My father was a cop, remember? I was also ARMY, come from a military family also.

You want it done right, if nothing is good enough, then do it yourself.

Perfect; then you answered my question without giving me the actual answer.

yup.