I'm trying the honest approach, but it seems like the people I am meeting here like the pretty lies. Any advice, welcomed.

To be honest I dont think most men want honesty, i think that they are too afraid of it. me personally wish more people more honest. iam truthful to a fault.

Well, speaking for myself. I want and appreciated honesty in a woman(or in any person).

But I also believe that the honesty should be delivered the right way.

I have met my share of people who are bluntly honest.. all the time.. and personally I find that to be a turn off

JMO

I guess that depends on what she's being honest about...lol...

For me honesty is the best thing. An ugly truth is a lot better then a beautiful lie

No

@ Romeo - I agree

I hate liars

That being said you should tell the truth BUT you dont have to tell the whole truth

Is hard to be honest when everyone ain't already ran a couple trough Google image search in I found like they were somebody else or pictures of the internet smh be your self

I like honesty. By the way, you're pretty, and that's no lie.

Why then hiding the face?

I've been adopting the upfront, honest approach for some time. Partly because I want a relationship where we can be open and free with each other and communicate without restrictions, and partly because, in my experience, it brings out any scummy attitude in a potential match so much faster. If a potential match has a scummy attitude of some kind, far better to see that scummy attitude at the start and cut off all further contact then, rather than potentially start to get emotionally attached and only then see the scummy attitude that was there all the long.

Honesty sets us free, while those who choose lies set up an ongoing metaphorical minefield for themselves, where any step could trigger any of their lies (and have them blow up in their faces).

Heyy

Everybody says (thinks?) they want honesty................until they get it!

I agree. If it is leading nowhere, better forget it and move on. No need to waste anyone's time, because time is not money. Time is life and we can make the most of it with the right person.

Yes... honesty is nice... I like what you're wearing you look very nice..
.. that tie doesn't really match that shirt.. Thanks.. I didn't think it matched , either.

... you have a little something on the corner of your mouth..ohhh... here..

No.. the other corner..ohh..ok.. Thanks....


. honesty that is not good..
... do these jeans make my *** look big...

.YES.. not just big but humongous...

... are you busy right now!.. yes I don't have time for you..ohh..ok.hmm....


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I think for there to be any type of honesty, people have to be face to face.
Not online.
I know it's cliche'
But the eye's don't lie.
Unless you're a pscho/sociopath.

It just kills me to agree with you ...But yes, I totally agree!