I don't look for the drama, thats why when relationships do turn dramatic, it doesn't take me long to get sick of it.

And I understand that. But putting it on here does make you look superficial when you're not. It makes you look vengeful when you explain your intentions to hurt others when you're not. Do you really want a child so you can use it as a weapon against all men? Or status? Don't you want that child out of love? Cmon you know how much I long for that "happily ever after?"

I personally want to hear the positive jayme. The jayme that has plans, goals, dreams, desires, and commitments. Where do you want to go? What do you want to do? How are you going to implement these plans to fruition? I've planned well and have fulfilled ALL my dreams and goals except one: settling down with the woman I love and dedicating my life to her unconditionally.

didnt you just call her imature...but now your not...im confused? Just seems awfully ****ed up for anyone on this site to jump on anyone else for being confused about love and life. Tell me someone who is here that knows what they want and can easily find it where they are at. If not, perhaps ... oh i dont know...maybie they actually would sign up on a place like this because there past relastionships wernt working, and they wanted to try something differnt. To be confused about your love life and wondering why you can't find the right person is 99% of the reason we all are here. She's just more open then most about it. Hey maybie i'm right

I hear ya charlie.

Maybe I shouldve worded it differently?

Thank you, Charlie. I guess being so open about it with people that dont' know me is risky, but hey... oh wellies. I am an open book, I don't hold things back and like that I can just vent here for the fact that none of the people on here know me. It may bother me while I read it, but in my everyday life it has no effect on me.

Hey yknow you guys live pretty close to each other and have a lot in common. You should meet.

I apologize jayme. I'm thinking I'm just dumb and don't get anything anymore.

Hope you can forgive me. I'm an ignorant idiot.

OH, no sir, you're not ignorant or stupid. I welcome your point of view, even if I argue with it.

And yeah, we know....lol, been chatting almost non stop for about 24 hours, with the exception of sleep....

And just for the record, long haired biker, the only thing that puts you out of the running is you and I may not have much in common due to the age difference. I do think you're a cutie though!

nah its totally cool. I just realized you where a guy, which makes a ton more sense. I'm just saying that this is probly the place to give people a break and let them be themselfs :)

You know, Jayme, we've never compared notes, but I think you are the twin whom was separated at birth from me!!!!

Can you say MIRROR IMAGE!!! Not physically, but emotionally, and the inate ability we have to complicate and make a pile of dog sh!t of our lives???????


(((((((((((((Jayme))))))))))))))))))) Nice to meet you, Sista!

Be nice Charlie

Nice to meet someone who gets it! *Sighs of relief* I really don't post on here to seek pity, I guess that is what I get defensive about the most b/c thats what they assume. I just do it to get it out. I mean, with all the drama you see that I go through, do you really think bottling it up is a good idea?

Here, here!

*Whispersandwinks* You do look alot like my mother, btw. Trust me, thats a very good thing. I think my mother is the most beautiful woman on earth.

Hey I get it now! Boy am I slow! You're just venting! Ok. I will drink to that. I bow to jayme. Hold up my beverage and here's to jayme may she stay strong. Cheers.

YES! Thats it! I maybe need to clarify that....lol, but when I am in such a huff that I need to vent, feeling calm enough to even think to say that is not going to happen.