talking about things sometimes helps, but in this situation, it makes me more depressed. it really does

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Why do you feel a need to keep them?

If they wander off, it's their decision.

If they lose interest or whatever, perhaps it is their loss.

With the mindset of you are perfect as you are, for you...... then no-one can take that from you.

People are not possessions...we own nothing...we just have this illusion that we do....life is full of temporary....nothing stays the same....ask yourself why you want a relationship so badly...ask yourself what it is you expect to get from another to fulfill you.


Then do the work yourself....ask for nothing of another...be a whole and healthy self sustaining human being, and then, you may find others are attracted to spending time with you, and choose to walk part of your journey with you.

Ummmmmmmmmm I own my son........but I dont..........but I own him!!!!

Paper you have a great deal of your life in front of you. Although I don't know much about you I really believe that there is someone out there for all of us. Keep your head up, it will come to you sooner or latter.

I agree with Jess on this one for we must look within and be happy with ourselves first. We dont need another to complete us maybe to enhance what we have or to enjoy doing things with. Like she said if they wander off then there was something missing in the first place or they would not have wander off does not mean what is missing is due to the other but it lays within the one that wandered off. Sometimes even when two people get together they find out later they are really not meant to be and go there own way. When the time is right and the one that is meant to be there with you. You will know and things will happen maybe it will happen fast and maybe it will be over time. Nothing in life is easy nor is it just handed to you it all takes time.

we can't ask for interest

death finds us

Wow guy's actually do that? i mean i've let one conversations die before when there is nothing in common and nothing to talk about, but damn thats cold. For me, if i get along with you its better to keep you as a friend, and either way its easier if your just honest....but hey maybie your lucky. If its the type of asshole that does that he was probly a player, or someone who would of given up and left on you anyways.

My dear, thee are rude people on this earth, and even a couple on this site, but dowmn let them drag ya down, there is good and bad in our lives, just appreciate the good!!!

ask yourself some questions as to why they may be backing off. is it all coincidence or do you feel you have issues to be working on? are you clingy, needy or do you try and "persuade" a guy to stay? or is it just a few cases of rotten luck in one so young as yourself?

Just remember, Paper Heart ,

IT'S THEIR LOSS!!!!!!!

Consider yourself better off. Look at it like this:

You'll be unattached when the right one DOES come along !

Now get out there and have fun!

wow i'm not the only one in this boat. not really a surprise. ok so anyways pass the alcohol. lol

Is it that time already?

or have fun on here. i've only been around a few months but there have been many matchups...it actually works here sometimes.

and it is fun