Topic: Money/security vs hardworking/caring
unsure's photo
Sun 09/30/07 07:07 PM
Geesh willy..I never fought with my brothers when I was a kid!! Do you know what my punishment was when I did? I had to kiss them :angry:
LOL for some odd reason, Gypsy thinks I have some sarcasm in my post...wow she might know me just a bit after alllaugh

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Sun 09/30/07 07:10 PM
I would prefer someone who is hardworking......doesnt have to make a billion a year, but must be hardworking......

"But Mommmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!! He started it!!!!"grumble grumble grumble laugh laugh laugh

unsure's photo
Sun 09/30/07 07:11 PM
Can I ask a simple question?? Why is it that men really think that women care about money?? Why do men think that most women are gold diggers? You know, some women are that way...but not many....most women want a man for his heart, not his money!!

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Sun 09/30/07 07:11 PM
Keeping looking for the one who doesn't need all that stuff like travel etc NPP...takes time yeah but eh is it not worth the search and wait?

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Sun 09/30/07 07:12 PM
sarcasm? You gotta be kidding. I have not seen sarcasm on these forums one time...not one time...besides,,,someone like you could not possibly be sarcastic, 'cause you like me..we have no faults and would be the first to admit them if we did, right?

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Sun 09/30/07 07:13 PM
Partly Unsure gf it is because that is all they (men) have known and that is what society portrays..gold diggers... bleh I know it sucks some serious monkey butt but until those men who say that meet and get to know a woman who doesn't care about money they will remain bitter..much like women who have dealt with abusive buttheads..

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Sun 09/30/07 07:14 PM
nothing wrong with travelling......you can travel on a very low budget and I did for years........I learned how to save my money and cut corners, and if there is a will there is a way!!!flowerforyou

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Sun 09/30/07 07:16 PM
hardworking?...lol...has cost me two marriages...12 - 16 hours a day five or six days a week, and the partnership cannot handle it. Instead, they went looking for guys who sat on their butt and *****ed about being broke....LMAO when we div

Brian65's photo
Sun 09/30/07 07:22 PM
I'll fell bad if I didn't apoligize to Gypsy.
She was just trying to have fun and I'm not haveing one of my best moments.
So to you pretty lady. I am sorry.flowerforyou

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Sun 09/30/07 07:25 PM
apology accepted brian!flowerforyou

Brian65's photo
Sun 09/30/07 07:25 PM
:smile:

unsure's photo
Sun 09/30/07 07:27 PM
Heck I don't mind if my hubby works 12-16 hours a day. I use to tell my hubby to get a second job!! I am only joking...not really!! laugh
I think you do what you have to do to support your family. Maybe you had wives that wanted it all but yet couldn't handle being away from you? I myself think you have to be able to communicate and figure out if its worth your mate working that many hours and being away from the family.
Do you think working that many hours is really worth it? What do you really have to show for it? Is it all worth it in the end..I guess that would be the deciding factor!!

Rapunzel's photo
Sun 09/30/07 07:32 PM

Hey Ken, flowerforyou
And everyone....:heart:
How's it going drinker smokin

Having lots of money would be nice,
but I have never had lots of it...
It would be nice to have more,
especially with the high cost of living,
and the high amount of crime in low income areas ,
but I have never made money my God...

I have always thought and felt that
the honest & quality of a person smokin
is far more important :heart:
than how much money they have... drinker




blushing

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Sun 09/30/07 07:39 PM
Hello m'lady. Nice to have you back! flowerforyou

Hope your weekend was wonderful!

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Sun 09/30/07 07:47 PM
I think its safe to say that money does nothing in my attraction towards a person.... maybe I should try it cus at least of a rich guy screws you over he probably bought you something you can sell for a little doe... unless he's one of those millionare tight wads... then you're still equally screwed.

willy_cents's photo
Sun 09/30/07 07:48 PM
good evening Vanessa...hope that you having a great evening. I still go back to my original post....the guy with the big bucks always out attracts the ones with little bucks...lol

Rapunzel's photo
Sun 09/30/07 08:25 PM


Hi again, Ken..

Well, I had a great weekend , very action packed...
watching my Grandchildren,

while my daughter went to Shoreline Amphitheater
to see Dave Matthews...

And her heavy metal husband went to the coast
for some solitude and fresh ocean air to write some music...


MY 9 year old Grandson wanted to play video games all weekend, but he got to go to some cool theme park for a birthday party..
.
and my three year old granddaughter
locked us out of the house..:wink:

Rapunzel's photo
Sun 09/30/07 08:34 PM
Hi Sherman...

How's it going...mountain man...smokin
Nice to hear from you...drinker

Well, Sweetie...I can't speak for all women,
but it is more than money that is important...

It has to be a loving blend of two hearts,:heart:
for it to work for me..blushing flowerforyou drinker

now... please...smokin
read this next part carefully..everyone...:wink:
so you don't misinterpret what I am saying...huh
cause it isn't engraved in stone, by any means
and there are always exceptions to the rule....
it is certainly not always true...

but, sometimes, not always...smokin glasses happy
the biggest dorks & jerks sick
have the most money....:wink: blushing laugh

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sun 09/30/07 08:40 PM
if you can buy 2 ply toilet paper,have indoor plumbing and your good to me and my kids then your a keeper.By the way none of my terms are negotiable!!::wink:

unsure's photo
Sun 09/30/07 08:42 PM
AMEN Rapunzel!!
MOST men with money are total jerks...I know the guy I was with was a jerk, sure I had everything I could ever want~~~except the main thing...feeling like I was as good as he was and that I was accepted by him. He was IN love with me but it was more of a "ownership" type love.
I will stick to someone that is just an average guy who has a good heart. Someone who is not a stalker...hmmm nevermind, I will be single...LOL
No seriously, I will take the loving man who is just average instead of the money man any day of the week :wink: