for those that have an opinion

the meaning of attention-seeking/self-pitying

run, you fools

Someone you want to stay the away from

ops. forgot hell

lol. i guess i'll need to post a pic of me showing some t&a.

so i can fit the description of the indictment

It's the difference between accepting an open hand as a hand out, or a hand up

control freaks who think they should judge everyone here...thats the deleter's for ya

I would say someone who acts like: poor me, poor me!! Someone look at me and pay attetion to me!!!

And a picture of your face or something that is of interest to you, would be nice.....blue boxes are over-rated.

No sarcasm meant and welcome to JSH!!

somebody with very low self-steem, who is crying desperately for somebody else to tell him/her how good they are.
or somebody to tell him/her a poor thing, u'll be fine.
somebody posted the other day some bill gates' words one of them made me think a lot. it was something like this:
The world does not care if u Ok or not, the world expect u to be OK, and u have to do it in you own time.

The irony and the ecstasy.

To seek attention.. post a photo please!! Yeah, make sure all the bits are where they are supposed to be,make sure they pop out, bust out, escape a little and yep, there's the attention, rolling right at you...even if you aren't seeking it.

You will receive more attention as a photo, than you do as a blue box, human's being visual creatures and all.


Pity seeking....my boyfriend/galfriend's a meany, my boyfriend/galfriend just left me on the F1 after I told her she was beautiful, and it was hailing, nd I was barefoot, and it took 5 weeks to walk home, and I broke a nail, and why wont anyone love me??


How's that for a Sunday morning definition?

good morning lady vader

Ohh duh me lol ya wanted what we think is the definition of pity seeking...uhh everyone seems to have that covered now so eh thats my answer lol

question: do they actually have to say 'poor me, poor me!'

or can we make the assumption based on something else

could it be considered thought regulation, maybe we should all just take prozac or something

unless pretending we're all great and cozy is working for the masses

i'm just never satisfied with the current condition of humanity. i never asked anyone to care about me. i'm working on that pretty much single handedly.

thanks for the welcome

i believe each human being is in control of his/her behaviors.
we can control things that happen in our lifes, but we can control how do we react to those things (good or bad).
Nothing is fortuitous evertything is due to causality, so whatever happen tomorrow depends upon what we do today.
so what this world need is fighter, and not pity or atention seekers.

i meant we can't control things that happen in our lifes

Hmmmm..assumption, presumption, accusation, articulation....take your pick...

Also a person builds a picture through their posts, when given enough history...repetitious topics, all focussed on self and wrong doing...over and over for months on end....is a fairly clear indication they need a hug, and a kick up the butt..

Me? Oh yeah!!! Worst offender!! Yep. memememememememememe

Bring on the pity party...byo tissues and chocolate...

Complimentary pyjamas and popcorn provided.

u r hilarious lady vader

no dounuts lady vader?

My boyfriend doesn't love me anymore...
My boyfriend is cheating on me...
My house burnt down today...
My dad hates me....
Nobody loves me anymore...

That's all by the same person in the same week!!!!!!!!!

Lee a pity seeker??since when??? bah hogwash I say!!

hey native-girl do u want support?????
i have a group that can solve all ur problems
we just sit around a 24 pack of beers, and everything will be fine.