Research and experiences have proved that divorce is more stressful to men than women.Many lives of men in their millions have been cut short because of divorce experiences.A Woman's emotion and body was designed to absolve shock and deal with it without much harm,but not that of men.If only you know the havoc you wreck on us when you file a divorce suit over frivolous and trivial issues that could be resolved if only more patience and time are allowed.Pls,consider these when next you are are provoked by our damned ego

This thread calls for popcorn.

Blanket statements such as this does not bode well for the common good...

Yea,thanks.Bu I like honey popcorn,not sugar

poo poo

Probably because some men shout a lot, a bit like you have shouted this topic at everyone by using capital letters to write it.

eh, not from my experience with divorce. My ex, lawyers and court system broke my immune system with stress and pain. Stress can be loosely defined.

Lmao divorce effects men more then women nahh no way. 90% of the time the women end up with the kids while the man goes his merry way. Thinking that what little money they send and picking up the kids every other week if in fact they do either... Yea that is really hard on them. While the women have to figure out how to make ends meet, work a full time job, come home and tend to kids and the home..

Yea I can really see how that is more emotional on a man.

As far as divorcing over trivial issues I guess when the man decides to unzip their pants and see if the grass is greener on the other side that is trivial to some men..

I'm not bashing men and I know women do the same. But the Topic is about how stressful divorce is to a man. And pretty much saying that the women could have avoided the situation. And she can handle the stress..

Funny for I have never known anyone that got a divorce over frivolous or trivial reasons.... The ones that I know that are divorced is due to one or the other cheated... Or there was abuse either verbal or physical.

Both parties involved in a divorce are stressed out..... but to believe it stresses the men more I can not even agree with that at all...

I don't know anything about research or am I talking about divorce in particular but its been my finding through life that many woman have the ability to 'turn it off' fast.It appears the pattetn I have experienced, they seemed very fickle.
Loving you madly one day, begging to take the relationship further and when you're completely committed they are going the other way.
It was a much older female friend that said to me when I was 29 that;

Woman fall fast but its more of a surface love and men take a long time but go deep.

thats been true in my life.
I think in some cases its just been an infatuation stage and they have been confused due to chemical releases.
I also have found that despite men getting a bad rap for not wanting to communicate, again its always been the other way around
and woman don't want to talk about the tough stuff and put the work in.

Speak for yourself, monkey-man. I'm fine with women having the equal choice of how and with who to spend their lives. And where's your source anyway?

what do the studies show... who ask for a divorce first ... man or women ... and I agree with TXs on this one... and if you have children it hits them pretty hard too...

care to post some Links to support your Assertions?

And your Ego,Latin for "I" is only damned if you don't live up to it's potential!
Getting tiresome people using Latin to describe something,that is supposed so damn evil!

Change Passionate to preposterous
and you might have somethin....

Man I love the Enquirer magazine.

divorce is worst on the children.
adults have the opportunity to make choices, whether they are positive or not.
the children are the ones who get dragged through it. some parents use children as a bargaining tool for more money or in revenge against the other parent if they move on to a new relationship.
children are caught in the middle when their parents can't be civilized with each other and try to make a child pick one over the other.

Divorce is not an easy path In life..think n think before U act....go for help..talk to families n good friends...its never easy ..please do not stay if spouse R violent n abusive.

I think it depends on the relationship and the situation...

Me too! It's where I get all my news.

You have the best answer to this topic.

puts a hand full of popcorn in his mouth.. And thinks quietly to himself.
..hmmm.. very intresting..