how does it make you feel when a girl just stops talking to u?

I'm terrible at breaking things off, or closure, whatever you wanna call
it, so I just let them fade away. Usually there's a good reason I'm not
feelin a guy anymore, and I voice it but I'm not gonna waste his time or
mine. So he might call me a while, couple days. wait. then call again,
but I just won't pick up. Eventually he gives up n goes away... How's
that make you feel? Should I call, or stop dodging and let him know? I
don't see the point if he'll stop eventually... I'm not one for arguing,
and I'm stubborn too so its hard to change my mind

honestly, I'd really like to know

Sometimes, theres a good reason! Sometimes, there is a feeling a woman
gets deep down inside that she cannot explain. but her mind is telling
her something does not feel right. So she in haste......does the stupid
thing and just ignores u or runs for cover, thinking shes safe. Often
times she regrets her decisions but ask yourself this..............DONT
MEN DO IT TOO?
Most times, men will make themselves available to a woman while
searching for another one just a tad bit better then the one they are
talking too and then BOOM.........you dont hear a word from them and
maybe months on down the line they send u a DEAR ABBEY letter
saying.........Im sorry but I am with someone or HEY I GOT MARRIED or
HEY IM IN A LONGTERM RELATIONSHIP SORRY IT DIDNT WORK OUT FOR
US........sooooooooooooooooooooooo....
Its not all women BOYZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ......men do it too!


Smile guys.......thats just life.....

Dakota

You Need To Tell Him Your Not Interested !
In Nice Way, Then Ignore Him If He Continues to Call!
Because if He Calls Couple Times ? He Is Wasting His Time.
On You.
You would not like someone to do you that way?
Turn about is Fair Play !

Men get just as lonely as women. Often times there good hearts just try
to hard. We should all just try to be respectful and let each other
know, when the other one hasnt an interest in them anylonger.....dont u
think??
that would be the nice thing to do...after all, remember the saying....

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you!


Dakota

"Monique",,,how does it make me feel?
when it happens to me,it makes me sit and wonder what I did
wrong,knowing in my heart, that I tried too hard,
was my only offense,or crime,and that I should have had more
patiance,and understanding of her needs,too...
makes th guy feel like shit,of course,and,
he would beg forgivness for this mistake...
if she would just speak with him,thru phone,chat,or e-mail,
please just talk,,,to be "Shut out",feels very cold to a lonely soul
like mine....food for thought.....M.

Great! now I don't have to get off my ass and answer the fucking phone.
LOL

Dammit! now i really do feel bad... for real, M? you'd feel that way?

Bless your heart Michael, there arent many out there like u
anymore......

Your a nice man, a true gentleman.

Dakota


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(and as for the other RUDE COMMENT that was not funny or called for!)
Maybe thats why you dont get DATES!!!!!

Sure! Any chance I get to sit here and not answer the phone is a
blessing. LOL

Yes,and I do feel that way,as it has happened to me,,,
like I said in another post,,,
I have been around a few blocks in my life,not a young man,
in body or mind,but when she talks to me,
I feel like a kid again,and very young at heart....M.

Kiss kiss!

"Dakoda"???was th "rude" comment for me?uh,which one?
I make a lot of 'em,because I'm A smartass too,and dooo sooo
love a snappy comeback,when humor is involved,and I for one don't mind a
lil' ribbing now and then!....just askin?...M.

Wow micheal, what a difference!

"Chica"I have many of them,,,again wich one?
I have many things that are part of my multi-faceted,,,
gem-stone of a personality....M.

my opinion as some one who has had this done to them and many other
cruel ways of having it "broken off" it is very cruel and cold hearted
because he will wonder what the hell for quite some time when it only
takes a few of your precious minutes to tell him that it is over
beceause your not interested any more or you found some one else,
personally i call that head games and some times that's what makes men
the asshole's they are that women complain about so much.

Thanx "Mitch",,,you do understand.....M.

Men had done it to us female years and years. Well i won't do something
like that, but i hate hurting other people feelings. I tried not to do
that.

Hey micheal, You are a box of surprises!MMM

I for one,do not "Shut you out"...
if I have a problem,or you do,we can talk,I won't bite.
but to shut me out,complete shut out,begins hurt,resentment,
and more pain than just breaking a toe,for kicking a fit...
then you finally let go of th fact that you fucked up somewhere,
and try to move on with your search for love and happieness...M.