Friends are just that... If ya' don't trust yer' mate, why are you with
him/her?

that's what I been sayin'.....M

Hey! "Stormey"??? saw yer pics,,,"EverLast".'eh?...
Wanna bet???......M.

Trust is a really big thing in a relationship, but for others who had a
bad relationship it does not come in easy trusting others. You just
have to work on with your new mate.

mmmhuh Michael... that's my story and I'm stickin' to it!... lol

hahahahaha,,,lol,,,you a funny girl,,,oooo.....Mikey likes
a really funny girl...M.

Storm likes them kitty kats!!!

hahahaha,,,Sweeeet!...lol...M.

i don't care if she has friends or not but i don't sweat it if she
cheats on me because that is just proof that you can't trust her and
that she should be gone. there isn't any excuse for cheating in my book
and there ain't going to be any hurt feelings when i kick her ass out
the door either so i don't see the point in driving yourself crazy
worrying about whether someone will cheat on you.

might be kids...???....M.

I WOULD NOT BE WITH HER PERIOD

Love, respect, honesty, communication...
If you have these things with your signaficant other, then it should not
matter how many friends a person has, whether male or female...
When you first meet someone, you take them and accept them upon the
first impression and build on it = trust & honesty = friendship =
respect for the other person to be who and what they are..it will be
proven over time and talking = communication..you cannot get to know
someone with out talking and being around them...this ultimately grows
thus = LOVE...whether "friendship" love, a 'friend" friend love, or a
lifetime love...It just depends on how the original foundation is laid
what becomes of the friendship and what you are each expect from the
friendship...
I have many many friens..some I can talk to about sex, some i only talk
about personal problems, others I talk about religion..FACT: we all need
friends for different purposes and ech individual friend has something
to offer that perhaps the other "friend" cannot...so there ya go...my 2
cents worth...LOL

more true words were never spoken,that my heart did not hear before my
ears....well put S.C.G......well put!........M.

Men and women CANNOT just be friends, if ya haven't been intimate, you
WILL!! To many times we hear, "he/she's JUST my friend!" My friend,
my ass, NO WAY would I tolerate "a friend" in my relationship.

Morena350,
Personally, I would have a problem with it only because you used the
word enormous. Seriously, as her man or husband and I did everything in
the relationship that I am suppose to do there will be no way in hell
she would have an enormous amount of male friends. Why? Her fake male
friends are going to be tired of lurking on the side lines to see if I'm
going to slip on my skills of love, respect, communication, romance and
handling my business. But, her true male friends (Depending on the type
of history) I would have to respect that as long as it was mutual
between us.

its hard to just be friends with a hottie lady friend! sooner or later
you will want to give it a try... lol

I can answer this one. All I have is guy friends. That's all I've ever
had. I just don't get along too well with females. You don't have to
worry about guys being stabbing you in the back or stealing your bf or
whatever that most girls do to other girls. And besides, I feel that
guys are more honest than girls in a friendship.
Yes, my bf's have had a problem with it but I just tell them they're
friends, they were around before them and will be around after them. If
they don't like it, to hell with you. That usually shuts them up.

I have both but your right about the sex or the thought will always be
around the corner of each-or-others-mind?
So to have ALOT of opposite sex FRIENDS would be to have alot of could
be hit-ons-for-sex? If I found my OTHER-HALF?
I would'nt want to get hit on by other ladies and vie-saverse
I would not always want being near temptation
I would HOPE that ME and OUR COMPLETION, would be to rapped up with each
other to really have time to be around to many friends
of each?

What do I control....hmmm let me look around.....only my actions
still.... damn. That means that i'm not resposible for someone else's
action right? Ok enough of my crap lol. The more friends she has the
better. If I'm in that deep I allready trust her. I'm not responsible
for her mistakes...and I cant take credit for the posative things in her
life. She must be her own person and experience her own life. That means
choosing her own friends too right?

I will never be in a relationship where he is so jealous and doesn't
trust me enough to have male friends. Yes, I have one in particular
that I'm attracted to, not where I live. But it wouldn't matter if he
were. If I'm in a relationship, I devote myself to him and don't cheat
no matter how tempted. My partner would no that about me and should
trust me unless I give him reason not to. And I'd give him mutual trust
or I wouldn't be with him.