It's like this: Unless you're dumb enough to pay to use this site it doesn't tell you who clicked yes on you unless you both did,, so what they do to find out who did it is that they just click yes on every profile that comes up until they find out who was interested in them.

i have been sending messages just to get to know each other but it seems all are fake profiles especially female ones. none reply to single message.

I agree, keep sending her messages, she's probably playing hard to get, some women are like that.

This site I find most of the men to be fakes. They are posing as military, oil engineers, and goldsmiths...after one day they are telling you they love you. Then they ask for money. I had one even send me flowers to prove he was real. I found him on the romance scammers website. I have met a couple of guys on here that were real. But you hate to waste your time. I went off this site for a guy and was talking to him for 4 months when I realized he was fake. That is when I learned to google their pictures to find out if they pop up on a romance scammers website. They even use pictures of models and actors from foreign countries to talk to you. Just keep your eyes open. I find the mutual match to draw attention to you if the person is interested.

Most of the people on the men side are fake. I have met only a few men that were real on here. I haven't been successful at going out on a date as they live too far. I do talk to them and we call each other and joke about the fakes. All the military men are fakes. I grew up military so I know what to ask them and they don't know the answer. It seems that the local guys are never on. I think they are as discouraged as me on this site. I do check in from time to time as I get messages. I google search their picture before I talk to them. How sad is that? Today I had 6 messages in a row and all were on the romance scammers website. Just be careful.

Im curious why you seek men who are geographically undesirable then claim you cant meet ? If you are not willing to learn how to communicate effectively you are likely to continue being ineffective in actually meeting men. You might find a counselor and learn more effective communication skills as why would anyone spend much time emailing when a meet and greet is needed not more incessant emails and still worse texting.. regards

or she has found someone else in that time.. don't take them to seriously... could be the distance all sort of things ... an not a lot get back to you so time to move on ... as they say their are a lot of fish in these bowls