I need to know why so many women consider themselfs to be ugly when you could look at them and swear they are the most beautifulest women is there a way to show them that they are not what people have made them believe they are by insults cause I have tried with some one close to me and cant seem to get thru to her

i'm just average looking

Dont ever say that every woman is beautiful in their own way...

Perhaps because society is so focussed on generic beauty, of whatever aesthetics are the most appealing in the moment.


The Barbie Dill hangover has not passed, fully, yet.

When the world is based in instant pleasure, and cosmetic enhancement, when personality, character and soul enhancement is a second rate, 'too hard basket'...people will veiw themselves as less.

People who focus on the outside have allowed the inside to atrophy.

it just takes time

she been thru alot and been told all of her life that shes ugly but i dont see her that way all i see is the angel that she is to me

So have many people...many, many people, male and female have been told, programmed to believe that they are unattractive.

She will have to decide for herself, that the inside matches the inside.

She will need to learn that herself...that she is beautiful, that if her heart, her thoughts, her desires in life are beautiful, then she is beautiful.

alot of women say their ugly cause they want to hear u reasure them by telling them theyre not. it feels good hearing ur beautiful...

I would rather DO beautiful, SEE beautiful, than be told I am beautiful.

women are always beautiful
the important thing, and what i would do
is to work in her self-steem first
making her know that she is a very valuable person
that will start making her better about herself.
but as the sweet joyce said is something that takes time

stephen i know that you think that but its hard for me to see it but that doesnt mean i dont want to believe it. its just hard

but u need to learn your value as a person first
and believe me u r a very valuable person

thanks its just been a very bad time in my life and believe me im trying

light will come over u sweetie
let ur friend be there for u

well i can say that speaking from experiance that wemon seem to take things to heart when told while growing up that they are are ugly too fat or teeth arent straight or anything even when in doubt they are beautiful that is hard for them to accept ....so i have the best thing instaed of all the time trying to {tell her} she is beautiful and special to you try showing her ...like surprise her with flowers or a dinner cooked in her honar anything that would not done be expected ...but throw in a compliment or two but if you focus on how she looks beautiful with words all the time they may sink in they may not some people may say that words dont matter like "i love you " is to easily spoken my husband would be so mean to me and then in the next breath say "i love you baby" ....they are just words ....show her how you feel cherish her in spirit and body show her that she is special show her that she is important ....show her what noone has ever shown her ...you will get further i promise

Remind your lady that outward beauty only catches the eye of the beholder....it is the inner beauty that captures the heart of the beholder.

what was the question again?

I belev that it could also b that, some women was mentley put down.

omg the question was so big I couldnt wrap my brain around it!!!!

Um is that with or without a microscope gypsy