I am not tired of looking. After finding everything except what I was looking for, I decided to step away for a while and re-examine myself, others and expectations of both sides. I am still lonely, but not desperate. No need to rush or to adjust to some new standards of dating if those require accepting something that would not make me happy. If that makes me old fashioned, so be it. I am not going to get into any relationship which requires compromising my outlook and taking serious health risks that can make me regret such a move till the rest of my life.

Hahahaha Blondey. As long as you know that's as far as it goes. Apparently "I" have a better chance than you.

I'm just glad I don't have a crush on Ellen DeGeneres.

I definetely get tired with it as well and I'm not even looking for dates on here now. I have met women through this and am not complaining about that but people on the internet are just that. I would rather go to the pub and I can talk to women there without having to try to persuade them to meet me.

It does get tiring going through profiles, being ignored by people that you message or exchanging a few messages with it then not going any further than that.

It really is a waste of time sometimes. Going on the forums is a waste of time as well but that's different because I don't travel for dates but do get to "meet" people from other parts of the world on here.