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 ohhh..see girls..? He said he's happy for me..I made him happy as simple as that..
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im out...gonna sleep..
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well with all due respect!! I disagree to disagree..lol.. if they were happy with you.. but you we're not happy... . then eventually they're not going to be happy...hmm.. just my humble opinion.. 
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Edited by
fleta_n_mach
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Mon 09/15/14 09:29 AM
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swallow.
During aerial acrobatics, could be difficult. |
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The bird of "true" love is NOT the dove, but rather the little flicka that returns to Capistrano every year. I wouldn't be happy with one that only comes once a year. 
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CrystalFairy, I don't want to be a victim but I don't aspire to becomming a single mother either. I don't wish any children to grow up without a father. Who would want any of that is beyond me. I agree. I had a horrible father and wish my mom had gotten rid of him while we were growing up. |
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sun 09/21/14 09:55 AM
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sun 09/21/14 10:11 AM
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So im gonna speak only for myself as a man but if you want chores somehow add to the happiness if men you need to INCLUDE us in them. We hate to be bossed but LOVE to be asked. Ask a man to help you and give him smth that you think he can handle. heights, fixing a lamp or a doorhandle or operating various appliances and machines such as vacuum cleaner or a dishwasher is cool. then Thank him for a job well done. He helped you only cuz he hoped to hear you say it. Praisal of our significant other is honey to our ears. On the other hand reminding of all the things undone is poison. And here comes the secret which some women may choose not to believe. Before meeting a woman who starts taking over chores in the household one by one cuz she thinks she knows better... We did them ALL by OURSELVES! Yup. I vacuumed my apartment on evey saturday, changed sheets did the laundry and omg...yes i did clean the toilet and bathroom too. I cannot vouch for quality but i got the chores done. And I did my own dishes too. Here is my experience on the chores comment. I never minded a man sharing chores but he always took forever to do them. A great example was I was going to hang a shelf up but the boyfriend said he would do it. Two weeks passed and not done. I asked when it would be done and he played the nag card. I waited another week then hung the shelf myself. He then played the emasculation card. I discovered that these are silly games men like to play. After that; I just went about and did things for myself. If he helped or did them; then fine but if not then I never gave it a thought. I found it was easier to do things for myself rather than debate on when he wanted to do it or be accused of nagging. Most recently; some guys promised to move my 750 lb hot tub but never happened. I found an genius way to move it myself and now building my deck around it as got tired of waiting for the guys to help me with that too. Bottom line is I tire of these games that you men play about doing chores and found that I am very capable of doing things for myself. Life is good. 
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Here is my experience on the chores comment. I never minded a man sharing chores but he always took forever to do them. A great example was I was going to hang a shelf up but the boyfriend said he would do it. Two weeks passed and not done. I asked when it would be done and he played the nag card. I waited another week then hung the shelf myself. He then played the emasculation card. I discovered that these are silly games men like to play. After that; I just went about and did things for myself. If he helped or did them; then fine but if not then I never gave it a thought. I found it was easier to do things for myself rather than debate on when he wanted to do it or be accused of nagging. Most recently; some guys promised to move my 750 lb hot tub but never happened. I found an genius way to move it myself and now building my deck around it as got tired of waiting for the guys to help me with that too. Bottom line is I tire of these games that you men play about doing chores and found that I am very capable of doing things for myself. Life is good.
So he was an 4ssh0le. But that's not really my problem. If you really think that since your guy was an 4sshole, then so are all of other men from Finland to New-Zealand, then it's fine by me if you can live with it. I'll find myself a girl who doesn't think so and live on. To the OP- if by society you mean Turkey, then perhaps its time for you to change societies. You're pretty woman with very good English- You'll do fine in others, more liberal societies that encourage you to fulfill your potential, instead of serving a male who seem to be time-leaped here straight from Middle-Ages. |
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I have tried everything to keep a man happy. Doing all the housework, cooking for them, shopping for our food, and helping them with work, and of course in the bedroom. It seems that the more I do the more they want and when it's not enough they abuse. I have thought of course it must be the wrong guy so I have tried changing the guy for a different guy but it's always the same in the end. So what is the secret to keeping a man happy? Is your question not the very essence of sexism? Since each and every human beings is said to be unique, have you ever tried to keep a 'person' happy, an individual person, instead of just a 'man'?
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Edited by
navygirl
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Sun 09/21/14 12:38 PM
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Here is my experience on the chores comment. I never minded a man sharing chores but he always took forever to do them. A great example was I was going to hang a shelf up but the boyfriend said he would do it. Two weeks passed and not done. I asked when it would be done and he played the nag card. I waited another week then hung the shelf myself. He then played the emasculation card. I discovered that these are silly games men like to play. After that; I just went about and did things for myself. If he helped or did them; then fine but if not then I never gave it a thought. I found it was easier to do things for myself rather than debate on when he wanted to do it or be accused of nagging. Most recently; some guys promised to move my 750 lb hot tub but never happened. I found an genius way to move it myself and now building my deck around it as got tired of waiting for the guys to help me with that too. Bottom line is I tire of these games that you men play about doing chores and found that I am very capable of doing things for myself. Life is good.
So he was an 4ssh0le. But that's not really my problem. If you really think that since your guy was an 4sshole, then so are all of other men from Finland to New-Zealand, then it's fine by me if you can live with it. I'll find myself a girl who doesn't think so and live on. To the OP- if by society you mean Turkey, then perhaps its time for you to change societies. You're pretty woman with very good English- You'll do fine in others, more liberal societies that encourage you to fulfill your potential, instead of serving a male who seem to be time-leaped here straight from Middle-Ages. No; I don't think all guys are *ssholes. I have a friend who doesn't pull that crap on his wife. If he promises to do something he does it in time he promises. If for some reason he doesn't and his wife nags him; he says he deserves to be nagged; then he promptly gets to the job. He is a good man who respects his woman and indeed this kind of man is very rare. I guess that explains why has been married for 28 years and not on a dating site. 
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To all the men, What is the happiest you've ever been in a relationship? What kinds of things did the woman do that made you happy? |
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I have tried everything to keep a man happy. Doing all the housework, cooking for them, shopping for our food, and helping them with work, and of course in the bedroom. It seems that the more I do the more they want and when it's not enough they abuse. I have thought of course it must be the wrong guy so I have tried changing the guy for a different guy but it's always the same in the end. So what is the secret to keeping a man happy? with all due respect, I glanced at your profile and there is something some of us might be missing. that's the fact that you might be following the rules of your cutlure and/or dictates of your religious teachings. if that is not the case and you have the opportunity for choice, start by thinking what you want for yourself. what is your ideal partner or ideal relationship. start with knowing what you want for yourself. your post says you do more and more and it helps less and less. is it possible that by doing it all, you make your partner feel he's not needed. also it takes enormous amounts of time to do everything you talk about and there's not enough time to develop the relationship. first, value yourself. then look for a man where you can mutually value and understand each other. where you can make each other happy instead of one being happy at the other's expense. that doesn't work. making each other feel needed. complimenting each others skills, working together and having companionship is what I have seen work. there is no one simple answer because everyone is unique. wish you the best. |
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walks into room !!goes over to table ,picks up kleenex box! and leaves room...
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Sex,food,freedom to pursue a hobby. Not keeping him guessing how you feel, and what you want. Not making him one of your girlfriends. Show some signs of being a traditional woman. And allowing him to have some traditional man roles
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. puts on his bulletproof vest..
. hides.. behind the couch.. sticks his finger in the air ..this..^^^^^...lol |
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Walks in.........
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pls do not try to keep a man happy
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Good luck
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bj, food, beer
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