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Is it just me or is it kind of scary when someone has as a tagline or in their first communication that they are 'looking for a serious relationship' 'looking for my future wife' 'looking for someone to spend my life with' etc.,,,,? I don't know why, but it feels like a lot of pressure right off, like there is no other option to just get to know each other and build a friendship It feels like if they spend time and it doesn't get 'serious' they will be offended It feels like there is an expectation off the bat that the chemistry be some eternal romance,, ,,,just kind of spooks me, cause I don't know if Im gonna be all that for anyone, and Im not 'looking for ' it,,,,Im just open to the possibility,,, |
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Sun 09/07/14 04:21 PM
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Someone mention beef jerky???!!! * Suddenly wakes up *
The OP, I get what you mean, agree with KLC, that it probably is an authentic wish. But it doesn't appeal to me either. The worst for me is "god-fearing man seeks god-fearing woman". Very freaky 
I think ppl who use phrases like "looking for my future wife" are either new to the dating scene, still thinking you will find him/her within a flash, or ppl who've been alone for a long time and started to grow rather desperate? Authentic as it may be, I don't really like the feel of it either. (Now going to check her own profile to make sure I didn't post something like that myself.  Don't want to come off as being desperate, lol)
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I will be happy if i get true love from a woman who is well trusted no matter the age...I have been cheated by young girls,which i think and know love is natural no matter the age of the person.
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