Is it just me or is it kind of scary when someone has as a tagline or in their first communication that they are

'looking for a serious relationship'
'looking for my future wife'
'looking for someone to spend my life with'


etc.,,,,?



I don't know why, but it feels like a lot of pressure right off, like there is no other option to just get to know each other and build a friendship

It feels like if they spend time and it doesn't get 'serious' they will be offended

It feels like there is an expectation off the bat that the chemistry be some eternal romance,,


,,,just kind of spooks me, cause I don't know if Im gonna be all that for anyone, and Im not 'looking for ' it,,,,Im just open to the possibility,,,