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Topic: Do you trust and act on your intuition?
no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 09/01/14 07:12 AM
I always thought!! that the third Eye was..ohhhh..nevermind.. ..i'm confusing That with the.. Mr one eye...

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 09/01/14 07:18 AM
I always thought!! that the third Eye was..ohhhh..nevermind.. ..i'm confusing That with the.. Mr one eye...

sybariticguy Joined Thu 09/27/12 Posts: 1639	Mon 09/01/14 09:21 PM
For someone intelligent enough to use a term like atavistic, you certainly have a way of making someone feeling negative? being articulate has nothing to do with your assessment of feeling negative as that is what you are feeling not what the other is saying.. blaming othees for your feelings is futile and only encourages you to feel a victim rather than owning your own feelings...

jrt210369 Joined Sat 05/19/12 Posts: 69	Tue 09/02/14 05:03 AM
For someone intelligent enough to use a term like atavistic, you certainly have a way of making someone feeling negative? being articulate has nothing to do with your assessment of feeling negative as that is what you are feeling not what the other is saying.. blaming othees for your feelings is futile and only encourages you to feel a victim rather than owning your own feelings... Good point fella...true!

Anjali95 Joined Tue 09/02/14 Posts: 2	Tue 09/02/14 06:54 AM
I think that you have to be careful in a bar or a club because most of the people that approach you probably aren't looking for the same thing that you are. But i did meet one of my closest friends at a club about a year ago and i'm so happy that i did. I don't think i'm shy but I don't really approach people so i appreciate it when people go out of their way to talk to me and make me feel at ease. So basically when I go out most of the guys that come up to me and my friends come on way too strong and end up making my creepy list but once in a while you'll meet someone you like.

prem97129 Joined Sun 07/27/14 Posts: 1	Tue 09/02/14 06:58 AM
hi ao all

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Tue 09/02/14 07:04 AM
I trust and act on my intuition for the most part.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 09/02/14 07:45 AM
I don't go anywhere looking for a 'potential match'. If I go , I just go to try to enjoy myself. I also don't approach men, so that part of the problem is not a problem. If they approach, they are interested, and from their discussion and mannerisms help me figure out if I want to know them better.

mysticalview21 Joined Sat 06/28/14 Posts: 5462	Wed 09/03/14 04:34 PM
Picture yourself walking into a busy bar or a club. Would everybody scan the joint for potential matches instantly...or take a little time to 'work' the room? Once you had identified potential match(s) do you rush in, do you watch and learn or watch for signs and then either act on them or go home alone again because you weren't sure if he or she was actually into you or just thinking why is he/she keep on staring at me? I am of course making the assumption that you are single in this context, but then 'they' may or may not be...how can you tell without asking or spotting an obvious ring? Personally I have been pleasantly surprised a couple of times I have acted on intuition or impulse and obviously got the signs right.... but equally I have been put down as many times! very long time since I have been in a bar setting ... I don't remember ever working the rm lol I do remember trying to see who was all there ... Once you had identified potential match(s) do you rush in... No ... I do look to see what his actions are ... I have been in many bars ... and some all really different take the Roxy not sure but that bar had several floors and even have been in some others that have several floors ...all depends on the bar how I would go about anything and would hope I would act on my intuition at the same time ...