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Topic: What does a man think if a woman initiates contact?
dreamerana's photo
Mon 08/18/14 01:16 AM
The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative?

isaac_dede's photo
Mon 08/18/14 01:24 AM
that would depend on what things for me.

1. the situation I.e online, in a grocery syore etc.

and

2. the aggressiveness that the initiative hasbehind it. I.e how a strong does she come on to him

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 08/18/14 01:29 AM
You mean....a woman wants to start talking????


Imagine that???

Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 08/18/14 01:33 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Mon 08/18/14 01:34 AM


That wasn't directed at you Dream!!!!flowerforyou That was geared for ALL women, which makes my case better!

2469nascar's photo
Mon 08/18/14 02:47 AM

The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative?
depends,some woman are soooo up front,talking about sex on the first MSG,but if its you ANA,well you can send me smext text talk pics any timedrool

zzzippy56's photo
Mon 08/18/14 03:13 AM
I guess id think maybe this is working for me... Ah its never happened..

AMILIA1724's photo
Mon 08/18/14 03:14 AM

The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative?


That's why I did not message him until now.Even if I really want to....
I don't want him to think that Im very desperate,but the truth is I like him so much.

no photo
Mon 08/18/14 03:15 AM
Nearly all of the conversations I've had since joining up a few weeks ago have been initiated by the Ladies.
I certainly don't see 'desperate' when reading their messages.
I think a lot would depend on the content of the message, the only ones I might call desperate, and they seem more pushy than desperate, are the scammers.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 08/18/14 03:22 AM

What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative?


This male Melmacian has no problem with a female Human taking the initiative.

AMILIA1724's photo
Mon 08/18/14 03:29 AM


What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative?


This male Melmacian has no problem with a female Human taking the initiative.



flowerforyou

bashajones's photo
Mon 08/18/14 03:32 AM


What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative?


This male Melmacian has no problem with a female Human taking the initiative.


Wanna go get a McCatwich at McDodo's with me?.....:tongue:

2469nascar's photo
Mon 08/18/14 03:35 AM


The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative?


That's why I did not message him until now.Even if I really want to....
I don't want him to think that Im very desperate,but the truth is I like him so much.
theres nothing wrong with a woman MSG a man first,thats not desperate,I think its cute,bring it on ladys,,love surprised

Tryztan's photo
Mon 08/18/14 03:37 AM
Why would a female taking initiative be a bad thing?

cowboy102's photo
Mon 08/18/14 05:48 AM
Am a shy person so for a woman txt first or show der initiative wud give mi confidence that a woman is interested in mi.

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 08/18/14 05:57 AM

The question came up on another thread that guys see 'desperate' if a woman initiates conversation. What do men think of a woman who takes the initiative?


Shows interest

no photo
Mon 08/18/14 06:06 AM
If I waited for someone to initiate conversation with me, Id be waiting a very long time... Life is too short.

gavink83's photo
Mon 08/18/14 06:08 AM
if one contacts me first,,,,i assume shes one of the mentally stable ones. the rest have confidence issues an you have to kiss up to them just to get there name.

:P

gavink83's photo
Mon 08/18/14 06:10 AM
the woman picks the man she wants in the long run anyway,,right?

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 08/18/14 06:12 AM

If I waited for someone to initiate conversation with me, Id be waiting a very long time... Life is too short.


Depends on the moment time. Of course it shouldn't be the woman all the time nor the man all the time. But equally showing interest in each other.

dreamerana's photo
Mon 08/18/14 06:57 AM



That wasn't directed at you Dream!!!!flowerforyou That was geared for ALL women, which makes my case better!


Beach I didn't think it was, but thank you for clarifying flowerforyou

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