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Topic: hard to get..???
MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 08/17/14 07:45 PM Edited by MariahsFantasy on Sun 08/17/14 07:45 PM
There's a difference in not rushing and getting to know someone to playing head games.

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sun 08/17/14 08:40 PM
Time and again, people are advised to play it cool, and make any potential love of thier life, do the running.. But does playing hard to get really works..? Getting to know someone is understandable ,but I hate games,straight up,but if I feel you really like me,I may stick around a bit,but sometimes when you play hard to get,you never caught !

Jarsno Joined Wed 12/07/11 Posts: 6283	Sun 08/17/14 08:45 PM


m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Sun 08/17/14 09:18 PM
Time and again, people are advised to play it cool, and make any potential love of thier life, do the running.. But does playing hard to get really works..? Getting to know someone is understandable ,but I hate games,straight up,but if I feel you really like me,I may stick around a bit,but sometimes when you play hard to get,you never caught ! Wich prove that playing hard to get s such a myth..is it..?

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Sun 08/17/14 09:21 PM


2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Sun 08/17/14 09:38 PM
NO its not a myth,look at these two,I bet she played hard to get,and look at them now,,,AAAWW love

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Sun 08/17/14 09:44 PM
NO its not a myth,look at these two,I bet she played hard to get,and look at them now,,,AAAWW love Hahaha..yeah..its like easy things nobody wants but what s forbbiden s tempting..

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 08/18/14 12:12 AM Edited by dreamerana on Mon 08/18/14 12:16 AM
observing and taking notes get to know you make it worthwhile mind games (would that be scrabble or checkers?) must have missed that part oh yeah and forbidden fruit? was this a potluck?

vanillapride Joined Sun 08/17/14 Posts: 3	Mon 08/18/14 12:48 AM
Give a girl time to think, otherwise it will be just random one night stand. Imo, the slower you go the more you'll get. Hello everyone: )

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Mon 08/18/14 04:27 AM
There's a difference in not rushing and getting to know someone to playing head games. bingo mariah. No head games. Im too old. Lol

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 08/18/14 05:34 AM
There's a difference in not rushing and getting to know someone to playing head games. bingo mariah. No head games. Im too old. Lol Lol

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Mon 08/18/14 05:48 AM
There's a difference in not rushing and getting to know someone to playing head games. bingo mariah. No head games. Im too old. Lol Lol too many head games, especially online. Lol

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 08/18/14 05:50 AM
There's a difference in not rushing and getting to know someone to playing head games. bingo mariah. No head games. Im too old. Lol Lol too many head games, especially online. Lol Yeah..so true..

Scoobert Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 12895	Mon 08/18/14 07:43 AM
Time and again, people are advised to play it cool, and make any potential love of thier life, do the running.. But does playing hard to get really works..? If it does, still haven't heard too many stories where it has.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Mon 08/18/14 08:02 AM
They play hard to get, I play hard to want.

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24709	Mon 08/18/14 08:17 AM
They say hard to get is to get hard. No they don't and I'm not really sure what that means.

premierblue Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 361	Mon 08/18/14 08:20 AM
Give a girl time to think, otherwise it will be just random one night stand. Imo, the slower you go the more you'll get. Hello everyone: ) I certainly wouldnt respect a woman who gave in on the first date. Would consider her easy, never for a long term relationship. I guess everybody else on this thread, incl. the op, missed you're new here. Welcome to Mingle and the forum. Participate in the forum and you'll get to meet real people. But I dont see many in your age group on the forums. Anyway, good luck and Bienvenue!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Mon 08/18/14 09:45 AM
I ain't know if am wrong,but to me ,playin hard to get is mind games,and waiting and getting to know someone isn't ,you can let someone know you're interested and pretty much start off from there,you ain't gat to sleep with them right away,that makes more sense than wasting peoples time with mind games,if am going to chase you round like a puppy dog it will help to know that you have some genuine interest in me to say the least!

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Mon 08/18/14 04:52 PM
Give a girl time to think, otherwise it will be just random one night stand. Imo, the slower you go the more you'll get. Hello everyone: ) I certainly wouldnt respect a woman who gave in on the first date. Would consider her easy, never for a long term relationship. I guess everybody else on this thread, incl. the op, missed you're new here. Welcome to Mingle and the forum. Participate in the forum and you'll get to meet real people. But I dont see many in your age group on the forums. Anyway, good luck and Bienvenue! Easy woman were relaxing and fun to b with but could b an embarassment to public..

wildflower73 Joined Fri 07/19/13 Posts: 58	Mon 08/18/14 04:57 PM
I wouldnt do the 'hard to get' routine. Just keep it real.