This was somethin' I had written out a few weeks ago after a friend was complainin' about all the "players" she's met and how she just can't "find a nice guy." Being well-versed in the field of seduction, I wrote this piece out to a very well recepted audience: Both in the seduction community and on my MySpace page where a friend had taken the advice to heart and now has a great boyfriend!

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To every girl who dresses CUTE not SKANKY.
To every girl who wants to be called BEAUTIFUL ...not HOT
To every girl that will spend her whole day looking for the perfect present for YOU.
To every girl who gets her heart BROKEN, because he chose that stupid B**** instead
To every girl that would DIE to have a DECENT boyfriend.
To every girl who would JUST ONCE like to be treated like a PRINCESS!
To every girl that cries at night because of another HEARTBREAK
To every girl that won't get down on her knees & (deleted) just to get a BOYFRIEND
To every girl that just wants to HOLD HANDS
To every girl that kisses him with meaning.
To every girl who just wishes he CARED MORE
To every girl who would JUST ONCE want a guy to give their JACKET UP when they are cold.
To every girl who just wants him to call.
To every girl who lies awake at night THINKING about HIM
To every girl that just wants to cuddle.
To every girl that just wants to sleep with him without HAVING SEX until that day she's ready

TO EVERY GIRL WHO SHOWS HOW MUCH SHE CARES AND GETS NOTHING BACK..

To every girl that thought "maybe this one could be the one."
To every girl that laughs at stupid stuff when she actually doesn't think it is funny.
To every girl who is just looking for that one and only and is having a rough time along the way.
To every girl that DOESN'T WANT a guy who JUST PLAYS WITH HER EMOTIONS but actually cares about how she feels.
To every girl who wants words backed up with actions.
To every girl that fell for all the lies only to find themselves alone in the end.
To every girl that gave her heart away to have it shoved back in her face.
To every girl that has faith that "tomorrow will be a better day."

To every girl who wants a guy that is as described as above...
You've had him. Probably a dozen different times. You've already had the guy you were lookin' for and didn't even recognize it.
The guy you slept with out of pity.
The guy who would hold your purse while you tried on clothes.
The guy that got super-excited whenever he was in your presence, like a puppy dog seeing his master come home.
The guy who told you he loves you after only knowing you for one week... and meant it.
The guy who wrote you cheesy poems and love songs just because he couldn't get you out of his mind.

That guy never became the man he was intended to be.

The handful of women he was successfully able to meet, and then date, were most likely girls like you who got bored with him and left him for a man such as myself.

Men like me are the ones you are drawn to because we can make you feel excited.
Men like me don't mind holding your purse while you try on clothes. Just don't expect us to buy them for you. There are exceptions, though. But don't expect us to fund your wardrobe. =P
Men like me are the ones who enjoy being in your company. But we don't need your love and attention to validate our own feelings or emotions.
Men like me will say "I love you" and honestly mean it. Just not after four days of knowing you.
And while there is nothing wrong with writing a poem for that woman you feel strongly about, men like me will show you through our actions as to how much we care for you. Because actions speak louder than words.

So, to all the girls out there that shoot down that poor soul who approaches you at the bar because he's not the high-energy, out-going, party type, think about all the characteristics you're looking for in a guy first. Those nice guys do exist. I know. I used to be one of them.

The problem with guys is that they don't know when to take that crucial step back. There is a very fine line between showing you how much he loves or cares about you, and smothering you with affection.

Just because we don't call you every day doesn't mean that we're not thinking about you.
Just because we might seem a little "reserved" at times isn't to say that we're no longer interested. We just know when we've been showing that love and affection too much and know that you need a little space to yourself. After all, "distance makes the heart grow fonder." But you'll know when we're giving you you're space and when we're shutting you out.

"To Every Girl Who..."
Know that you have had this guy before. You have already had what you want but you got rid of him because a better prospect came across your radar.
Just know that he does exist. He won't have "NICE GUY" stamped across his forehead or written across his shirt. So start approaching guys that you wouldn't normally go after. Look for the guy who's probably by himself and enjoying the fact that he's out doing something. Talking to him will be the highlight of his day!
And if you get bored with him because some object that's even "brighter and shinier" is now in your field of vision, don't give up on him. After all, he'll give you his coat when you're cold. He'll hold your purse while you're trying on clothes. He'll pay when you two go on a date. He'll get butterflies when he sees you. He'll even spend hours upon hours writing out the perfect poem or sonnet because you mean that much to him. And he hopes that he means that much to you too.

There will always be "players", "macks", and synonimous adjectives out there who can take you on the ride of your life. Because, deep down, you crave that excitement. But then you b**** about how we're not what you "really want."
Think about this for a while. The next time some suave, debonaire man approaches you while you're out... it could be me. The man who likes to have fun, keep things fresh and exciting.
He could also be that "nice guy" you're dreamin' about.
Or in jeans and a plain t-shirt.
Or dressed up like a frat boy (deleted).
Or some country MF that you wouldn't even expect.
Don't judge a book by it's cover, and don't judge a man by his clothes. Take the time to get the story first before you decide whether or not that particular book is worth reading.

The Hypnotist

Comments? Criticisms? Thoughts?

holy crap!!! can you condense that for me??? soooooooooo little time!!!!!!!

I like it!

Can you learn to read faster then? =D

Your post was all contradictory. Are you or aren't you a nice guy? Are you a nice guy disguised as a bad guy? Or are you a bad guy compensating for being a nice guy?

In the end it just comes down to enjoying your life and being receptive to everything or anyone who crosses your path!

I think he's a nice guy..look at those eyes

i THINK he is a bad guy disguised as a nice guy.........who likes jewellery!!!!

So very true.

I'm a little bit of everything, BayArea.

I used to be a total supplicating chump who would, almost literally, do just about anything for a woman to like me. But I've seen "the light" and different pieces of my personality have come about in the last couple of years. There's always been that "nice guy" side to me, and I'll never be able to kill him off. Then there's that "bad boy" who came about during puberty many years ago. Then there's that seducer that I have evolved in to being. Then there's the "old man" I've become from havin' lived on the streets and seen so many things that I thought my head would spin! =D

But why can't someone be one with the qualities of the others? It's makes for a nice, interesting mix.

And, you're right. It is about being more perceptive to everyone and everything around you as. Not enough people do that.

How many girlfriends do you have that keep goin' out with guys that are out for one thing and just gripe about not bein' able to find that "nice guy?" If you're between 20 and 35, I'm sure you know quite a few women like that. But why can't they find that "nice guy?" Because they're not looking for him.

That post was about being more receptive to people around you. He doesn't have to "look like a player" to be a "player."

And just because he's a good lookin' guy and looks like he has it goin' on doesn't mean that he automatically knows the first thing about approaching a woman and knowing how to lead a conversation to something beneficial for the both of them.

Double posts are the theme of the day! =D

Gypsy, I'm not a "bad guy." I am that "nice guy" that many women complain about not bein' able to find. But, unlike these "nice guys" out there, I actually have a backbone. And... yes. I do like jewelry. :D

Katertots, thank you.

I totally get what you're saying in your reply! You're coming into your own skin and that's a good thing! Receptivity is a sign of maturity!

You sound like you're just looking for someone who will allow you to be all of who you are around her. She's out there. Don't give up on that!

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm my esp hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I've been this guy for probably the last 8 years. I just didn't know then that what I was doin' was really workin'. I couldn't read her signals and thought I'd be relegated to the dreaded "Friend's Zone" for all eternity.

Then, one day, by luck, I found this book, and no, it wasn't the Kama Sutra. :D It made me curious. "Do these 'Pickup Artists' really exist?" Needless to say the last year and a half has been an amazing trip.

And I know she's out there. Just not in this hicktown.

Actually, she does. But I screwed it up by pushin' her away back in May. Finally found everything that I thought I had been wanting in a woman. Then that evil son of a ..... called My Brain started playin' tricks on me. I'd get rid of him if it didn't mean death. =D It'd make life so much easier! :D

BLAH MEN ARE IDIOTS!!!!!!!!!!!!

if ya want a chicka then you show it and dont play your stupid little games!!!!!!!!!

The Hypnotist has been around the traps for a while now, on another site...and yep...

Not much has changed...Katers you would probably remember him, from 'over there'.


*Pulls the pity card out of the door, and pops it in the bin*

I can get any guy I want

But i dont like guys lol

i loved it. thank u for posting this.