Jess is right. I've been around the traps for a minute. Both online and off. Social observations make for insightful posts.

What it really boils down to is that if you ladies happen to see a guy, but he's not approaching or making an advance towards you, then try to make that approach or that "first move" on your own towards him. It tends to be a lot more satisfying from what other women have told me.

so hypnotist, I still don't get it...are you the nice guy or the seducer. honestly your screen name sort of suggests that you are the seducer-and seducers are not nice guys.

I've found my own art form, if you will, through seduction. I'm not in to playing games just to have a one-nighter with someone because I can.

To answer your question, I'm not your typical "nice guy" who will do anything and everything to please a woman that will end up giving him the "Let's Just Be Friends" speech. I'm fair but strong in my convictions. My frame, or perception of reality, is very strong and doesn't budge. That's not to say that it's always what I want. I am more than happy to make a compromise to appease the both of us; as opposed to a sacrifice where I'm giving in to something and regretting having done it.

Yeah, I'll hold your purse while you try on clothes. I'll let you wear my jacket if you get cold. I will take care of you. If we are in a committed relationship, I'll even provide for you. But I won't supplicate to your every whim.

I'm not that guy that you get bored with after a few days because he's all about you and gets lovesick when you're not around, texting you constantly, always having to be constant contact. That's not me. I have things to do. So do you. So why take up our time at work, where we're gettin' paid to provide a service, by spending four hours on the phone or email?

My personal business is influence and change. That's why I got in to hypnosis. I'm not out to change anybody because I want them to. If you want to change, I'll use my methods to help you change, but only if it's what you want.

"...and seducers are not nice guys." See, I'm out to change that. The seduction/dating community has labeled me a "seduction artist" as opposed to the more prevalent "pickup artist" term, because I create such a fun enviroment, that I have made seduction the new sexy for these guys.

And I don't do it by being mean to people. Yeah, I'll pull your pigtails and chase you around the playground. Remember those days? I do. I lost a lot of elementary school girlfriends to those guys. LOL It's fun! It's exciting! I truly make it a pleasureable experience to be seduced.

I don't lie. I don't play games. I'm straight forward and to the point. I won't approach and say "I'm gonna **** you tonight." But after... I don't know. Let's say 30 minutes, for arguments sake, you'll know where the night will end. The next hour and a half or two hours is just for fun.

See? Not all seducers are "bad" people. Some of us just like to have fun! =D

But why am I here and not outside somewhere meeting people if I'm such a "great seducer"? Because there aren't any fun people where I live, and the places they do live costs me too much money in gas. Which is why I need to get out of Warrenton and in to St. Louis again.