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Topic: men & questions
Mdarlene's photo
Sun 08/10/14 11:27 AM
Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man. I have been asked to answer 20 questions. Yet he hasn't answered those same 20 questions for me. I find it scary to give out to much information about myself before we meet especially when he has told me he is falling for me, how can that be when we havn't met. With me I want the meet first if there is no spark it is not going any further.

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Sun 08/10/14 11:29 AM
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Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:07 PM

ok so I answered 3 of the easy questions first & told him he must do the same & leave the 10 difficult questions for the meet


-boxers
-if you show me yours
-10 if it's warm

Mdarlene's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:08 PM
ok so I answered 3 of the easy questions first & told him he must do the same & leave the 10 difficult questions for the meet

Mdarlene's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:17 PM


ok so I answered 3 of the easy questions first & told him he must do the same & leave the 10 difficult questions for the meet


-boxers
-if you show me yours
-10 if it's warm
you twit

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:24 PM

Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man.


I never make a woman fill out a report card.
Instead, I run her fingerprints through the FBI data-base.

Mdarlene's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:38 PM


Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man.


I never make a woman fill out a report card.
Instead, I run her fingerprints through the FBI data-base.

Keep it up & I am going to confiscate all of your cats even the *******

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:41 PM



Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man.


I never make a woman fill out a report card.
Instead, I run her fingerprints through the FBI data-base.

Keep it up & I am going to confiscate all of your cats even the *******


You just don't want me checking your fingerprints. :tongue:

Mdarlene's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:42 PM




Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man.


I never make a woman fill out a report card.
Instead, I run her fingerprints through the FBI data-base.

Keep it up & I am going to confiscate all of your cats even the *******


You just don't want me checking your fingerprints. :tongue:

yes you never know what you will find, on second thought I am interested in knowing, run them

BlueskyJ's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:49 PM

Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man. I have been asked to answer 20 questions. Yet he hasn't answered those same 20 questions for me. I find it scary to give out to much information about myself before we meet especially when he has told me he is falling for me, how can that be when we havn't met. With me I want the meet first if there is no spark it is not going any further.

Like you, I'd rather meet first to see if there is a spark...The 20 questions can wait until you meet...If this guy is falling for you before you even meet, I'd consider either meeting him real soon or not at all...

Anyone that falls for somebody without meeting them first has issues...Big, huge, humungus issues...

Clingy, needy, overreative, probably possessive, are just a few of the adjectives about this guy that come to mind.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:53 PM



ok so I answered 3 of the easy questions first & told him he must do the same & leave the 10 difficult questions for the meet


-boxers
-if you show me yours
-10 if it's warm
you twit


rofl flowerforyou

Mdarlene's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:53 PM




ok so I answered 3 of the easy questions first & told him he must do the same & leave the 10 difficult questions for the meet


-boxers
-if you show me yours
-10 if it's warm
you twit


rofl flowerforyou

yes I like you to beachfarmer

Datwasntme's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:54 PM

Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man. I have been asked to answer 20 questions. Yet he hasn't answered those same 20 questions for me. I find it scary to give out to much information about myself before we meet especially when he has told me he is falling for me, how can that be when we havn't met. With me I want the meet first if there is no spark it is not going any further.


just as long is its not bank account numbers or CC numbers : )
<shrug> scammers are everywhere

Mdarlene's photo
Sun 08/10/14 12:57 PM


Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man. I have been asked to answer 20 questions. Yet he hasn't answered those same 20 questions for me. I find it scary to give out to much information about myself before we meet especially when he has told me he is falling for me, how can that be when we havn't met. With me I want the meet first if there is no spark it is not going any further.

Like you, I'd rather meet first to see if there is a spark...The 20 questions can wait until you meet...If this guy is falling for you before you even meet, I'd consider either meeting him real soon or not at all...

Anyone that falls for somebody without meeting them first has issues...Big, huge, humungus issues...

Clingy, needy, overreative, probably possessive, are just a few of the adjectives about this guy that come to mind.

Yes that was what I was thinking to he is also widowed and I think desperate this is scary

Mdarlene's photo
Sun 08/10/14 01:00 PM


Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man. I have been asked to answer 20 questions. Yet he hasn't answered those same 20 questions for me. I find it scary to give out to much information about myself before we meet especially when he has told me he is falling for me, how can that be when we havn't met. With me I want the meet first if there is no spark it is not going any further.


just as long is its not bank account numbers or CC numbers : )
<shrug> scammers are everywhere

I can be prety dumb sometimes but not stupid I wouldn't fall for that one but thnks for the thought

BlueskyJ's photo
Sun 08/10/14 01:05 PM



Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man. I have been asked to answer 20 questions. Yet he hasn't answered those same 20 questions for me. I find it scary to give out to much information about myself before we meet especially when he has told me he is falling for me, how can that be when we havn't met. With me I want the meet first if there is no spark it is not going any further.

Like you, I'd rather meet first to see if there is a spark...The 20 questions can wait until you meet...If this guy is falling for you before you even meet, I'd consider either meeting him real soon or not at all...

Anyone that falls for somebody without meeting them first has issues...Big, huge, humungus issues...

Clingy, needy, overreative, probably possessive, are just a few of the adjectives about this guy that come to mind.

Yes that was what I was thinking to he is also widowed and I think desperate this is scary

yes, it is scary...I would say that for each 10 yrs. of marriage the surviving spouse needs about 1 year of 'me' time before getting involved with another long term relationship...

If he is still talking up his spouse, he's not ready for a relationship...If he's falling for you too quickly, that is scary as it reeks of neediness that only time can heal....

I recommend you tread lightly with this guy and keep your emotions in check....

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Sun 08/10/14 01:09 PM

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Mdarlene's photo
Sun 08/10/14 01:13 PM




Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man. I have been asked to answer 20 questions. Yet he hasn't answered those same 20 questions for me. I find it scary to give out to much information about myself before we meet especially when he has told me he is falling for me, how can that be when we havn't met. With me I want the meet first if there is no spark it is not going any further.

Like you, I'd rather meet first to see if there is a spark...The 20 questions can wait until you meet...If this guy is falling for you before you even meet, I'd consider either meeting him real soon or not at all...

Anyone that falls for somebody without meeting them first has issues...Big, huge, humungus issues...

Clingy, needy, overreative, probably possessive, are just a few of the adjectives about this guy that come to mind.

Yes that was what I was thinking to he is also widowed and I think desperate this is scary

yes, it is scary...I would say that for each 10 yrs. of marriage the surviving spouse needs about 1 year of 'me' time before getting involved with another long term relationship...

If he is still talking up his spouse, he's not ready for a relationship...If he's falling for you too quickly, that is scary as it reeks of neediness that only time can heal....

I recommend you tread lightly with this guy and keep your emotions in check....

OK now he has been widowed 6 years and I have only been widowed 2 1/2 but was married for 38 years and yes I still talk about my spouse so maybe I am the one that is not ready. maybe just a friend with benefits

no1phD's photo
Sun 08/10/14 01:19 PM
ok but before I answer your question
I have a question for you..
what was your grade on your report card..:wink: drinker

BlueskyJ's photo
Sun 08/10/14 01:23 PM





Why must I fill out a report card before meeting a man. I have been asked to answer 20 questions. Yet he hasn't answered those same 20 questions for me. I find it scary to give out to much information about myself before we meet especially when he has told me he is falling for me, how can that be when we havn't met. With me I want the meet first if there is no spark it is not going any further.

Like you, I'd rather meet first to see if there is a spark...The 20 questions can wait until you meet...If this guy is falling for you before you even meet, I'd consider either meeting him real soon or not at all...

Anyone that falls for somebody without meeting them first has issues...Big, huge, humungus issues...

Clingy, needy, overreative, probably possessive, are just a few of the adjectives about this guy that come to mind.

Yes that was what I was thinking to he is also widowed and I think desperate this is scary

yes, it is scary...I would say that for each 10 yrs. of marriage the surviving spouse needs about 1 year of 'me' time before getting involved with another long term relationship...

If he is still talking up his spouse, he's not ready for a relationship...If he's falling for you too quickly, that is scary as it reeks of neediness that only time can heal....

I recommend you tread lightly with this guy and keep your emotions in check....

OK now he has been widowed 6 years and I have only been widowed 2 1/2 but was married for 38 years and yes I still talk about my spouse so maybe I am the one that is not ready. maybe just a friend with benefits
i dunno...there's no set rules...if you feel ready and are able to move forward in your life, than you 'are'...

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