If you are, what are your secrets to charming the panties off the gals?

I start with a "hello, beautiful" and general chit-chat if they nibble at that bait.

If it gets past that and to a first date, I show up just a little late and bring a small, but, thoughtful gift. Usually, it will be something I heard during the chat we had previously. To let her know I was listening and interested.

About three dates later, she's primed to come over to the house for dinner and a movie. I make sure to get a couple chick flicks. Still no pressure. Some soft kissing and snuggling. Ya know, she's in the bag if she kicks her shoes off and lays against you with her feet on the couch.

I make her wait until the next home visit. Then, lay on the romance during a boring foreign film festival.

Slow dancing, swaying to the music. Slow dancing, just me and my gal.

So, tell us your tricks.

There may be some shy Grasshoppers out there who will get some great advice on how to score.

lol no i talk staight what is on my mind
don't sugar coat anything
am to blunt for my own good and i don't lie
<shrug> probly why i am still single lmao

why would people want to use people
i dont get that...

Not about using.

It's about romance. Both getting their needs and desires met.

what are your secrets to charming the panties off the gals?

I just ask them to tell me about themselves.....

Let's just say that within a few hours
the moon usually comes out

Do you sweet talk women or just blurt out,"Hey you, how 'bout a roll in the hay?"

Sincerity goes along way...playing mind games gets you played out....

Sure. Women can see through insincerity.

That's why I am always sincere. I wouldn't approach a woman unless I saw potential for long term.

Takes a few dates and physical intimacy to get relaxed with each other and see if there is compatibility. Has to be emotional, cultural and physical compatibility, no?

A little late. Ten to fifteen minutes.

Anticipation, then, relief when she sees she wasn't stood up.

oh,,

This is when my 90 day rule is needed....you weed out the players they never last long...

Then she'll either not go any farther or get over it.

Most women I've known get irritated if ya show up early.

Just to reaffirm.

Sure. Women can see through insincerity.

That's why I am always sincere. I wouldn't approach a woman unless I saw potential for long term.

You can tell a player when they read and don't respond. Or BS and say they don't romance with sweet linguistics.

Where are the men who love romancing women???? They must be skeert.

And the proverb is right that all men are liars

These are some excellent tips, thanks. It does seem like a lot of work though.

The only reason I have is because that's how I dance.

Romance is like a dance. Done right, ya both get what ya want.

Sure it's some work. But, I enjoy the job.

If all I wanted was sex, I'd get me a 100 peso hooker. Done deal.

Maybe they see it as a trap....

Once I made a girl fall in love with me by letting the phone ring, and ring, and ring, and ring.....until finally she asked, "Are you going to get that?"

I said, "There is no one I want to talk to. YOU....are already here."


....but you see, I don't think I could have pulled that off unless I meant it. So I concur with the above. Sincerity and truth will always trump tricks and manipulation.

With 99% of the women I have had physical intimacy with, the word sex never entered any conversation.

It wound up just being a natural, flowing motion.

Time, patience, sincerity.

The woman is a rose. When we first meet, she is like the bud. Closed up, revealing only the tips of her color.

Time. She starts to trust and open just a little.

Time. Caress her mind, her body will follow.

All of this takes time.

Tick-tock, tick-tock, tick-tock, tick-tock, tick-tock.

How long? From a matter of hours to years.

No games. No manipulation. No tricks.

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"By seeing beyond what is visible to the eye. Now there are those, of course, who do not share my perceptions, it's true. When I say that all my woman are dazzling beauties, they object. The nose of this one is too large; the hips of another, they are too wide; perhaps the breasts of a third, they are too small. But I see these women for how they truly are� glorious, radiant, spectacular, and perfect, because, I am not limited by my eyesight. Women react to me the way that they do, Don Octavio, because they sense that I search out the beauty that dwells within until it overwhelms everything else. And then they cannot avoid their desire, to release that beauty and envelope me in it."