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Topic: in relationships does age really matter?
hillax's photo
Sat 08/02/14 07:21 AM
based by my opion hell naw,love is not based by age coz if thats so those couples that undergo breakups to even an extent of getting a divorces after a spending 25years on marriage what would be wrong?whats your say on this topic

Datwasntme's photo
Sat 08/02/14 08:04 AM

based by my opion hell naw,love is not based by age coz if thats so those couples that undergo breakups to even an extent of getting a divorces after a spending 25years on marriage what would be wrong?whats your say on this topic


yes , if they are under 18 you go to jail (well all depending on where you live)
on top of the factor it all matters how mature you want your partner
older we get the more info we know <shrug>

redandgold49ers's photo
Sat 08/02/14 09:28 AM

based by my opion hell naw,love is not based by age coz if thats so those couples that undergo breakups to even an extent of getting a divorces after a spending 25years on marriage what would be wrong?whats your say on this topic
I am 50 and I know I do not want a 20 year old. Come on now after the sex what do you two really have to talk about or do? I am talking about a 20 year old and me not you.

m3k4y's photo
Sat 08/02/14 09:42 AM
Edited by m3k4y on Sat 08/02/14 09:40 AM
No..age s just a number..in fact if I would look someone to b my partner an older one s ideal..im still young and would appreciate it so much being learnt from my partner..:-) :-)

dcastelmissy's photo
Sat 08/02/14 10:10 AM
I agree absolutely with you KLC! Extremely well stated flowerforyou

m3k4y's photo
Sat 08/02/14 10:16 AM
Its really just a number to me because I dont really care about age..even my age..cos u know what if u matter ur age a lot it'll just make u look older than ur age..just let it pass through..
:-) no offense meant..different people, thinks different ways..

no1phD's photo
Sat 08/02/14 10:57 AM
does ..the edge of popcorn matter, i mean does it get Stale..noway

no1phD's photo
Sat 08/02/14 11:04 AM
i thnk it might be Iawnchair time..lol.
.and right when you're thinking childish.!!!..in pOps ..No1:banana: biggrin laugh :angel:

m3k4y's photo
Sat 08/02/14 11:10 AM
:-) blushing

dreamerana's photo
Sat 08/02/14 11:20 AM

if someone doesnt want to be with you because of age, you have to accept that. everyone has preferences for whatever their reason.

saying ridiculous stuff like 'age is just a number' means nothing. It is a number the law uses, it is a number people use in preferences, it is a number we use to determine rape, drinking alcohol, smoking, voting, movie rating, babysitting certifying. You cant even RUN for president without meeting an age requirement and who's nuts enough to do that? Think about all that.

age is not, and has never been 'just a number' unless you refer to your personal imaginary world, and would like to identify yourself by the phrase. Age is something that can be tremendously meaningful. Those meanings are personal to each of us. those meanings should be explored by each partner unless you actually have no real interest in them anyway.

Find someone who is comfortable with your age difference or move on. it has nothing to do with right or wrong. its comfort, which we all deserve.


I agree with this. we all look for someone can enjoy spending time with. what works for me may not work for others. I respect that.
Generally speaking our interests shift as we mature. in our early adulthood many of us do craziness and try to establish who we are. many of us progress to broadening our horizons and find that stage where we are comfortable within ourselves.
im comfortable with who I am and prefer to get to know people who are similar instead of those who try to impress because they feel the need to prove something to the world.

dreamerana's photo
Sat 08/02/14 11:24 AM

i thnk it might be Iawnchair time..lol.
.and right when you're thinking childish.!!!..in pOps ..No1:banana: biggrin laugh :angel:

laugh
flowerforyou

kc0003's photo
Sat 08/02/14 11:26 AM
all things that comprise a relationship matter, age, maturity, race, looks, intellectual compatibility, chemistry, sense of humor, personal style, economics, distance, personality, timing, attraction, politics, religion...the list can go on, but the point is that it is up to each of us individually as too how much they do matter. everyone is different.

hillax's photo
Sat 08/02/14 11:49 AM
i can feel you klc,but we are not talking about politics nor underage cases we are talking about relationships you feel me now

hillax's photo
Sat 08/02/14 11:51 AM
i can feel you,be realistic do you have a grandma if you do when you pay him a visit do you lack something to talk about,,,,if yu dont thats why you find it difficult

hillax's photo
Sat 08/02/14 11:53 AM
i feel you,thats the way to go,everyone should accept that age is jst a number

hillax's photo
Sat 08/02/14 11:57 AM
thats its gal,age is just a number whether thy agree or disagree thats the fact

soufiehere's photo
Sat 08/02/14 12:51 PM
Edited of personal attacks.
Please discuss the topic, not the posters.

soufie
Site Moderator

kc0003's photo
Sat 08/02/14 12:54 PM
grumble and here i thought i showed restraint! laugh

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 08/02/14 01:07 PM
The "Age is just a number" claim is often promoted by people who are desperate for a relationship. I hope that's not the case here.

no photo
Sat 08/02/14 01:49 PM
Edited by Tin_Tin143 on Sat 08/02/14 01:52 PM
I would not consider dating twenty-one and below-year older guys. I would prefer not too wrinkled older man, one who is done with all the lying and cheating and such games of younger ones, one who is not too perverted to have true feelings for me. How silly it seems but yea. I am working things out with a twenty-year older man eight thousand miles away from me. I am waiting with high hopes. How I wish he's the one for me already.

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